ok, this is really confusing but here we go. Since October I have sort of had this thing for this one guy. But I didn't really tell any body and now i found out that one of my other friends likes him too and i promised her i wouldn't mess it up, thats not who I am. I asked him if he liked her and he doesn't, i actually heard that he likes me. But then a few days ago this other guy text me saying he liked me. He is not a bad guy but i don't like him in that way. But i think i might have led him to think that i was interested in him. There is no way that anybody could not get hurt and I really don't want to hurt anybody. What should I do?? Luv Megz2009
heartbroken answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:54 pm: Well...
that must suck!
You should first get one of your friends to ask the guy you like if he likes you. And if he does then you should try telling the other guy that likes you that you don't like him in that way but you would love to be friends.
If the guy you like doesn't like you then maybe you should give the guy that likes you a chance. You Never Know What'll happen...
KaladaLeigh answered Saturday March 4 2006, 7:47 pm: If you don't like the guy that texted you, then let him know that he is very nice to like you and you think he's a great guy but you don't want to go out but you would love to have him as a friend and that maybe your feelings might change.
As for the guy you and your friend like, yes, you liked him first but your friendship is way more important than a boy.
Let your friend know that you love her and you never want anything to come between you two, but tell her that you like the boy and tell her you won't ask him out but ask her to understand if he asks you out.
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