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lesbians
I NEED HELP!!!!!!! WHOEVER ANSWERS THIS ILL RATE 5!!!!!!!!
okay...well i recently found out that im a lesbian...and the other day my friend (shes a girl and didnit kno i was gay) came over. we were working on our homework and then...it happened ...i koodnt control myself...i just jumped on her and we started making out and stuff....we went rlly far if u know what i meen and she said she had a great time but didnt want this to happen again,....i love her sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and dont know what to do...any advice out there????????????????????
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tell her your gay tell her you have feeling for her and that she should try it again ask her if she fells for you and if she dosn't than im sorry hunny but you will have to find someone else
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well maby your friend really is not gay but it hit her so fast that she did not no what to do so she just went along with what was happening i think that you should call and talk to her and see what she thinks about the whol thing well i hope that my advice helps
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You need to respect your friends wants and listen to her. There are other girls out there that you can hook up with. Just find someone else maybe and maybe every now and then your friend will want to hook up wiht you for fun!
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It might be the first time she's ever questioned her sexual orientation. You and I both know how scary that can be! Especially when you jumped on her. She is probably experiencing a lot of conflicting emotions. Talk to her, and ask her exactly how she felt about the situation. It's important not to try to force her into anything. Just be there for her as a friend.
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Talk to her about it. ALONE. And this time, when you are alone, don`t jump on her. If she doesn`t want to be with you, then she doesn`t. You can`t pressure her to be with someone if she doesn`t want to be with them. But since she had "great time", she might want to be with you. Tell her how you feel & come out to her.
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How was I being rude? I was just suggestion that you shouldn`t jump on her when you are talking to her. I didn`t even call you weird, let alone made you feel weird. Oh well. Sorry...I guess.
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well i think you should deffinately talk to her about it..but i am sure she was just experimenting..i mean i have done that a lot..and if she doesnt want to do it again then you should respect her decision..though it may be hard...but if you dont want to lose her friendship then dont do anything with her unless she tells you she wants to...
hope this helped..good luck
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well, you might want to try to talk yo here and tell her how you feel about every thing. maybe shes embarassed or dont know if she is a lesbian or not for sure.
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I was once in the same position as your friend. I can't speak for her, but when my friend, "Sarah," came onto me, I was both flattered and excited by the taboo side of it. Our sexual relationship continued for a while until I realized that I was straight and was only excited by the novelty. I would say that you should talk to your friend honestly about your desires, and definitely don't pressure her if you want to retain your friendship.
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well if she didnt go into shock as soon as you jumped on her and kept going with you for a while i would assume she is also a lesbian or maybe she just wasnt sure if she was or not and wanted to experiment. shes probably not comfortable being out in the open about it and doesnt know how she feels because this happened so fast and she needs time to think about it. i would give her space for a few days and let her think it through before you talk to her about it. you need to clear this up with her and see how she feels. tell her how you feel about the situation and how much you like her. she might like you too, but is just scared. you need to make her feel comfortable.
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