My boyfriend of two years is really starting to annoy me. I love him to death but hes ready to settle down and i dont think im ready. He asked me to marry him and im only 15 years old,and im not ready for that kind of commentment...yet. And since then everything has been really weird between us. If i talk to another guy (like this guy ive been friends with for along time)he gets all jealous and we fuss. I really love him and all but i dont think im ready for a serious relationship like he wants. What should i do? How do i tell him without hurting him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lovingthesunnx0 answered Saturday March 18 2006, 7:18 pm: ohkay ... first of all, yall have to be sixteen before you can get married without parental permission. second of all, if you talk to one of your guy friends and he gets that jealous, then he must not trust you enough. and trust me, without trust, a marriage is sure to fail. no offense but asking you to marry him at age fifteen is a little unusual, it seems like he is looking for love very early, just tell him that you arent ready to settle down and that you dont know what you want yet and if he doesnt understand then he might not be for you.
socialitex3 answered Wednesday March 15 2006, 5:44 pm: Maybe you guys are spending too much time with eachother && thats why your getting annoyed with him. Try spending less time together.
&& Next time he asks you to marry him, just say that your only 15 && not ready for that kind of commitment.
livinthesimplelife08 answered Wednesday March 15 2006, 3:28 pm: Well the next time he asks you to marry him.. tell him your only 15 and not ready for that commitment, but reinsure him that you do love him.. and the next time you hang out.. talk to him about the jealousy, it probally will get worse... and about the telling without hurting him.. i don't think theres a way to tell him without hurting him a little..
IM_SO_HARDCORE answered Wednesday March 15 2006, 3:04 pm: well, if you've been with this person for TWO YEARS, its basically impossible to tell him that without hurting him. if its been two years then you should want to be with him, maybe youshould just talk about his jealousy and tell him it really bothers you, but if you cant take it anymore then i then only thing you can do is just take a break or something. [ IM_SO_HARDCORE's advice column | Ask IM_SO_HARDCORE A Question ]
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