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okay well this guy and me have been "together" fo about 4 months... hes never really offically asked me out, but i guess you could say were dating. im a really jealous person and i was looking at his myspace, and he added 12 new people (all girls, and all very pretty) he said he doesnt talk to them, and that i look better than them, but im still very jealous... should i be mad/jealous about this?? and also... since he hasnt asked me out (officially), do you think theres a chance he might ask me to homecoming? hes not talked/been with any other girl except for me, since june, so is there a chance he might ask me? also, what are soem hints i could give him to let him know that i want to go with him? thanks a buncH!!
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ok well if you want him to ask you.....stop being so jelouse....who cares there only pretty girls if he sais your better looking chill out.....and if you really want to go to homecoming with him just ask him......its not uncomen that girls ask guys....its not that he dosnt want to go with you its just that some guys are slower when it comes to that....but i`m sure everything is going to work out fine for you
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I'm going to start with the bottom, as in the simplest.
A really good hint is asking him. We no longer live in a age were woman are considered wenches for being bold. So there's no reason except your own fear to stop you from asking him.
Yes, there's a chance he might ask you, especially if you are at least a friend to him and especially if you're together. But why not ask him yourself?
STOP looking at the myspace, now. It's just making an already existing problem worse. So what if he has girls listed and they're pretty? My blog has buddies that are men, doesn't mean I'm suddenly going to get the itch to run off to them. Besides, if it's making you feel insecure, you really need to have a mature discussion with him. That means no accusing, no hear-say, no raising voices.
It all comes down to one thing though and to put it bluntly (again), you're an insecure person. I suggest talking with either your school counsellor or just get an outside one. I know it's not exactly cool, but depression and suicide aren't that far from daily insecurity.
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haha myspace is a tricky one! i know how you can get curious but i don't think there's anything to worry about. as long as you trust him it's fine. juss ask him what he thinks about homecoming & if he seems excited about it, you can ask him to go with you. no problem in that since you guys are practically dating.
-hope that helped!♥
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