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what should i get my gf for christmass, i suck at choosing out gifts. im thinking maybe jewlry? (link)
girls like jewlry, perfume, clothes and purses.so anything like that shuold work!


My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. We're really close and I trust him with my life. I think we're ready to take our relationship farther, on a physical scale. But whenever we talk about sex we're just kidding I guess. And he seems really timid to talk to me about it. He's not a virgin, so he's been in the "wanting to have sex" position before. But I'm wondering, am I doing the right thing by talking to him about it, or should I just leave it up to him or go for it in the heat of the moment? (link)
i think you are doing the right thing by talking about it. you shouldnt leave it up to him. your the one in control and always rember that. if hes already had sex befor and he has wated for 9 months for sure then id try the heat of the moment deal, not all the way and just see how it goes. but make sure your ready because after youve lost your virgenity you cant get it back. (and use protection)


Everytime my boyfriend (who i have been with for 1 and a half years) gets a boner, his penis is bent, like a banana. If i try to have foreplay with him, this makes it difficult and i want to laugh. Im not sure what to do. It makes intercourse unsexy and turns me off. He just doesnt give me the pleasure i need. Does anyone know what to do? im thinking of breaking up with him because i need to laugh everytime he gets horny. Please get back to me as soon as possible! (link)
you shouldnt break up with him cause that. the whole time i read that question all i could do was laugh. relation ships should nt be based on sex


hey guys i need some halp me and my x-girl friend are going to a school dance tonight well i like her alot but i broke up with her the last time because she was really controlling and did not want me to go any where or do any thing like on new years i wanted to go to a party with some of my friends and she did not want me to go she thought that i should go to the movies with her well it is new years you should be hangin out with you friends right? so i dont know if i should go back out with her or not can u give me so advice (link)
hey johnny well i mean "corey" i dont know for sure. but if you guys are getting along than i would say go for it!


I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?

13/F

Thanks so much !! (link)
if you really feel that you love him than tell him.i dont think that that saying is really true.


How can you tell if he actually likes you?
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well he might be mean to you, i know it sounds stupid but it can be true or he could be the exact opposite and be really nice to you. sorry i really cant help that much


My friends and I go to South Padre for spring break every year. Well this year, my boyfriend’s first baseball game of the season is 2 days after we leave. He said it was really important to him and that he can't come with us which I understand but going without him is just going to plain out...suck.


We've been together for 2 1/2 years and he's been able to go before because our spring break used to be the 3rd week of the month, now it's the first week this year. And there weren't any "big" games scheduled during that time so he could get out of them.


So now I'm not sure if I should go or stay. If I go I'd be thinking of him the whole time and might not be able to enjoy myself. If I don't go I'll be missing out with all of my friends. But there are other beaches we can go to around here but I don't think it'd be as much fun without EVERYONE. Oh the dilemma...
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well i think you should still go. just get a phone cardand call him every night befor you go to bed. it might acually be fun going with out him just you n your friends


how do i change my yahoo messenger password.
i rate 5 (link)
sighn in on yahoo, then click on my acount youll have to type in your old pw and then click on change password (its writen in bright blue)then change it.


hi my dear friends iwant to know that is she loves me or not.i dont have any friend except her we study in same class.how can i know her feelings and her love for me e-g how she talk with me how she behave with me.in what situation i can figure out about her love for me .please. (link)
ok i kind of understood what you said. try talkin to her and tell her that shes your best friend or something. or if your to embarassed than write her a note and tell her or call her some time.


well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we're always messing around but lately we haven't it feels like our realationship isn't the same anymore.i told him i didn't feel like it was the same and he told me he was feeling the same way so he suggested that could be the problem that we haven't been messing around with each other and he thinks we should start again,but i feel that why should we mess around juss so we can feel that spark between us again.shouldn't it juss be like we don't have to do anything like that juss so our relationship could be the same.i don't like the fact that i always have to satisfy him juss so he can be happy with us.i feel like if i don't do it our relationship will not be the same.wat should i do?should i do it or not.he's not pressuring me to do it he was saying that as a suggestion but i don't know i juss need some advice i guess and i will rate a five for juss sum good advice (link)
well your guys relationship shouldnt be based on sex or ne thing like that. you should tell him that you feel like you have to do that kind of stuff to make him happy or whatever. it should be based on how good of talkers you guys are and that kind of stuff. you might want to try to do more stuff together like go to the movies and go to the mall and walk aroud and stuff like that to get your minds off that kind of stuff.


I go to a school thats about.. 40% black/minority. I'm a 17 y/o senior in highschool and many of my friends are black (I'm white).. and many of tha guys I've dated are black. I listen to mainly "black" music, but I don't discriminate, its just what I know. But my uncle is soo racist and ALWAYS harrasses me. He calls me n-lover (you know) and does tha dumbest things like knocking on tha front door and saying "Chelsie, its an N, better come get tha door!"..hes so immature. My mom always yells at him when shes around (a lot of her friends are black too), but I dont live w/ her and shes hardly ever around.. I live w/ my grandparents and they dont say anything to him about it. He just makes me so angry b/c he comes around a lot and acts like hes better than black folks but hes NOT.. he doesnt take care of his kids and he has a 6-year old daughter who hasnt even started school yet which is ILLEGAL! Ugh, hes gay. I cant stand him. I just dont know what to do about him. He always says stuff like "I know this girl who would kick your ass for $20".. thats hilarious to me. One time I told my (black) friends cousin about it (hes 27) and he ended up coming to my house when my uncle was here and trying to get him to come outside so he could fight him.. and what did my uncle do.. NADA! Stayed inside like a little -----! well.. yea, what should I do about him.. I just feel like shooting him. LOL. Sorry.. long rant.
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your uncles stupid. blacks and whites both bleed the same color were the same besides or skin color. what i would do is try to talk to you grand parents and tell them that when he says stuff like that that it really pisses you of and if that dont work than start saying stuff about him


I NEED HELP!!!!!!! WHOEVER ANSWERS THIS ILL RATE 5!!!!!!!!

okay...well i recently found out that im a lesbian...and the other day my friend (shes a girl and didnit kno i was gay) came over. we were working on our homework and then...it happened ...i koodnt control myself...i just jumped on her and we started making out and stuff....we went rlly far if u know what i meen and she said she had a great time but didnt want this to happen again,....i love her sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and dont know what to do...any advice out there???????????????????? (link)
well, you might want to try to talk yo here and tell her how you feel about every thing. maybe shes embarassed or dont know if she is a lesbian or not for sure.


Okay so i am a 16year old female. and heres my situation. ive only gotten my period like 3-4 times in my life. and they havent been in consecutive months. the closest its ever been to consecutive was dec 2004 and january 2005. and the time after that was june 2005 then i didnt get it until my last period which was january 2006. my main question is...does my very irregular period mean that i am not ovulating like i should be and could it effect whether or not i will be able to have children when im older? dont get the wrong idea its not that i want a kid now or anything. but i do want a family in the future and this i just freaking me out. any advice/information anybody could give me will be much appreciated. thanks. (link)
you should probally go to the doctor and get it checked out. or you could get put on birth control(not cause you are active but it also regulates periods)


Hey guys. I'm Kayla and I'm in eighth grade. I will be going to Deer Park High School North Campus next year in ninth grade and I am so nervous! Four different junior highs will be joined into one school next year and I will meet a lot more people but I'm still nervous. What if they don't accept me? What if no one likes me? What about lunch? Where will I sit? I'm asking myself all these questions and it's making me even more nervous than ever! There is exactly 166 days until my first freshman day of high school and I'm already freaking. What about when I get up to 1 day before? I'm going to puke!!! I'm scared of getting lost but I'm more scared of the people. People are mean these days. Some people I don't even know make me feel like I have something to hide, like I'm ugly or something. A lot of people SAY I'm pretty but I don't believe them because of what people have said in the past. I'm afraid it will get worse. These are some positive things about my high school:
1. We can chew gum... sometimes
2. We don't have to have our shirts tucked in
3. We can wear hoodies
4. We get tall lockers so nobody is below or above me
5. We can wear tank tops
6. I have ran out of positive things
Here are some negative things about DPHS:
1. It's HUGE!
2. Four different junior highs will be joining into one and I will barely know anyone
3. I don't know what electives to take
4. I know I'll get lost which is a scary thing
5. I have no idea what credits are for and what we have to get them
6. The people are probably going to be rude
7. I won't know barely anyone in any of my classes
8. I'm so nervous I'm going to puke on my first day.

There... out of all those things, I'm more scared of the people... like I said, I have no clue if I will be accepted or not...
What if they don't talk to me?
I have always made friends on my first day of school but what if it's different this time???
Please help me get over my nerves, Advicenators! I need help!
I prefer Deer Park High School graduates or student currently attending Deer Park High School in Deer Park, Texas to answer this question but it's okay if you aren't. Thank guys!
-Kayla (link)
ok im not from that school or ne were around it but i might be able to help a little bit. credits are like points, if you pass you class at the end of the semester you credits all get added up and you need so many to graduate. what i did was if you get to your first period class of that day you most likely fine about the whole getting lost deal, when your in their most normal teachers will find some one in your next period class or someone close to it, and if they dont find some one than they will give you directions. and about the accepting thing your right most kids are mean these days but the best advice i can give you is to be your self!!!


While i have never been for abortion, i find my self in an aknward situation. My friend thinks that she is pregnant. but she doesnt know for sure. she doesnt live close enough to a hospital to go and she cant buy a home preganancy test. I think that she is just feeling gulity because she had sex with her boyfriend and the stress i giving her these symptoms. But we have no way of knowing for sure. She says that if she is she will find the quickest way to have an abortion. I dont know what to do. (link)
well one way that you could help her is by getting a home preganacy test 4 her and taking it to school and have her do it their they only take a few min. to do, or have her spend the night with you and her do it their.

and if she finds out she is try not to let her think about the bad things help her think about the good things. tell her you will help her talk to her parents and tell her that you will be their for her no matter what happens.


i'm a sophmore in high school and have been going out with my gf since september. we go to different schools but they are pretty close only like 20 minutes awayy. she said shae doesnt want me to talk to her friends from skool which is weird, cuz i actually introduced her to friends from my skool. her friends are never around or with us when we hang out but i've met them a few times. is it wrong for her to do that, tellm e i cant talk to her friends? (link)
well she might think that her friends are prettier than her and that you have a crush on them or pay more attention to them reather than her. but i think its wrong! or her friends might know somethin about her that she dont want you to know and she is afraid they will tell you.


Im 13, female. And in the 7th grade.
I like a boy named Alex, Alex has a girlfriend named "Jessica" (THATS MY NAME ALSO, so you know.) & I have gym with alex and he always calls me "Jess" even though he thinks i cant stand it, (but i really do love it when he calls me jess) and like everytime i see him he just starts yelling "OMGOD ITS JESS, HIII JESS!!" all loud, and me and him act like we hate each other really bad, but we dont really "hate" eachother, and its kinda seems to me like its like how they used to tell you when your mean to somebody you really like them. But i dont know if he likes me. But see just yesterday i told him i couldnt stand him and he was like.. "aw common you can stand me!" and we like paused and stared at eachother. does it sound like he likes me?
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yes! he likes you hes flirting with you real bad.


how do you dump a guy without hurting his feelings? (link)
well i dont think that their is any possible way to dump a guy without hurting his feelings but you might want to try to explain to him why and by telling him that you want you 2 to still stay friend and to acually stay friends with him =)


On The-N are they ever going to show any new episodes of Degrassi or are they going to just keep playing Degrassi minis on the website.

And if anybody knows, what are Degrassi minis? Are they ever going to come to the tv? (link)
sorry i dont mean to sound stupid, but i never knew that ne 1 else ever watched that show i thouhgt that i was like the only one cause no one in my school has ever seen it


My step father has been forcing me to have sex with him for a few years now. When I was 8-9 he brought home a porno tape and showed it to me. I called my mom and told her that it was a sick tape and he threw it away. After that, my dad has brought porno tapes for us to watch and has had sex with me various times. I hate it when this happens, but I've been afraid to tell anyone!! He taps my ass and touches it and stuff. What do I do to make it stop?!?! (link)
ive never been in that situation befor but if you have no one at home you can tell than look for other members in you family that you can talk to. and if you still cant find no one to talk to than talk to you school consolur. it might be hard to do but this might be the only way for it to get stoped.(good luck)




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