hey guys i need some halp me and my x-girl friend are going to a school dance tonight well i like her alot but i broke up with her the last time because she was really controlling and did not want me to go any where or do any thing like on new years i wanted to go to a party with some of my friends and she did not want me to go she thought that i should go to the movies with her well it is new years you should be hangin out with you friends right? so i dont know if i should go back out with her or not can u give me so advice
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:53 pm: It's always good to give someone another chance. No girl or boy should ever control the relationship and/or the person. If you really like her and want to try again, ask her back out. Make sure you talk to her before going out with her and let her know how you feel about it. If she really likes you she would trust you not to do anything stupid and so you won't hurt her. You have to say those things to her so she knows you like her and so she can trust you with other people. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday March 4 2006, 5:45 pm: If you really like her you can try again.
Just be sure you discuss the control issue with her up front and let her know what you will and won't tolerate.
It is important that you spend time together, you do need some time apart with friends too though. Make sure you let each other know about those times well in advance so that the other can make different plans. Also, be sure and let her know that you still care, even when you need some time away with friends.
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