Alright on sunday my boyfriend fingered me, and this was the first time I've ever been fingered. It hurt a lot, and afterwards I bled a little. Now when I pee it burns and hurts a lot...
Is it normal for it to hurt or bleed the first time? And if he scratched me could it get infected?
chicky_please answered Sunday May 21 2006, 10:41 am: Alright hun.....i'm thinking you bled because he might have poped your cherry, and it does hurt the first time because the skin inside of you is fairly tight so his big manly finger mght have stretched you out so i wouldnt worry about it
hope i helped hun and if you have anymore question feel free to ask. [ chicky_please's advice column | Ask chicky_please A Question ]
LaceNsilk109 answered Friday May 19 2006, 9:11 pm: The first to I got fingered. I didn't bleed but I had some pain for a day or so. I actually didn't enjoy it at the time but I do now.
I'm no doctor but I'd keep an eye on your problem for a day or so but you still are having problems after that .... GO TO THE DOCTOR'S OFFINE....I'm guessing an infection could be a possibility so don't dilly-dally.
snowbird answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 10:11 am: Yes, it could get infected. You need to make sure, if you do it again, that his nails are cut very short and are clean. If his nails have any dirt under them and he scratches you it could cause an infection. More than likley the problem is that you got a small scratch and the urine is burning it. No biggie. But next time just remember to voice you opinion when it hurts and tell him what to do or not to do. Lube works good and make sure to have him use it. [ snowbird's advice column | Ask snowbird A Question ]
kaylaxosays answered Monday May 15 2006, 8:45 pm: Theres always a chance that a cut can get infected. No matter where it is on your body. But, as long as you keep yourself clean down there.. you should have nothing to worry about. Its probably only uncomfortable because it was your first time.
Now about the blood.. you bled because when he fingered you he most likely "popped your cherry" which means he broke the patch of skin called the hymen on the inside of your yeah.. haha
totally normal. most girls will bleed the first time they get fingered.
But if the irritation continues you should definitly go see a doctor. [ kaylaxosays's advice column | Ask kaylaxosays A Question ]
Teza answered Monday May 15 2006, 8:17 pm: When it hurts it's pretty normal but it isn't supposed to bleed. He probablly was rough and ripped a piece of skin or maybe, possibly, broke your hymen. If it continues to hurt, get checked just incase it isn't serious. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
speedstreet answered Monday May 15 2006, 7:24 pm: dude it could be cause you probally haven't had sex right? so thaT means you prabaly ripped something you better go get it checked. when i got fingered by my b/f I didn't bleed but it hurt when i went to the bathroom [ speedstreet's advice column | Ask speedstreet A Question ]
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