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Hey
I'm 14 years old and a freshman in highschool. There is this one boy, we'll call
him John, that i have really liked for probably a month or so. He didn't use to
talk to me so much, but in the past weeks we've been walking to the classes we
have together with eachother, He seems to kind of hang back sometimes so we can
walk next to eachother, and he'll spark up conversation more than usual. I've
even caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me too. But he says
funny things when he's talking to me and he seems to like spending time with
me...I have his screen name, but he's not much of an online talker
unfortunately. I'm too shy to give him my number, and he's rather shy too,
that's why i noticed his sllightly picked up interest. Do you think he likes me,
or am i just blowing things out of proportion?" (link)
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hmm.. that is a tuff one because one of my friends had the same thing going on but he was just being "friendly" so to speak. But there is a chance that he does infact like you. Maybe one day ask him who he likes. But if you are affraid he wont tell you then maybe get a friend to ask him. another way is asking him straight out if he likes you. you said you were shy so i dont know if that would work. Keep me posted on how things go and if youd like more advice just ask
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Ok this is not a question its more of a comment about your awnser on onther perssons question.
The persson's question:
When you use a vibrator..do you usually put a condom on it?
Your awnser to the question:
heartbroken answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 4:05 pm:
No because a condom helps stop seamin getting out but with a vibrator there is no seamin so it wouldnt help
Ok you got one thing right that there is no seemen in a vibrator. Although a condom is not used to stop seemen getting out. A condom is used as a protection barior to stop the translation of STD (sexualy transmited desseases). (link)
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condoms are also used to reduce the chances of yu getting pregnant (a.k.a a barrier for seemin)
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When you use a vibrator..do you usually put a condom on it? (link)
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No because a condom helps stop seamin getting out but with a vibrator there is no seamin so it wouldnt help
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My aount wont pay me for cleaning and watching her baby for 2 1/2 yeas now she owes me like$2500 so far. i talk to my parents and they talk to her but she says that she will or did. but she never has. what should i say to her wih out being rude. and when a friend calls me on my cell and invites me over and i tell her i am leaving in 20 minutes sh says you are not leaving until everything is done. like shes paying me. what should i say. (link)
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tell her up front .. be like "well i am getting taught responsibilities and i feel that i should be getting payed so i can buy my own stuff"
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hi there my name is pleasure (a girl)from dade county,florida and i am 15 years old i need advice on first time sex i have many questions?
I would like to know if i would cry when i lose my viginity and how much will it hurt?????(i really need to kno cuz i am very scared and i need to kno how i can get over this fear?????
~Pleasure
dade county,florida (link)
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Well there is a very small chance you will cry. it depends how sensitive you are and when you loose your virginity it will most likely hurt because the hymen must get broken so the sperm can come out.. hope i helpedd
heartbroken
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I'm sure this question has been asked before. But I want to know if I can get a straight forward answer. I've googled hundreds of times, and can't seem to find an answer. When is a woman most fertile?
Before, After, or During her period? (link)
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Ive been told it is usually right between your periods. i also believe that right before you get your period you will probably have many eggs floating around because if you think about it , right after your period most of the eggs have been "let" out. During your period i would say is not the smartest time to have intercourse because some eggs could be trying to release but while the penis is in you they will get stuck and that could make problems and my last point is.. right before your period is not always when you are most fertile. if you have intercourse right before your period the sperm and the egg will be coming together but they will all get released.
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I'm sorry this is so long, but it's a pretty complicated situation.
Okay, so when my boyfriend and I first starting dating...there was this girl that really liked him and wanted to be with him. My boyfriend told her that he wasn't interested because he was with me and that they just needed to be friends. Well I called him one night and he was somewhere with her 'talking about it in person.' I didn't really think anything of it, and I just forgot about it. Well then he said that they didn't really talk anymore, but she was still texting him and stuff. Well one night my boyfriend and I were together and she kept calling him...still. So I started worrying about it again and I checked his text messages and apparently they had been hanging out still. He had texts from her saying 'Will you drive tonight?' blah blah. I didn't say anything about it because I was ashamed that I had looked through his text messages. Well last night I called him and she was at his house at 11 PM. I didn't overreact at first until I found out that they were in his room. I was mad because he knew I wouldn't be comfortable with that and he still let her come over.
He said that she came over at 11 PM to wish him a happy late birthday and that they were in his room because she was checking her myspace, but it turns out she doesn't even have one.
I'm especially upset because his story doesn't make sense and I know if the tables were turned, he'd be pissed off at me. I don't know what to do. I know we need to talk about it, but I need to know a calm way to do it because I'm very tempermental. What do I say?
18/f. We've only been together for 4 months. (link)
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hmm sounds hard. maybe you could just tell him that your not comfortable with her being in his room and also that she lied about the my space thing and that made you feel more uncomfortable. be honest with him yes it would hurt if he was doing something but maybe you will find out that they were just hanging out and he thought you would over react..
Heart Broken
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my boyfriend who is a year older than me used to walk wih me evry morning in school, and like giv me hugs, but now all of sudden he wont walk with me or even like talk to me, he just pretend she doesnt see me, and if i talk to him he'll listen but he wont look me, he just looks right past me. I thought he was going to dump me but then he wanted to hangout after school. is he like embarrased of me, or do u think he is gonna dump me? (link)
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maybe you should just ask him what is going on. Be up front with him and dont be scared .. just start off with something like im not mad but it was just a little akward when you stopped walking with me to school and could you please just tell me if i did something or.. and you continue on.. i hope i help
Heart Broken
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guys girls how can i tell when a girl is a virgin? its it true that when virgins have sex for the first time they bleed? (link)
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yah just a little , but don't worry about it
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well, I like this kid in my chorus class. He found out I like him because he could "tell" but I have to play juliet and he's romeo and I dont know how to act around him anymore he's acting like nothing happened which relieved me but I still dont know what to say or do.
Ill rate high (link)
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well that must suck , just try acting normal and don't take the kiss very seriously UNLESS he does.
~*~heartbroken~*~
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okay... I have this friend (lets say her name is Kelley) and shes really cool and stuff. I have another friend, (lets say her name is Jen) who I used to be really good friends with. Now Jen is a lot more "popular" than me and kelley, but she was pretty nice to us up until a few months ago. First, we had always sat at the same table together, and now she is sitting with the kids who are really mean. She didnt say anything to us or anything, and she just sort of ditched us. I was okay with that, maybe she just wanted to meet new people or something. So anyways, Now we have to do a community project for school. Kelley and I are making blankets for children in a homeless shelter and jen wants to deliver bears to the hospital. Shes all mad cuz we wanna do something else so she just switches groups. Shes seemed really selfish to me because she was saying "what kids would want some stupid blankets" and was sayin that "oh this will take too long." She calls us her "little friends" all the time because she thinks her popular friends are more important or something.
So I really dont know what to do. She doesnt know that me and Kelley are mad at her, and I have just kind of avoided her. On the other hand, I dont want to be mean either.
Should I give Jen another chance? Or should I just stay away and be friends with Kelley? (link)
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I have had that sone to me to. It really sucks. If i were you i would tell her that you don't want to be friends with someone who is your friend one day and not then next. I hope that i am to help
B.R: heartbroken
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can you get pregnant if sperm is outside the body?? ex. you use a public bathroom & sperm is on the seat, you have sex & sperm is on the area you had sex on, er juss sperm anywhere??
thanks!! (link)
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no , umm the sperm has to get in touch with the egg and it has to be alive , if the sperm can last for 72 hours in the female body then it cant live outside for long because it needs to be in with blood (i learned this all in sex ed so i am soooooo sorry if i am wrong) but i can promise you that noh , you cant get pregnent!
Best Regards: heartbroken
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well i really need help...
one night i was babysitting and i brought a friend cuz we had to do a project. Then i brought her back and we were all hanging out...
now she helps me watch them and one of them wants her only to babysit and the other wants just me or both...
I really need help on how to make the oldest one like me again...
i dont even know what i did!
PLEASE HELP
love heartbroken (link)
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well , it's me agen , they hate her now LOL
it was not even my fault...
me and my friend got into an argument and she made them choose who thye wanted to babysit and i told her that is rude and i am their actuall babysitter. Now they kinda like her but dont want her to babysit them ever again. It was so funnie!
i didnt even have to do anything!
thanks for your help ;)
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how much do they generally cost to get a well done tounger piercing & like does it hurt...could someone fill me in a lot about like before during and after you get your tounge pierced...like does it really mess up your teeth?! (link)
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I have never had my tounge pierced but i want you to know this...
If your tounge gets infected they may have to cut it off. When you talk people they will usually be looking in your mouth. and when you eat , food will get stuck on it so if you eat corn and a piece of the skin gets cought on it and you move the ring around you have a strong chance of the skin going in your tounge to infect it!
best regards: Heartbroken
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ok, this is really confusing but here we go. Since October I have sort of had this thing for this one guy. But I didn't really tell any body and now i found out that one of my other friends likes him too and i promised her i wouldn't mess it up, thats not who I am. I asked him if he liked her and he doesn't, i actually heard that he likes me. But then a few days ago this other guy text me saying he liked me. He is not a bad guy but i don't like him in that way. But i think i might have led him to think that i was interested in him. There is no way that anybody could not get hurt and I really don't want to hurt anybody. What should I do?? Luv Megz2009 (link)
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Well...
that must suck!
You should first get one of your friends to ask the guy you like if he likes you. And if he does then you should try telling the other guy that likes you that you don't like him in that way but you would love to be friends.
If the guy you like doesn't like you then maybe you should give the guy that likes you a chance. You Never Know What'll happen...
Good Luck
signed: Heartbroken
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ok i live in new orleans. my dad came to help fix my house. well he started to have stomach pains. we found out he has livier cancer cause he is an acholic. well he will die anyday now. well now my grades are sinking and my mom hardly lets me on the computer we go to consuling but they still cant fingure me out. i can hardly fingure myself out. my dad now always screams at me cause he is in a bad mood and it imbaresss me what should i do? i cry every nitee (link)
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Well...I'm Sorry about your dad but the reason that your grades are sinking is probably because Your Dad Is on your mind and you can't concentrate. Your mum is probably woried about you. And she is in alot of pain and has alot of greif right now. As for your dad yelling at you... He is probably just Trying to let out his pain through anger. He probably see's how your mum is and that makes him mad so because you are right there he will continue Yelling. Just tell your dad that you know he is in alot of pain but that is no reason to be treating you the way he is. Tell him that it is making you feel scared.
I hope i am to help :)
Good Luck
Signed:heartbroken
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I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?
13/F
Thanks so much !! (link)
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If you feel that you Really like someone then I don't see why you can't tell him you love him. Don't listen to people who say you are to young. Just becareful because your boyfriend may not be ready for the whole "I Love You". Just take it slow but if you feel that you are ready then go and tell him
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How can you tell if he actually likes you?
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Flirting may not always be a sign. When i was in grade 7 i flirted with this guy i really liked and he flirted back , but he didn't like me. You are going to have to maybe get a friend to ask him. Just don't embaress yourself!
Good Luck!
signed:heartbroken
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