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young and in love


Question Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 5:24 pm

I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?

13/F

Thanks so much !!


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sml111992 answered Sunday March 5 2006, 6:27 pm:
hey, i have a b/f too and im 13/f and we say we love each other all the time. if u really love him then say it dont be shy first give him a letter on line or a note in school w/e and say lets make plans this weekend go to the movies or something? sign ur name at the bottom and say love you! see what he writes back.

hope all goes well for u!

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Kathryn answered Sunday March 5 2006, 3:44 pm:
no honey!! i think that is just something parents made up to keep their kids from dating. you can tell your boyfriend NAYTHING you want to tell him!

kathryn

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lorawhat answered Sunday March 5 2006, 2:29 am:
age doesn`t change the way you feel about someone, but age does affect how he might react to you saying "i love you." sure you might feel it but you`re still young, and you have the rest of your life to find a boy that you fall in love with. just have fun while you`re young and don`t make the relationship too serious. just go with the flow and hey, maybe he`ll say it first.

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bittersweet17 answered Sunday March 5 2006, 1:09 am:
i wouldnt say that their is an age limit on love but when you say the words "i love you" you should actually mean it and it should come from your heart! just saying "i love you" dosen't truly mean that you are in love. but if you are this young have you thought that it might scare him off???i hope this helps..

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ItzMzManda answered Saturday March 4 2006, 9:19 pm:
Age doesn't really matter at times as long as you guys really care and love each other than its fine. You can say that you love him just to please him, but dont say it if you dont mean it. Let him know that you care a lot about him. Saying I Love You is suppose to be special and you can't just say it and not mean it. There are other words and sayings and ways to let your boyfriend know that you love him and care about him. Hope this helps!

-Manda

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Teza answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:46 pm:
You can still tell your boyfriend you love him but .. it just bothers me when people say I love you without meaning it. I always said it to please the guy .. but of course I didn't mean it but I did care about him and I guess he knew. Just because you are young does not mean you can't be in love and you're right about that but most of us just take the relationship way to serioualy and just say you are in love and this and that and when you break up.. guess what, you guys never loved each other. So anyways, what I'm trying to say is that if you really like your boyfriend you can still tell him you love him. It's one of those boyfriend girlfriend things. You say love ya in the end of every conversation and it just prooves that they like you. Do you get what I'm saying? Lol.

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kelseyjo answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:44 pm:
if you really feel that you love him than tell him.i dont think that that saying is really true.

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heartbroken answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:42 pm:
If you feel that you Really like someone then I don't see why you can't tell him you love him. Don't listen to people who say you are to young. Just becareful because your boyfriend may not be ready for the whole "I Love You". Just take it slow but if you feel that you are ready then go and tell him

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jammy12 answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:39 pm:
Gosh the best advice I can give u, being 13 also, is that maybe it might be infatuation. I mean it doesn't necessarily hve to be because maybe you do love him. Don't push it too much and I guess it's ok to say I love you...but jus remember it doesn't hve to be the real deal!

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tasuki answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:26 pm:
It depends on if your boyfriend is comfortable with it. Personally I don't believe what most people say. Four-year-olds can be in love. You are too young to have sex, get married, raise children, own a house, etc. but none of those things are love. Don't worry about what others think. You're the only one who knows how you feel.

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storageanddisposal answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:10 pm:
Love is a very fluid concept. It can take on many meanings and most of the time definitions only hold true to an individual. If you think you love him, then you love him. A year from now you may think otherwise on your feelings for him now, but that has no bearing on today.

If you feel you love him, tell him you love him.

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BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Saturday March 4 2006, 6:51 pm:
Hey, You can tell your boyfriend that you love him. There is no age of falling in love. But only say you love him if you really mean it. Cait ♥

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fabulous11 answered Saturday March 4 2006, 6:13 pm:
No you can if you really feel that way. Anyone can feel love at anytime your not too young.

-Jess

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sizzlinmandolin answered Saturday March 4 2006, 5:57 pm:
Definitely not! If you feel love for him, yes, tell him. Remember that your feelings can always change and just as long as you feel love for him at the time that you tell him then it's perfectly okay. Personally, I don't think that you are too young to love. Yes, it takes some time to understand what love is, but that doesn't mean that you can't feel it. Love is usually different when you're 13 and when you're 31, but it's just different. Good luck!

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