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This one guy
Alright, to start off...i'm a tomboy. Im in to all those sports, and dress like a guy pretty much. Im friend with a bunch of guys. And i have band with this one guy we can call L. Whenever i have to wear those tight jeans or a dress/skirt for band, is like the only time he is really nice to me. all the rest of the time, he seems really annoyed with me. Like at football games when we play, (i'm wearing tight clothing then [band uniform]) he is like flirting with me the whole time. and sometimes in band, he just like "A, you can't do that so just stop." and gives me this annoyed look. And then a couple of nights ago, we had a band concert, and again i was wearing tight clothing. he kept checking out my butt, and my chest and stuff. Then later, that night [still at the concert] we are talking about this really nerdy freaking idiot kid we can call g. Well then i can't really remember what made him say this, but he was like "but a, your face is like really ugly." and i was like "yeah thanks[in a sarcastic way]"
do you think he was just like joking around, or serious. lots of people have told me that if i dressed girly, i would be soooo much prettier. but i dunno, its really getting at me. Do you think he likes me? hes a jerk so i would NEVER go out with him but whaddyou think?
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alright hun....this guy isnt worth your time because you want somebody to like you for what you are....and to bad if people dont like that your a tomboy.....you'll grow out of that at your own time....i dont think what other people think should matter to you...yes i know its hard not to care but i was just like you and when you want to change how you look because of you...then thats fine but dont change for someone else....if you like the way you dress and you like what you do then thats all that should matter....dont worry
hope i helped hun
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first if all if he says something ti you like that dont talk to him anymore
and as for the tomboy thing
i suggest you go to american eagle or areopostle and get a couple of camis and put them under a couple of slim fit t-shirt(from same place) and make sure to show just the bottom of the cami
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You know what I think?
This guy is a jerk.
He does not like you like that and likes messing with you. If you decided to go out with him, the relationship would be based off of him liking you for the way you dressed. Don't pursue it. I mean, he might be doing this subconsciously, but it doesn't give him the right to call you ugly.
That's all I have to say. I think you can understand it from there.
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