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don't know what to do
Ok so i like this girl, but she has a bf and i got her a present a while ago but i couldnt bring it to school since i barely see her...so i wanna hang out with her to give it to her but she told me she shouldnt really hang out with me because she has a bf and she doesnt want him to get mad at her..first of all we wouldnt even hook up cuz she has a bf, he wouldnt find out because he lives 45 minutes away and what difference does it make....so my question is what should i do?
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You need to leave her alone.
Imagine yourself in her boyfriend's position. Would you want another guy hanging out with your girlfriend? Would you want another guy giving your girlfriend a present?
I have a girlfriend and I wouldn't like it if she hung out with another guy and accepted a present from him.
It's okay to be friends but that's it. She's already taken so unfortunately you just have to find someone else.
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i think that u should just not worry about her if she dose not want you and it might help you out on the other hand the might think about it and realize that maby she dose want to go out with you some time
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well...from a girls point of view i know how stressfull it can be to be stuck between two guys. What i think you should do is become friends with this girl and get to know her really well. When she finds out how nice you are she might realise that she likes YOU and not her boyfriend.
hope i helped and good luck
allie
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So she doesn't want him to get mad, well, sort of surprise her or something. Like if you know where her house is, stop by and give her the gift or leave it on the doorstep, and leave a note on it. Like it could say,
" Dear(insert name here),
I got this present for you, but I couldn't give it to you until now. I know you have a bf, and I know that you really like him, and I am not trying to intrude on that, I just thought that you would like this. Maybe we could hang out sometime and just talk. Even though you have a bf, it doesn't mean that you can't have friends. That is exactly what I want to be, your friend. I hope that you like this, and you can talk to me if you ever need any help.
your friend,
(insert your name here)"
It isn't the best, and you should put it in your words, but it would work. That isn't always the best decision either. You might want to just listen to what she has to say. She knows her bf the best, and if she says that he would get mad, then she is probably right. But I don't see the harm in giving her a present. The one thing that I can tell you is that you should be careful. She has a bf, don't get to close...you wouldn't want something tragic to go down. For now, the best you can do is be her friend. I hope that I helped and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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You should listen to what shes telling you! Shes being nice! She obviously likes her bf enough to not want him to get mad or find out shes recieving gifts from other guys!
It really doesnt matter how far away he lives. The point is>she wants to remain faithful no matter what the circumstances are.
I think you should respect her decision, or things could really start turning ugly for you!
Just think about if that was youre gf and another guy liked her and wanted to give her a gift.
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go to her house and surprise her, its REALLY sweet and she'll be in shock but dont stay long otherwise she'll think that you came over to hang out without her permission(which is rude) but stay long enough to have a short sweet conversation and give her your present. then tell her you'd better go because you don't want her boyfriend to get mad but you'll talk to her later and smile sweetly then leave and see what she does. she might even tell you to stay longer anyway!
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