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well i am having a baby and i got from when i got raped and my boyfriend said i will be the dad and i'll help buy things. i hope he does but i am afraid that we stay together and the baby sees him as daddy and calls him daddy then we breakup and what i will do to tell me child he's not daddy anymore

do you two really love eachother??? if so GET HITCHED. if not then find someone else.

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Okay, So my mom is letting me re do my room. I have three colors i would rlea ylike to put into my room.. pink, gray, black. I can do anything tha ti want so thats not an issue. Its just coming up with designs. My momwanted to do circles and i wanted ot do stripes. Im a 14 year old girl. I'm sorda girly but a totaly pink room would get old to quick. Anyways, my mom already did my room onc ebefore when i first got the roo and she said that shes never redooing it again so i have to be able to live in thsi room while being 14 15 16 17 and maybe 18. So please, any ideas, pictures, url, would be helpful. Any ideas where i like them or not will get a 5. If you say somthing stupid like pant it pink then no. I want it diffrent. I dont wnat it just one simple color. My rooms fairly big so i can do anything to it. Pleaseeee help!!!

Much love
Meg.

i would paint your room a light color... like light pink or grey or white... then add darker stripes or dots.. your pick.... then get tons of cute pillows in those colors and put them on your bed with a white bedspread... then just add small knink knacks and such that match... TA DA!!!! its brilliant.

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So I like this guy a little bit but I rarely am able to see him. Also I am almost positive he doesnt think of me in that way even tho he says im cute and hot and stuff.
I really want to hang out with him! but if I invite him over i kno my parents will emberess me.
How can i hang out with him and what can I do when I hang out with him?

ask him to meet you @ a movie or something.... you don't have to be @ ur house to have fun.... lol

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Hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and iam babysitting this child who's autistic and he left the house today without telling me what should I do if he does it again?

just keep your eye on him... if you watch him all of the time he wont leave without you knowing... no brainer..

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theres this kid in school whos "somewhat" popular becuz hes really good looking. I want to become friends with him but i dont want to just go up to him and say "hi i want to be your friend"..how weird is that..what should i do??

figure out something you have in common and then just be like hey did you hear about the blah blah blah???

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I currently can do a mile in a little over 10 minutes. how can i get this down to like 8 minutes or less for track??
please help

try starting to run distance. it helps slowly build up your endurance. try running 2, 3, 4, and eventually 5 miles a day..... but take them slow...

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My boyfriend has been having a really rough time lately, and I just want to do something special for him to cheer him up and show him how much I care and will always be there for him. But I'm a little lost on ideas...if you have any, I'd really appreciate it.
Thanks

set up a picnic in either 1) your backyard or 2) your living room (but move the furniture out of the way) then make him his favorite foods, turn the lights down low, and put on some music... when he comes over he will be surprised... tell him you will always be there for him. ** HINT ** always pack grapes.... then eat them seductively XD

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ok. i like these 2 guys from school. one i have gone out with for 9 months, and the other one i have been going out with for a week. (right now i am going out wiht him)but i still like the other guy a lot!!! this guy right now is way too touchy, and the other guy is preverted.When i go out with the one i really like, my best friend thinks he is a loser! so i really need advice! What should I do???

i say that you should dump them both... i mean if 1 is touchy... that is just a major NO and if the other is perverted he might want to do stuff that you aren't comfertable doing... so move on

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ok well i just broke up with someone..and now im single.and happy.so now EVERYONE is asking me who i like.its getting so annoying..so my past 2 bfs stil like me.this random guy ..and my best friend.now my best friend is cute..and we can talk abut everything..i had no clue he liked me.this is really hard for me..and now i no he likes me.but everone thinks i like him but i don't, and even if i did i couldn't cause i don't want to ruin our friendship.im so confused. i don't no if i like him..i neeed help

friends w/ benefits! yay! no strings attached! yay!

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hey have anyone read the book Queen of Cool? if so what is it about? this girl said that it has some sexual stuff in it but she wont exactly tell me what it said. also is it a good book to buy or no? i rate high for good answers and dont try to lie because i have ways of knowing. LOL!!!

no. no one has read that book. if you REALLY want to know about it then just buy it dumb ass!

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I am 14/f, and i think i have a serious depression thing. I am always feeling sad, and guilty about something. most of the time that i get a guilty feeling, i dont even know what i feel guilty about. Can someone tell me what i can do to be happier? Nothing in my background is making me depressed either. I tend to wear a lot of black, which is kinda what i feel: emptyness, guilt, sadness, darkness...See what i mean? im not like goth or anything, but i do hang out with a lot of goths. But anyways, i dont want to go to a psychiatrist or doctor, cause last time i did that, he told my mother that i was 'suicidal'. and i cant talk to my councilor at my school, she is a B*tch. please help me...

tell your parents.... but it sounds like what just about all teens feel like

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Okay so i really like this friend of mine...I mean I have fallen hard...but the problem is...I am completely unsure as to if he likes me...I mean he acts like he does...but then again he is kinda flirting well..not exactly flirting...but messing with other girls while i'm right there...I just act like i dont care and laugh with him...but anyways...back to the issue...i really like him..and i want to know if he likes me..but i dont want to ask him straight up...is there anything he might do that would let me know he's into me? or is there any way i can get him to confess he likes me without being to obvious? I dont want to ask him straight up because i dont want to hurt our friendship...any ideas?? Thanks sooooo much in advance to any answers!

just ask him..... hey... do you wanna go out with me? but do it in a tone that could be taken jokingly or seriously...

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My boyfriend of two years is really starting to annoy me. I love him to death but hes ready to settle down and i dont think im ready. He asked me to marry him and im only 15 years old,and im not ready for that kind of commentment...yet. And since then everything has been really weird between us. If i talk to another guy (like this guy ive been friends with for along time)he gets all jealous and we fuss. I really love him and all but i dont think im ready for a serious relationship like he wants. What should i do? How do i tell him without hurting him?

tell him that you are too young to make that kind of desision. then bang him XD

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Does Hydrogen Peroxide solution really turn your hair blonde. Cause I might put it in my hair.

Ill rate 5's

it does but after you do it your hair looks like shit, and if you do it to much your hair will break off...

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OK i was just wondering if it was ok if i wore a tampon to school all day without changing it??

like i would put it in around 7:15 and take it out around 3:30

Is that to long?!?!

i would change it around lunch time... unless you don't want to change it... then i would say that you should take it out and wear a pad for part of the day..... you could get an infection in you leave it in that long...

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Hey everyone..my junior prom is sort of coming up and i wanna start lookin for a dress..does anyone know if the dresses are usually floor lenght or does it not matter..and where are some good places to look for unexpensive dresses?

no it doesn't matter... i snuck into one last year wearing a short dress and about 1/2 of the people there were too.

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are there any lip plumping lip glosses that dont burn? i saw this one in a catalog but my mom threw it away. i want an inexpensive one. preferably one that doesnt stink...lol thanks

no... they all burn XD

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i know this is a pretty stupid question, but who won the flavor of love ? lol i missed the season finale
thanks

yes. extremely stupid question. NO ONE.

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Here are the basics: 18/f, about 138lbs. (Ew).
Okay, so my diet's not too bad - Everything I eat has to be nonfat if possible, and I don't even eat that much. I also exercise, and I know the exercising I'm doing is making a difference - my body looks a little better and feels a little stronger. My goal is to lose like 20 pounds.
I do 200 crunches every other night, 40 every other night
I lift and curl and do pushups and dips, and do some cardio when I can.
But I still have like, an inch of fat on me that I'm DYING to get rid of. I'm convinced at this point that with all the work I do, if I didn't have this fat on my stomach, I would have a nice set of abs. I'm not "fat" - my BMI is normal - but I'm not happy with the way I look and feel.
I know I have to do cardio - but how much? Are there any other tricks I can use? Eating less isn't an option, as I barely eat to begin with. Lol.
Does cutting carbs really work? I thought of that, but my mother is convinced it's bull, so I dunno what to think.
I only drink water and coffee (I can't cut coffee, I neeeeeeeed it.) and I've been sleeping more lately.
That's all I can think of to say, so help me out!

I rate down for bad grammar and spelling. If I have to read your answer more than once to understand you, you're not getting a five.
Thanks in advance. =)

join a sport like water polo, or cross country, or track. but don't cut carbs. you will have no energy. just watch what you eat.

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so me and cody have been dating for like 20 days. and me and him are as close to perfect (probably not the best word to get my point across) as a couple can get, until it comes to hangin out. like at school hell talk to me and well hold hands and he doesnt care what his friends think. but we had vacation and we made plans 3 times to hang out, HE made them, HE broke them ..

friday he said to call when i woke up, so i did and his mom said shed have him call me. well 6 hours later .. he hadn't called .. so i called and she hung up on me .. cody NEVER called to apolgize or say he couldn't. now hes in maine till vacations over. and his fones off ..


i left him a voicemail sayin it kind of hurt my feelings (he ignored my call, like it rang and he pressed ignore, so i know he had his fone, so i know he got he voicemail) and to call me. its 2 days later and he hasn't called. but he'll call me sunday before school and apologize and have an excuse .. he always does .. and i always believe him ..

everyone says dump him .. but i cant. i love him .. i just dont know what to do without messing it up and gettin him pissed off .. HELP?!

you love him. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. he is going to dump you anyways so get over his

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