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not quite ready?
My boyfriend & I have been together for almost a year. We haven't had any kind of sex, but it's getting to the point where that's the only place to go. I'm not ready and there's a few reasons still. I don't love him yet and I'm very self-concious. When we're in the mood and getting passionate, I really want to but I stop myself and feel like I'm teasing him. Should I really wait or give in to my temptations?
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Well if you have that feeling you always go with your gut and your heart and especially if you dont LOVE him yet! Tell him everything except the fact that you may not love him yet that could ruin the relationship! But you do need to tell him how you feel! Hope I helped Good luck
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noo waitt. why does it seem like the only place to go.. that is non-sense. yeah i def dont get that. if you arent ready then your not ready. dont let sex be the only option in a relationship cause that will eventually be the main attraction in the relationship after while.. dont be foolish
-Adrianna
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Wait. You'll be glad you did.
I can't even begin to tell you how fantastic sex is when you're ready and in love.
You shouldn't feel guilty for it either. You aren't teasing him if he knows where you stand on the issue. Just remember...he too makes the decision to get hot and heavy knowing it won't lead to sex.
If he cares about you, he'll support you and accept your decision to wait. If he doesn't, he just isn't the right guy.
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Of course you should wait if you don't feel ready. Sex isn't something you do just 'cause you've done everything else.
But you also really should talk to your boyfriend about this and make sure your intentions are clear. Also ask him if he is feeling teased and dicuss the lines that you aren't willing to cross with eachother. That way everything is out in the open and there shouldn't be any bullying or expectations beyond what you both have decided on.
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you should wait.
tell him your not ready
but that when you are you will.
he will understand
trust me.
you WILL regret it.
even if your not planning to do It with HIM
just wait until you love him.
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You should seriously wait if you know that you are not ready yet because you might regret it after.
♥
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well i mean you should wait but damnn bang that motherfucker!
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if this is your first time you should think about it some more. but if its not then go for it!
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NEVER give in to your tempations unless you're 100% sure that it's ok. if you're having doubts about it then you definently shouldnt do it.
at least wait until you love him to do it♥
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