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harrasment?


Question Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 10:22 pm

if a guy you are making out with puts his hands on your boobs like ONTOP of your shirt, not under it, is that sexual harrasment or assault? what if while youi were making out he put his hands in the back pocket of your jeans and squeezed your butt? is that harrassment? thanks so much!

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jumadel answered Wednesday June 7 2006, 3:50 am:
Hi, if the guy puts his hands on top of a girls boobs it is more of a sexual abuse than anything. It is not harressment but more of a sexual abuse. Harressment is when someone follows somebody around and stalks her premises. The guy can't touch you without her consent and if he has sex with her without consent it is classed as rape. Rape is a very serious crime and is punishable for a prison sentence. If you know of anybody who is touching you in anyway you don't like then talk to your parents, a trusted adult, school counsellor or the police. They can give you advice. Remember its your body and you decide who touches it. Daniel.

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fashion_frenzy06 answered Saturday June 3 2006, 7:01 pm:
um.....no hes just showing you how much hes into you....like if you dont feel comfortable with that let him know and continue to what you are doing.and if he continues tell him to back off!

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xOViLLYxO answered Friday June 2 2006, 3:37 pm:
That`s just how most guys are I don`t think its harrassment but if you asked him to stop I guess you can say it is but if not then no.You have to consider thats just what most guys do..it`s not that bad.&hearts;

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tasuki answered Thursday June 1 2006, 10:24 pm:
It's only harassment if you didn't want him to do it. If you gave your consent, it's perfectly okay. If he does something you don't like, tell him to stop, and if he doesn't stop, kick him in the groin and find a better guy.

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Tulipg17 answered Thursday June 1 2006, 1:26 pm:
He is ungodly rude. Once you tell him to stop or not do it any more and he does, it's harassment and possible assult. Tell him to stop.

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x_woah_me answered Thursday June 1 2006, 4:14 am:
If you told him to stop.. then yes, but if you didn't tell him not to.. then it's not.. sorry.

&hearts; me

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karenR answered Thursday June 1 2006, 2:18 am:
If your making out with a guy they try those things. You need to tell him to stop if you don't want him doing that. Maybe even before you start the kissing.

If you tell him to stop and he continues despite your saying no...its assault.

Sexual harassment...which seems to be used a lot in the wrong way these days, is when you are
harassed in the workplace by someone who is your superior. One who has the power to promote you or fire you. Someone who makes you feel your job is in jeopardy if you don't put put.

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helpachick answered Thursday June 1 2006, 1:13 am:
hey! its not harrasment or assault unless you tell him to stop and he won't. otherwise, if you don't do anything to stop it, its not considered harrasment. xoxo helpachick

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UHOHxOMFG answered Thursday June 1 2006, 12:28 am:
not really. if you tried to stop him and he didnt then it would be but if you told him & he didnt then yeah.

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crazycool92 answered Thursday June 1 2006, 12:07 am:
it is unless you dont mind
if you want him to stop and you tell him to stop then yeah
but if you dont say anything than no

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Mackenzie answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 11:56 pm:
Did you tell him to stop? If you did not tell him to stop, you gave it the go ahead and you have no case.

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xokristabelle answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 11:54 pm:
Assault= attacked
Sexual harassment= unwanted attention or touching of "private parts".

If you're comfortable with it, it's nothing.

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orphans answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 11:43 pm:
NO! he was just being intimate. if it makes you uncomfortable tell him!

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herbivore answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 11:04 pm:
hey. assult means that he attacked you. assult means that you did not want him doing that to you and you tried to stop it. harrasment is to irrate and persist to do something. so it it was bugging you but you didnt stop him then it is harrasment. hope this helps!! :] &hearts; &hearts; &hearts;

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