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long distance
Any tips on how to make a long distance relationship work?
15/f He moved at the beginning of the month, and it's hard. But I really don't wanna give up.
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Hmmm. i dont know but I know its possible because just last night, I saw a couple on tv who were geting married after 1 & 1/2 year relationship... they were 3000 miles apart. Just talk alot. Say on the phone & text message all day. If yuo dont hva text messaging, get it. Make sure it is unlimited too.
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please dont be mad at me- but i think theres really only one way to tell you this, ansd i hate to be the one to do it- but long distqance relationships have an extrmely SLIM chance of working out. youre gonna be worrying yourself, and not seeing him for a long time. trust me- its not worth all the gaps in between that you wont be abe to see each other. hope i helped. spitfire9631@yahoo.com
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ok, by the way long distance relationships do work, trust me. the things yall have to do:
always call each other, or text messege each other or email each other. make both of you to agree on the comitment to NO SEEING OTHER PEOPLE!
basiccaly keep in touch send letters in the mail.
i really hope i helped! good luck!
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okay heres the thing. i am POSITIVE long distance relationships can work. like 100000% positive. anyone who says they cant is HIGHLY mistaken. i lived in north dakota all my life until the summer after fifth grade. sadly however, i had to leave my boyfriend behind. we went out from oct of 5th grade-oct of 7th. seeing each other only twice after i moved. and now i'm in a relationship of over a year with a boy in ohio. i live in minnesota and as HORRIBLE as this sounds..we've never actually met each other. i wont go into details about how that came about to spare you the time but basically this is how it works..
1] we both WANT the committment. thats the most important thing
2] we trust each other completelyyyyyy & understand that its not gonna be easy
3] we talk EVERY chance we get and when i say every chance, i mean EVERY. SINGLE. CHANCE.
4] we occasionally send each other cute little things to keep surprise in the relationship as a reassurance that we still care
5] as unnecessary as this may sound, we ALWAYS know what each other is doing and where we are. it sounds excessive but it actually really helps because we feel like we're directly in the persons life doing the things right alongside them.
6] basically if i'm not talking to him on the computer, i always have a phone in my hand. you just hafta communicate
before trying too hard only to get hurt in the end, make sure keeping a relationship is what he REALLY wants. if he doesnt, dont necessarily take it as a diss towards you. the long-distance relationship is a whole new world for most people. i admit, its SUPER hard at times and you'll feel like giving up soooo often but if hes really where your heart is it, it'll be worth it in the end and you'll see each other eventually. you CAN make it work.
i hope i helped. good luck girl :]
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they wont work too well, sorry. you will have to be able to go out on weekends to see him, and thats too hard for most people. if you leave on friday, and spend saturday with him, it could possibly work. or you could get a webcam so you guys can talk and see each other. GOOD LUCK
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