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hey, i love your site!

i have a question for you;

i sweat A LOT under my arms (armpits). i use a deodorant/antipirspirant every day, but i still get nasty circles of sweat on my shirt. i get soo embarrassed when this happens, so i just wear a sweatshirt over my shirt but then i get hot and sweat even more!!! i can`t think of anyway to stop my sweating problem.
if deodorant/antipirspirant doesn`t work, will anything??!!

please help me.
btw: i`m 13/f (link)
you should talk to your doctor. it just might be over worked hormones or something like that, or get hardcore deodorant like dry idea or something that makes it madd dry?

its hard to answer your question but i tried


I heard cracking your fingers could cause arthritus (sp?), so I'm trying to stop. But it's so hard because it's already a really big habbit. Does anyone know how to break a habit like this?? (link)
you can't get arthritus but it does make your knuckles bigger the best thing you can do is take it a little bit at a time and slowly increase the time you don't crack your knuckles to the point where you don't have to think about it anymore.


Hey folks :)

I need to interview someone about their childhood. And it needs to be a very long interview, problem is, I have no clue what to ask. Can anyone think of an INTERESTING question? Something that would really get a readers attention. I mean, if the reader is someone who does not know the person I'm interviewing..it's sort of hard to make it interesting, when that's the case. So any suggestions?

I'd appreciate it.

Thank you bunches :) (link)
ask them about a big event that has happened in their life, about their first true love, their first words (b/c it's usually something funny), their favorite football team or if they could go back in time, what would they do over


u shouldnt be called the love doctor but yo peace out homedog

GANGSTA

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yeah thanks


There is this guy i like and almost everytime he talks to me, he makes sarcastic remarks and jokes around with me telling me im doing things wrong. (He usually smiles when telling me this). What does this mean? (link)
he probably likes you. people only say mean things when they are jealous or not so nice things if they want you =P i do it all the time with hot guys hahha


wat are some good kind of sad songs..that you can listen to while you broke up with some1 (link)

so sick - ne-yo
4 minutes - avant
bad day - daniel powter
a whole new world - (from aladin)
our last night - better than ezra
never felt this way - brian mcknight
more than words - frankie j
the point - hidden in plain view
is there no truth in beauty - just surrender
i don't want to know - mario winans
the next time you go - eugene edwards


hope i helped :)


my arms are kinda hairy, but not really bad or anything but do you think thats gross or anything because my mom wont let me shave them (link)
its normal, im italian so i have them. but DONT shave them! that's the worst thing you can do because when they grow back they always will grow back darker and thicker and you'll have to constantly shave them and its just such a hassle. you're better off leaving them alone


What does wishing on 11:11 mean? (link)
its just for fun. haha i do it all the time even when its something like 4:44 or 3:33. sometimes my wishes come true sometimes they don't. its basically like wishing on a star


14/f...I'm going to the movies tonight with 3 friends of mine. Cayla, Tyler, Will, and myself. Cayla likes Tyler and is going to be flirting with him all night and is going to sit next to him and everything. I sort of like Will and he doesn't like me, but I still want to make the best of tonight. I don't know what to do as far as "talking" to him. Like, I don't want it to seem obvious that I like him but I don't want to act like were just friends. Any ideas on how to talk to him? Like, conversation starters?
Thx
I RATE HIGH!
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flirt with him. theres nothing wrong with flirting and you can get him interested in the process.. and maybe something good will come out of it! :)


ok, this friend of mine told me that this girl i really like deosnt like me but a friend of hers said she likes me , but shes afraid to hurt me if she brakes up with me. her friend said i should ask her out but my friend said i shouldnt. should i take the chance and listen to her friend and ask her out or not and listen to her friend? (link)
take the chance. your going to have to take risks in your life. and if she says no at least you've tried. :)


my bf and i have always got along and always had fun well today he told me he hated me and walked away nd i asked him if he was breaking up with me he said no B*tch i was uhh i am soo confused was he showing off for some reason and then i called him he was like hello whos this i was like your gf he was like oh and it was silent i was like well why are you being mean to me he hung up soo I IMED him and he blocks me but i got on my old name and the thing in his info still says my name and now it says Ill love you forever and always babe you mean the world erg im soo confused


sorry its long =[
ill rate 5's !!! =] (link)
i know this isnt answering your question. but if this isn't the first time something has happend like this then he might be bi-polar. you're going to have to talk to him face to face to get him to answer you back though, it seems.

i wish you luck . thats a big problem


he is always making me uspet even over little things. im really over sensitive so i just leave it alone.

today he told my firend he didnt like the "rules i was giving him and all i asked as these so called "rules" was he didnt smoke or drink and didnt ignore me when friends were over and he goes and tells my best friend he is mad at me cause i asked those "rules" so he lied and told me he was never mad and yells at her. so now she hates me and he is mad at me and im crying my eyese out. i dont know what to do. please help me im crying. :) thanks a lot. (link)
you probably dont want to, but i think you should dump him. if he cant meet with your few needs then how is he going to love you? i know its harsh but you can find someone who wont do the things you don't want them to and will make a point not to because they care about you enough. and if he's going to lie then you will never be able to trust him anyway


i hope i helped ...cheer up :)


ok, im reallly sry for asking this since i kno it will be dealeated sooner that later buuut, thers this song that i cant find any ware... and i was wondering if anyone knew what it was called and who its by.

some lines of the song (there off a lil bit tho):
~boom boom boom boom boom, I want you in my room, Just me and you together, We'll make the night last forever, boom booom...~

p.s. ill rate 5s =]]] (link)
its called boom boom boom by the vengaboys i love that song!!


ok so for lent i'm promising myself to walk the dog atleast 1 a week, do 15 situps a day, eating healthy (tho i can never do it) and practice soccer and tennis whenever i can....what else can i do to get results....FAST?
please please help! i'll rate and comment....thanks. (link)
do wayyyy more situps. im not in the greatest shape but i at least do 60 - 100 daily. otherwise you're plan sounds great and should really work. if you stick to it and aren't getting the results you want, go to the gym once a week at least with a good friend or someone close and get a personal trainer to help you stick to your plans


Is breaking up over the phone okay? Or should I make an effort to do it in person? (link)
over the phone is probably the best but it really depends on the person. i prefer breaking up over the phone because your talking face to face but not really so you wont feel as bad. dont EVER let someone else do your dumping for you though. thats the worst thing you could do and dont do it online. either phone or face to face but if you do it in person it will most likely hurt them more


I heard the song on the radio that says

She's the prom queen, I'm in the marching band.
She's a cheerleader, I'm in the stands.
Blahhhh don't know the third line.
She's miss America, and I'm just the girl next door.

What's the song called?! I love it, but I wanna know what it's called.

Thanks. (link)
saving jane - "girl next door"

if you ever have that problem again where you don't know the name of a song but you know the lyrics you can go to sing365.com and where it has a search bar type in part of the lyrics that you know and choose "full text" and it will choose song names that have those words in the lyrics and will find it for you =)


whenever i run i get out of breath real easily so what can i do so i can run longer without getting so tired ? (link)
your best bet is to run at a slower more comfortable pace and slowly increase your speed like, after a few days or a week increase to a little bit faster pace. also if you run while listening to music it takes your mind off of your breathing and you won't have such a hard time, it may just be that you're thinking about it too much

hope i helped :)


Ok so i like this girl, but she has a bf and i got her a present a while ago but i couldnt bring it to school since i barely see her...so i wanna hang out with her to give it to her but she told me she shouldnt really hang out with me because she has a bf and she doesnt want him to get mad at her..first of all we wouldnt even hook up cuz she has a bf, he wouldnt find out because he lives 45 minutes away and what difference does it make....so my question is what should i do? (link)
go to her house and surprise her, its REALLY sweet and she'll be in shock but dont stay long otherwise she'll think that you came over to hang out without her permission(which is rude) but stay long enough to have a short sweet conversation and give her your present. then tell her you'd better go because you don't want her boyfriend to get mad but you'll talk to her later and smile sweetly then leave and see what she does. she might even tell you to stay longer anyway!


okay so over the winter i got myself a little belly.. i mean i only weigh 113 pounds and im 16.. but i have like a gut and its not very attractice, i just want a flat stomache. I dont wanna run out in the cold because it hurts my lungs but i wanna get started now on fixing my stomach so its nice by summer. Does anyone know anything i can do like a certain cruch or sit up or take or diet pill or something?!?! (link)
do regular crunches, i do at least 100 a day.
and also, to work your sides of your abs i also do bicycle crunches.

to do these you lay on the floor with your hands behind your head like you would do sit ups but your legs are in the air pedaling as if you were on a bike, then as you are "pedaling" bring your lfet elbow diagonally across to touch your right knee then bring your right elbow diagonally across to touch your left knee while keeping your hands behind your head. do it as fast or as slow as you want and i usually just stop when i get tired but you can feel it working your muscles


what do you wear to go ice skating at like a ice rink? (link)
jeans and a cute sweater, or a sweatshirt with a cute tee under it that you can take off your sweatshirt if you get hot, matching gloves, a hat is a little overboard but if it looks cute with your outfit and you can pull it off go for it!




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