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My name is Geri-lynn

I live in Harvey, Louisiana. Harvey is on the westbank of the New Orleans metro area, so yes I hate Katrina. But pretty much everything is okay now, it`s back to normal. The sluts, the rumors, and the parties are now open for business.I have a boyfriend and I love him. I REALLY DO LOVE HIM. But my mother hates him. He is 18. He goes to my school`s rival, West Jeff. He plays baseball and football. He was Mr. West Jeff & I'm oh so proud of him. I have the best friend ever, i love you kB


Adrianna

- The name is ^

- 16

- Junior

- I work

- I Volunteer

** I like giving advice. it may not be the best but it is the honest truth. I dont judge before hand but if your an idiot.. then your an idiot. I dont care much for people that lack common sense and say stupid idiotic crap just for attention. But other then that im a really nice, and understanding person. Chances are i've been through the stuff you are going throu or i just know knowlegde about it. and other times i have no earthly idea on how to help you. But anywho Bye**


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omg i hate myself sooo much....i'm not supposed to miss my ex and stuff. i'm not supposed to cry over him when i'm going out with my bf joe. god i'm soooo stupid and i shouldn't cry over schuyler i'm like joe a lot i'm a bitch and a whore i don't know what i should do.

wow hun maybe you rushed to much into that relationship. you prolly didnt have time to get over your ex which im sure you didnt. you shouldnt deny the fact that you like someone. cause it isnt your decision it is your hearts. you cant help who you like, maybe you should take a break out of the relationship with your b/f now and just take time to think things throu and think about what it is that you want. you dont have to be commited to anyone if you dont want to.. clam down and dont put yourself down

-Adrianna

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Can too much attention freak a girl out and make her back off? Even though you're really close? I've heard people say this before, but I'm not too sure, and now I'm affraid that I've been bothering my girlfriend with too much attention.

yeah totally alot of attention can get to clingy for a gurl or anyone of that matter. dont back off just dont show her as much.. she still knows. she wont want someone to be obsessed over her you know.. that may get her thinkin and agervated. well this is a personal experience from me.

-Adrianna

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what is a good amount of money per hour

if i dont really know the kids except that that they are a sister of a family friend

and that the daughter is 2 and the son is 7

well 5.50 and hour plus 2 dollars extra for a kid. so 7.50 an hour.. well i think that is resonable

-Adrianna

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Is running a half a mile in 4 mins and 43 seconds fast regular or slow?

its average..

a whole mile is averaged about 8 to 9 minutes for elementary students. ( like 4 and 5 grade) well in my old elementary school.. but none the less that is really good timing

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My and my boyfriend went all the way the other day and about 20 minutes after we were done i was bleeding out of my vagina, not heavy like a period buti could tell i was bleeding. It only lasted a few hours also. I have had sex before once but that didnt happen after words! What happened? Is something wrong? Please help

the first time you had sex could be that he ddint pop your cherry. it happenes to alot of people. alot of my freinds experience that. and not everyone bleeds all the time anyway.. it is totally normal

-Adrianna

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Hi, well I've just start used tampons, and I'm still on my first one. It's been very well over 8 hours, and when I try to pull it out, it hurts. I'm doing it slowly, but it doesn't really budge. Also note that it is an expanding tampon. So is it a good idea to try to fill it up with water? And is it supposed to hurt a whole lot for the first time you remove it?

agh the same thing happen to me. like others said it prolly isnt completely drunged with. non disgustin way to put it. if it is dry it will def hurt and that is not always the case. it being your first time usualy hurts regardless.. and being a virgin could posssiably effect it to

-Adrianna

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ok, im going to be straight forward with this...

i have an unusually large penis, 10 inches, and my girlfriend is afraid to have sex with me because of it. She has no issues with any other kind of sexual activities, but she does NOT want that thing in her. what do i do?

seduce her... get her drunk?
idk lol.


lmbo well i dont blame her.. humm well just go nice and slow.. wait until she is comfortable. dont get her drunk or seduce her. i mean she will def still feel it.. lmbo i guess sometimes bigger isnt always better

-Adrianna

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I don't think there's enough questions on advicenators that mention abortions. I assume there's more females on this site then males, so why does it seem like there are mainly pro-life supporters? We're women. Women with so many choices and laws that allow us those choices. I agree in having your own opinion, but never force it onto someone else. If someone is considering an abortion, why talk them out of it, bringing it up as a sin and disgusting? I'm proud to be pro-choice & you'd think nowadays more women would be. Why aren't you?

I really dont even think this is a question.. but anyways, I used to think like that tooo but I realized there are alot of young mothers who cant take care of kids like they should be taken care of. So why would you want to put a child in that situation? The mother will most likely drop out of schoool, not go back and end up working two, three jobs to support the kid. SOOO ? Does that really make sense? The family will be pn welfar and it will start a cycle. I live in Louisiana so I know.. This is a stupid topic.. This is an advice site, not a discussion one...

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I would like to know what you would do in my situation:

My friend M (17) has always been considered straightedge. Well the other day she comes out and says "I WANT TO DRINK. I FEEL THAT I AM MISSING OUT ON MY LIFE." Now she never told me this. I had to find out through the grapevine. Well then monday night she and my boyfriend B (19) and our other friend T (18) decided to get drunk at my boyfriend's house. Now I got really upset about it. I haven't talked to M about it yet, but I know what she will say "Your time will come when you are out of high school with your liscense and you can do this stuff." I really want to know if I am right in feeling mad at her about it all. As I said she always was like "I am never drinking." Then she came out of the blue with all of this.

Thank you.

I dont know you would be mad at her... I really dont its all her stuff ya know.. Like if she wants to drink, its up to her.

=] gerii

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ok, here's the thing: my friend and I are giving our other friend, who's a bisexual guy, a makeover. He's willing to spend $300 and we can do basically anything. any suggestions(stores, styles, etc.)?

abercrombie & fitch andc hollister...
and not american eagle! ewww....
make him sexyy

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my fever is 100.9 , is that bad?
I have been having horrible aches and pains, stuffed up sinuses (ears, nose, throat)
and i feel woozy half of the time.

yea, you are sick..
its a kinda bad fever

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I'm 14/F. ok, I'm going to a graduation party this weekend and we will most likly end up playing spin the bottle or truth or dare, or some other type of kissing game. A guy I like might be at the party and if me and him are supposed to make-out, is it a turn-on to him if I'm like "ok, let's go for it!". (or basically not turning the kiss down.)

PS... not sure if this is in the right topic, but I just figured it fit this one best.

do it

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Are there many girls that don't shave down there? Or do most? I was messing around with my bf today, and his hands "slipped" down there and I hadn't shaved. I asked him if he minded and he said he didn't, but I dunno. I've never shaved it before and am not sure whether I should start. Can someone give me some advice? I don't want him to be grossed out.

YES, i think most girls shav down there. I def do.. Um if you dont want to you dont have to, but at least shave and make it a trianlge.. for summer

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i have this really good freind, maybe a best freind, and well to ALL of my other freinds she says I LOVE YOUUUU, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. but she never says it to me. like she says it all the time, liek if you didn't know her you may think shes a lezbian.. BUT SHES NOT. why doesn't she say it to me?

wondering.. if u are a guy it could be because she doesnt want to give you mixedd signals and doesnt want you to take it in the wrong way or maybe she really does love you and doesnt want you to know. now if you are a gurl then maybe she just still doesnt want you to think she is too open .. get itt

-Adrianna

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im so self consious about myself.
i deffinately am fat, no getting past it.
im 5'3 and 140 pounds. yikes.

what are some excersizes i could use
that really show results??
kthanksbye.

I would try things like running/jogging. And since its summer swimming. Get excersize tapes like yoga, pilates, bellydancing & strip aerobics for a fun workout. Also try dancing... itd\s fun too.


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Any tips on how to make a long distance relationship work?



15/f He moved at the beginning of the month, and it's hard. But I really don't wanna give up.

Hmmm. i dont know but I know its possible because just last night, I saw a couple on tv who were geting married after 1 & 1/2 year relationship... they were 3000 miles apart. Just talk alot. Say on the phone & text message all day. If yuo dont hva text messaging, get it. Make sure it is unlimited too.

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ok i am 13 female and the first time i got my period was in october of 2005! the thing is that i was masturbating when it came on and i thought it was my period ( the 1st one i ever had). then it didnt come back for a really long time now it May and it hasnt really came on. 2 days ago i say a little blood but it was only the size of a nickel and it stopped 10 minutes after. was that my period? also when i was masturbating did i pop my cherry? it didnt hurt and it bled for 2 days. then i never saw it again. i havent had sex at all ever so i know its not anything like that. please help me!
i rate high for good answers.

when u pop your cherry, for some people it doesnt hurt honestly and a lot of people dont bleed the day or or right after. u can bleed for two days and maybe more. you are popping your hymen. a piece of thin skin. so it may hurt but then again it all depends... bleeding for 10 minutes is not a period.. maybe it bleed more afterwhile.
-Adrianna

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Me and my bf had sex without a condom and he cummed inside me..i was on my period though and it ends in two days. I figure i should be ok because sperm only can survive inside you for 3-5 days right? and the egg for next month wont be coming down for a couple weeks right? should i be worried or am i most likely not pregnent?

yes u most certsinly can get preg. on your period. if you only had to two days left then the egg is pretty much settles. their is still a chance but but dont stress about it..

-Adrianna

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My boyfriend & I have been together for almost a year. We haven't had any kind of sex, but it's getting to the point where that's the only place to go. I'm not ready and there's a few reasons still. I don't love him yet and I'm very self-concious. When we're in the mood and getting passionate, I really want to but I stop myself and feel like I'm teasing him. Should I really wait or give in to my temptations?

noo waitt. why does it seem like the only place to go.. that is non-sense. yeah i def dont get that. if you arent ready then your not ready. dont let sex be the only option in a relationship cause that will eventually be the main attraction in the relationship after while.. dont be foolish

-Adrianna

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Hello..
My husband and I have been married for 6 months. We both are vigins and we are in our early 20's.
We have tried to have sex but everytime we try I experience severe pain and we stop. We tried lubricant but that didn't help either.
Please help! Is there any methods?

hum everyone pretty much experience severe pains. maybe you cant take pain as much as others. Lubricant is the right method really or you just make sure you get in the righttttt high climax mood so you wont think about it as much. thats cute thou

-Adrianna

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