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Question Posted Thursday February 23 2006, 2:42 pm

Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. Honestly, I have no idea if he likes me or not. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥

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charmed3fanatic answered Thursday March 2 2006, 2:42 pm:
lol well if he's shy to you.. you should be really outgoing.. you have to kinda throw yourself out there ;] and be like hey! what's going on .. see if he has a s/n cause that makes it way easier to talk to him =] sorry it took so long for me to respond =/

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bittersweet12 answered Sunday February 26 2006, 12:13 am:
hey, ive experienced something similar, this guy i saw like in between 3 classes kept smiling at me and finally during lunch he just said hi and asked what i was up to and i finally got his name(he somehow knew mine) and we exchanged numbers...so you should first try to smile bac at him whenever you see him, this way he knows your thinking about him. then try finding him during lunch or even jus in the hallway and say hi/introduce yourself, just keep it simple. once you sorta know eachother start talking to him more and ask if he ever wants to hang out. try being friends first(not for too long though) then hint that you like him and ther you go!or if you are more foward(lucky you) try introducing yourself next time you see him and then hint how you feel. i hope this helped i tryed to put it in a simple way that doesnt cause too much embaressment. good luck and tell me how it goes cuz i like to hear if i actually helped!
-kimberly

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x0x_h0LLiist3r_kUtii3 answered Saturday February 25 2006, 1:39 pm:
If you really do like this guy you need to make the first move if he`s too shy. Just walk up to him in the hallway & start a normal conversation. I know it will be hard, but if you want to get to know him you need to "break the ice". You definately need to become friends first because it will make things a whole lot easier ! ♥ Allie. Good Luck !

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<3oXsWeEtLiLbUrNeTtEoX<3 answered Saturday February 25 2006, 1:30 pm:
0o0ok well I mean if you realii like this guy, and that you have feelings for him, and that all you can really do is think about him, then you have found your match! and trust me if he blushes, then he does have some feelings for you. so0o0 heres what i think you should do, you should write him a not explaing to him how you feel, and tell him that you do like him, and that you were wondering if he felt the same about you. and if you want, i would ask him or would you just like to start off by being friends??
hoped i helped
&hearts; Amanda &hearts;

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SWEETXLOVE answered Thursday February 23 2006, 6:46 pm:
Wow..i hate when that happens! You could give him a note? but thats always kinda weird too..id think the best way is to get up your confidence and just talk to him..trust me you will love how it turns out! one of my good friends is kinda shy and she always wants to talk to these guys and i always tell her..you HAVE to get up the confidence and go out of your comfort area if you want to talk to them..otherwise your just going to be thinking about how much you want to talk to this kid forever! Sweetie you cant go wrong..people are even saying they think he likes you and blushing is definately a sign! Just talk to him..maybe go up with a couple of your friends if you feel more comfortable that way. hope everything works out!
&hearts; Kristen

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HCOxBABE answered Thursday February 23 2006, 6:20 pm:
Just go up to him & introduce yourself than ask him what his name is. Ask him if he'd like to hang out after school one day like at the mall or movies or you could ask him what his hobbies are, what's his favorite band, etc. Make sure you get his phone number or his screen name so you can talk to him more. &hearts; &hearts;

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H0LDM3CL0S3 answered Thursday February 23 2006, 6:18 pm:
just aproach him. be yourself and dont make it awekard by bring nervous and thinking about it. just let it happen the way it does. start talking and become friends to see if you really like him/he really likes you.
<333333 kalie

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xox_cutebrunette answered Thursday February 23 2006, 4:58 pm:
Heyy..i seriously recommand that you talk to him and like just be yourself and get to know him even though hes shy but just like take things slowly dont like rush into you guys going out because if you rush into a relationship its not going to last that long..beacause you guys dont know eachother..but the main thing that you should do is just talk to him and get to know him and let him get comfortable around you..remember just be yourself =D..Good Luck Hun!!
[&hearts;]Dina

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TheLoveDoctor answered Thursday February 23 2006, 3:42 pm:
keep an eye on what he wears or try to figure out if he likes something you do. then one day go up to him and start talking about it. wait for a day when maybe you see him wearing something that reminds you of something and be like "wow you like that too?" mix it up. make it seem like your interested the first time but dont make it OBVIOUS. and dont act dumb, all of my guy friends tell me its a total turn off

hope i helped

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