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i have this really good freind, maybe a best freind, and well to ALL of my other freinds she says I LOVE YOUUUU, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. but she never says it to me. like she says it all the time, liek if you didn't know her you may think shes a lezbian.. BUT SHES NOT. why doesn't she say it to me?
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maybe she's not comfortable saying it to you. another reason might be because you give off the vibe that saying I LOVE YOU to your girl friends isn't your type of thing.
i know my best friend doesn't say it to me, but says it to her other friends. it's not offensive to me... because i prefer not to use it. i find it kind of girly and fake-ish.. but that's just my opinion.
if it's bothering you enough, you should have a friendly talk with her and ask her why.. straight out, and say that it bothers you, etc. maybe she never realized it, or maybe she thought you weren't that type of person.
hope i helped.. good luck!
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Maybe she doesn't love you.
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wondering.. if u are a guy it could be because she doesnt want to give you mixedd signals and doesnt want you to take it in the wrong way or maybe she really does love you and doesnt want you to know. now if you are a gurl then maybe she just still doesnt want you to think she is too open .. get itt
-Adrianna
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Well maybe you should say I love you first. That will give her the signal that it is okay for her to say it to you.
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I'm gonna agree with the person below me. Maybe you are a more conservative person and love from another girl would seem a little strange. I'm not saying you are, however, your friend might think so. I have a few friends that hate affection like that. They will give you a weird look and be like "ewww" in their heads if some other girl said "I love you" to them. Don't worry, it's not that she does't love you, maybe she just feels you would be grossed out about it. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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maybe she feels your more conservative about the whole "girls showin love thing" I have a couple friends who if you say "i love you!" she will give you a weird look. it doesnt mean she doesnt think your a great friend. maybe if you say it first she will start saying it also.
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