Question Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:57 pm
14/F
please help! okay so 2 nights ago i masturbated for the second time and again felt absolutley nothing. i mean i felt it but it didnt feel good or bad it didnt feel like anything. i stuck my finger up there and nothing happened. whats wrong with me!!
my way of masturbating really taht feels good is making a fist and doing a hitting pounding motion on my bladder lower area. it feels really good.
whats wrong with me. any ideas why i cant feel anything and why the "hitting pounding" feels good!!!!!
karisue answered Saturday November 18 2006, 5:05 pm: this is normal because during sex, a guys upper pelvis area hits/pounds against a girls clitoris(which is near your bladder) & causes a girl to orgasm.
Melody answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 4:20 pm: Your blatter is located near your G-spot. This is somewhat like the clitoris, in that when a woman gets touched there, it feels amazing. That could explain the pounding/hitting. Nothing's wrong with you. All women experience sexual exitement in different ways. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
MissxJacky answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 1:46 pm: Well you're probably not finding your position of masturbating.
Your clitoris is right above your vagina.
So you should rub in and out of your vagina and then go out and move around your clitoris.
That's usually the way you're supposed to do it.
But it's different for everyone.
If you do it more often you'll find the position you like best.
I'm sure everything will work out for you.
queenhearts answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 1:37 am: Well you just don't get turned on by that way. I think later when you have sex you probably will. Some girls just don't feel anything by doing that and sadly, it's normal. You just have to find some other way.
sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 1:15 am: Many women aren't stimulated by vaginal sex. They only feel pleasure from stimulation of the clitoris. The clitoris is located close to where you are hitting. Look at these websites. They explain what the clitoris is, where it's located, what orgasms are, and how to make them happen. There's a whole lot of other information on the site, too. Good luck. :)
MotherDuck answered Tuesday November 14 2006, 11:44 pm: Dear Masturbation,
Everyone is different. Some people like rubbing the clitoris, and some don't. Do what you want. Do you orgasm when you pound down there? If you do then you masturbating!
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