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hate myself
omg i hate myself sooo much....i'm not supposed to miss my ex and stuff. i'm not supposed to cry over him when i'm going out with my bf joe. god i'm soooo stupid and i shouldn't cry over schuyler i'm like joe a lot i'm a bitch and a whore i don't know what i should do.
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First off, (and don't get pissed at me for this) putting yourself down when you already are feeling down never got anyone anywhere. I say things to myself a lot like "I hate myself" or "why do I do such stupid things?" and "I'm a terrible boyfriend" but it never helps, it just makes things worse.
You're not a whore, and you're not a bitch. Even though I don't know you, I can say that honestly. It looks like you jumped into a new relationship to cover the pain of a pervious one. You don't seem like you're over your old bf, and that's ok. It's normal for your heart to take a while to heal.
My advice would be to suspend the relationship you have at the moment for a little while. Not a break up, just take a bit of time to think things over and to heal. These things never go away by drowning them in a new love, they just have to "dry up" on their own. Once you're feeling better, then you'll want to get involved more in your relationship with this Joe guy. ^_~
Also, let your bf know what is happening. If he's an understanding person, he'll help and support you the best he can. Good luck! ^_^
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wow hun maybe you rushed to much into that relationship. you prolly didnt have time to get over your ex which im sure you didnt. you shouldnt deny the fact that you like someone. cause it isnt your decision it is your hearts. you cant help who you like, maybe you should take a break out of the relationship with your b/f now and just take time to think things throu and think about what it is that you want. you dont have to be commited to anyone if you dont want to.. clam down and dont put yourself down
-Adrianna<3
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Wow honey, calm down a little and relax. You sound like you just need some time to yourself to sort out your feelings. Maybe take a break from your boyfriend and figure out if you are better off alone of him him (or with the ex). Don't beat yourself up over this. Feelings are feelings, you can't help them so don't stress about them.
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First off, you're not a bitch or a whore, you're a teenager and this is the kind of stuff teenagers go through.
You need to keep this in perspective. I'm guessing you're about 14 or 15 - 16 at the most, in which case you have to remember that it's incredibly unlikely that Joe or this other guy is the love of your life. You probably won't end up living together with two kids and a mortgage because at the end of the day, it's just a teen romance. I know you'll come biting back at that with a low rating and a comment like 'it is love, you don't know me, you can fall in love at any age'. That may be so but by the sound of things, you're just a confused teenager who isn't quite sure of herself and her emotions.
You're probably thinking 'who's this bitch who thinks she knows me?' Okay, so I don't know you personally, I could have got this all wrong and you and Joe or that other guy you're lusting after might end up living happily ever after, but the chances are that I'm right. I've been confused over guys before, I've been all upset and thought my life was over because of some guy and it's taught me that I take things far too seriously.
I know that right now, the fact that you have feelings for your ex when you 'love' your boyfriend seems like the end of the world, but I assure you that it's not.
At the end of the day, it's down to you whether or not you carry on dating your boyfriend. It might turn out that you've just got a crush on this other guy but if you really do like him then it's probably best for you to end things with Joe and move on from both of them.
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