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I`m Allison .. But everyone calls me Allie. I`m fourteen years old. I`m a freshman at MHS. I know I`m young, but so far in life I`ve experienced a lot. There`s a whole other part of me that a lot of people don`t know .. even some of my closest friends.
Friends are important to me. If you don`t have friends .. who can you rely on?!
If your a bitch to me I`ll be a bitch to you. It`s that simple. If your nice to me .. I can be one of the nicest people you`ll ever meet. I tend to hold grudges, but if you are sincerly sorry, I forgive easy.
I hate labels and stereotypes .. They really don`t make sense to me. Clothes shouldn`t label a person .. they`re personality should.
Anyways ..
I`m usually really good at giving advice. If you ask a stupid question .. Guess what !? You`ll get a stupid answer !
Other than that .. ask away !
♥ Allie.

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iam 18 years old and my boyfriend is 16 years old and i just found out over the weekend that he kissed some whore named kelly and i've been cryubg over him for 2 days and i don't think that i can take it anymore what should i do?

Forget him! Easier said than done, I know, but he's obviously a jerk if he's out macking on other chicks .. & it seems like you really cared about the guy. It'll take time, but you need to try to move on. Spend time with friends, focus on school for awhile, go out & have fun!

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im 12 and i dont shave my legs yet and its soo embarassing !! im just too scared and embarassed to ask my mom about it .. over here its been like 90 degrees and i`ve been wearing jeans! i can`t wear capris or shorts or anything because of my legs. and i just can`t talk to her it`s too embarassing. she doesn`t talk to me about this stuff so i don`t think that she`ll be bringing up the subject all of a sudden. helpp?!

If you don`t think she will ever bring the subject up, you need to. I know it will be kind of akward, but it`s really the only way of letting your mom know. I know this wasn`t much help, sorry .. good luck though. ♥

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okay, i feel really stupid asking this, but i thought i knew what dipping is, but now from how my almost boyfriends talks about how he tried it, i'm confused. what is it exactly?

Dipping is the use of chewing tobacco. It can cause a lot of problems & diseases, so it`s really not a good idea.

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I just made my schools volleyball team this past week. (We had conditioning and try outs 2 weeks before)
Well ever since we started try-outs I've been eating more! I eat like 2 dinners; After breakfast (while I'm at school) I get so hungry, and even after lunch I'll get hungry in like an hour.

How can I prevent this, I don't wanna get fat!

You have been eating more because your body is burning so much energy during volleyball. It`s completely normal. Don`t worry because you won`t get fat ! But if you are still concerned about how much food you are intaking then, just stick to healthy foods that will give you lots of energy .. like fruit or something.
♥ Allie.

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what exactly is a BMI?

Body Mass Index .. It`s a number that has to do with your height,weight, and age. ♥ Allie.

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here in connecticut, weathervane in the malls are closing and there are many sales but the jeans still range from $20-40. do you think the jeans will go on sale more and go down to like $10 because the jeans right now are on sale for $10 off

Wow .. All the Weathervanes closed here along time ago. Anyways .. eventually jeans will be that cheap, but it won`t be until like the last couple of days the store is open, but you have to be quick because there probably won`t be that many jeans left ! ♥ Allie.

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what do you wear to go ice skating at like a ice rink?

I would stick with something simple .. Like jeans & a hoodie. Dress warm because it can get cold, especially if you fall a lot.
♥ Allie.

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Ok well i told this guy that i liked him but hes didnt say much to me afterwards. well first of all 2 days ago he asked out another girl and ive been wanting to tell him i like him but i was to late well today hes going to find out if she will go out with him or not but i just told him yesterday i liked him and at the end of wat i said i said can we still be friends. well after i told him how i felt and if we could still be friends alls he said was ok sure why not . well he smiles at me alot and makes me laugh . but i guess my question is do u think he could still like me and should i still talk to him ? 13 f .

Hmm ... It`s hard to say if he likes you or not, but from the way things sound, he likes you. He might feel a little akward since you told him your feelings about him. You should keep talking to him, but talk to him like you normally would & try not to make him feel pressured about his feelings. And try not to come on too strong, stay friends with him, & maybe you`ll be the one he asks out next. ♥ Allie.

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Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. Honestly, I have no idea if he likes me or not. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥

If you really do like this guy you need to make the first move if he`s too shy. Just walk up to him in the hallway & start a normal conversation. I know it will be hard, but if you want to get to know him you need to "break the ice". You definately need to become friends first because it will make things a whole lot easier ! ♥ Allie. Good Luck !

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Does anyone know if the Invisalign works? I was thinking about getting Invisalign instead of braces...has anyone had any experience with it?

I recommend getting the regular metal braces. They work a whole lot quicker, they`re actually cheaper than invisalign, and easier. It`s your teeth & money though, so just go for which ever you want. ♥ Allie.

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okay, well my friend got fingered for the first time the other day and now she's been worrying about it. she think's that she is pregnant but i'm telling her that she can't be because it's totally impossible because she didn't have sex or anything. and she hasn't gotten her period and she's 2weeks late. i told her that i think it's because she doesn't have a regular period, because she hasn't had it for over 2years and normally that's when it starts getting regular. her boyfriend only fingered her, she didn't do anything to him so i'm really not sure what to tell her except that she isn't pregnant. what do you guys think?

PS. when she got fingered after she bled alittle, and i told her that maybe he scratched her or something because you never know.

She`s definately not pregnant. It`s totally normal to be late even if she has had her period for over 2 years. She might have been bleeding a little because her hymen was broken. Just be a good friend to her and tell her to relax. ♥ Allie.

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What do you think is the average age to get your first kiss?

I think it all depends on the person. It will most likely happen at the most unexpected moment, so force yourself or someone else into it or it won`t be "enjoyable". If I had at say an age though I would say around middle school age. ♥ Allie.

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What does "pop your cherry" mean? Like I know it has something to do with a hymen...what I'm not exactly sure what a hymen is!! Like does it just happen when you put something...up there? Does it hurt? Like what IS it? And is that a way someone can tell if your a virgin or not?? and i rate.

"Popping your cherry" is when your hymen rips or breaks .. Usually happens during sexual intercourse. It usually is a way to tell if your a virgin or not, but it can break from certain things other than sex. ♥ Allie.

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what age is right for sex? i always thought not till your married. what do you think?

Some religions believe in not having sex until marrige. I personally believe that it`s up to the person & what maturity level them and their partner are. You have to be sure that you`re having sex with the right person and for the right reason.
♥ Allie.

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

I agree. The people that do that are immature and have no life. They don`t realize that someone could get hurt, someone might actually take their advice seriously.
♥ Allie.

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okay so theres this guy i like and i dont think he knows i like him or knows who i am. we never really talk but every time i see him it seems like hes looking at me and smiles at me and if im talking to my friend (shes friends with him) he will come over and say hi to her which he never does when im not around...i want to know if he really might like me or if its wishful thinking?

It definatly sounds like he likes you ! He`s probably too shy to actually say it though. You should make the first move by going up to him and starting up a conversation.
♥ Allie.

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Ok well I just gauged my ears, theyre 18s I guess? That is what the person said. So I was wondering what that meant? I don't understand the differnce. And also, why are they so small?! Normally they are huge and when I told the guy I wanted to gauge my ears he gave me these. Somebody help I am really confused.
Thank you in advance!
Sarah

They are small because you just got them done. You have to start out small and work your way up. Eventually you will be at the size you want.
♥ Allie.

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How old Should a child be when they start dating?

It all depends on the person. If this person is mature enough to start "dating" then it should be okay. But, if you wanted a specific age I would say around 13/14. Unless you are talking about dating as in going out to dinner, then maybe aroung 15/16. Like I said before, it all depends on how mature the person is.
♥ Allie.

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Okay usually I have no problem talking/flirting with guys. And I usually never fall for the popular type.

But now I'm head over heels for Adam. We have a few classes together and share some similar intrests. I'm also the cheerleader for his basketball team. We talk occasionaly in class but I never know what to say around him cause he's more of the popular sort. When we do talk; its really flirting. He smiles alot and so do I. We make each other laugh alot too. However; after that its like we don't even knew each other.

How do I make things idkk .. more pumped? Hah, like how do I get us to talk more without it always being me saying " how was your day " then getting a one word answer.

Help equals instant 5.

Say something to him like, "So what are you doing this weekend?" or, "What are you doing tonight?" Then ask him if he wants to hang out with you someday .. like go to the movies or something. Or if your really outgoing .. Just straight out tell him, "Hey I like you!" lol.
Other than that, I don`t really know what else to tell you, but Good Luck !
♥ Allie. Hope I helped !

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ok i have a friend thats been through a lot & i dont wanna be friends with him anymore. hes always threatening to kill himself & pushes things on me & if i juss ignore him he'll do something really stupid & i'd feel guilty. i don't know what to do. please give me some ideas.

thanks

It sounds like your friend needs help. Threating to kill himself is not normal .. and you not wanting to be his friend just seems kind of selfish. Anyways, first you need to get your friend some help. Have you told a parent, counsler, etc., about his threats? If you haven`t .. you need to. By telling him that you don`t want to be friends anymore .. is not going to make his or your problems go away.
♥ Allie.

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