♥our names are ansley and rachel
♥ we have been best friends since 2ond grade
♥ we both cheer for our school
♥ we are both 13
♥ we are very understanding people
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♥ we love the beach
♥ we love the movies
♥ we absolutely love summer
♥ we love to hang with friends
♥ no question is stupid so please ask!!
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hey i'm in eighth grade and at my school there are these two girls who ALL the guys in my grade have liked ever since seventh grade. they only hang out with those two girls and talk to them and they look at all of the rest of us like we're hideous. it's almost like they line up for them because whenever one of them dump someone they seem to have another boyfriend in like a few hours! it really stinks cause i'm good friends with them both and they're really nice...but when it comes to guys they're totally different people. my other friends and i haven't had a good boyfriend since they all started liking those two girls. even if we do get one we know that in the back of their head they're probably thinking of one of those two girls. we've pretty much given up on guys and lost confidence in ourselves. we're really getting sick of it because there isn't even a point of us liking someone since we know that that guy likes one of those two girls and we don't have a chance. some of my friends are even starting to try to act all ditzy like the two girls do just to get attention. i want guys to notice my friends and i when we just act like ourselves. what should i do?? (link)
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ansley says :: well if i was you i would talk to those girls and tell them how you feel, if they blow up and get really mad at you then they are totally being dramatic and they really arent very good friends, just dont drag your other friends into the argument .. just tell them how you really feel, tell them all the stuff you pretty much told me in the last half of your story and even if they dont listen to you, you will probably feel alot better that you talked to them about it. hope we helped and good luck girl!
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Ok, I have no idea what to say when people ask me out and I don't like them. Everytime I end up saying something nice and i guess I kind of lead them on, but I don't mean to, I just don't want to be mean. So what can I say when I don't want to go out with them?
THANKS =) (link)
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ansley says :: this is what i always do .. i always tell the guy that i have "never thought of them as more than a friend" or i say "im very happy that you asked me out but i dont think of you that way, i just want to be friends" thats what i say and i sure hope it helps!!
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well i whould like some so that is why im wrinting i dont like the way i look and i was wondring if u chould help me i usally wear black and i dont like the way my face looks but i dont no if that s just me or what and so i want some good fashion types your most likly not to put your name in theses qustion things but im going this is chirstian ....ill be wating (link)
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christian just do what i told you!!!
hope this helped ... lol =)
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Could a sign a guy likes you be that he talks to everyone and is able to keep long converstations with other girls, but with me hes shy and we have short random conversations, usually having to do with making fun of each others in a nice way? thanks in advance! (link)
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hahaha yes i would say that was a sign!!
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im a sophomore in highschool and the guy i like is a senior. he'd had a girlfriend for a long time. about 2 years i think. but they break up alot and fight alot. i really like him and i dont know what to do. should i tell him i like him? he is the most popular kid in school. everybody knows him even the freshman. i talk to him online but we only hung out once and thats when he invited me to come see him at his work. we have alot in common like the music and movies and the stuff we like. i dont know how serious he is with his gf. he always tells other girls their hott. plus they fight alot. how can i hint to him that i like him without actually telling him straight out? or should i tell him straight out? should i even tell him at all? (link)
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ansley says :: well if i was in your situation this is what i would do ... i would start hanging out with him more, do more stuff with him to get to know him better and learn more about him, then when you feel comfortable you can tell him you like him if you want to .. that is what i would do and i sure hope it helps && good luck!!
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Hey im 13/f and I was wondering how do you get guys to notice you? I'm not ugly or anything guys just dont seem to ever like me theres always someone better than me to like. How do I get guys to notice me? (link)
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ansley says :: i am the same age as you and i had the exact same problem, i always thought that all of the girls at my school were prettier and better than me and no guys would EVER notice me, but then i realized that i just need to be myself, i dont need a guy to like me because im pretty or i'm ditsy ... a guy should like you for who you are, just be yourself! ohh and all of the girls who are pretty and get all the guys at our school have some sorry attitudes so they wont have a guy for very long so just remember, dont ever change yourself for a guy!!
hope this helped and good luck!! ♥ us
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14/f okay so i have this friend and she likes my boyfriend&&shes really really pretty she als0o has down syndrome... but not very severly any ways shes like my best friend and im so jealous of her and im afraid that my boy friend likes her i dont wwant to be mean to her because of her problem... shes also really popular ok once she was like yahh if he was here right now i would so make out with him i was like wtf thats my bf... should i drop her as a friend or should i dump my boyfriend or WHATT!?!?!?!
sincerely---confused (link)
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rachel :- stuff like this happens with two of my friends like all the time. obviously this girl isnt a very good friend. she doesnt care whether or not this guy is your boyfriend or not. if you really like/love your boyfriend then dont end it. this girl doesnt deserve your friendship and your boyfriend. hope this helps!
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I have this friend.. Haley. She is going out with Steven. Steven is really really really cute. and he is the ONLY guy that will accualy be my friend. hes so niicee.. and is the only guy that I am confertable being arround. But he likes haley, and haley likes him. And I dont wana ruin the relationship between them but i flirt with him so much that its not even funny!! Help!! I dont wana lose either of my friends!! (link)
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rachel :- ohkay ... i think that you should tell haley and steven both how you feel. if it was meant to be with you and him then it will happen over time. and haley should be happy for you when it does happen if she's really your friend. hope it helps!
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okay well me and this kid really like eachother like we were talking online last night like all night & it was like really cute cause he kept like telling me how much he likes me crap and i really really like him too. yeah sounds great but last time we liked eachother like nothing happened we just stayed friend. like i really wanna go out with him but like i never ask guys out. i think its sooo weird and like creepy. haha but like i dont know what to do to like get him to ask me out like what to say or what cause ive basically told him that i want to be with him and he said he was like in love with me so please help just like tell me what to do so he like gets the hint and asks me outt haha ill rate highh (link)
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rachel :- just talk to him. tell him how you feel. ask him why he's not doing anything if he likes you oh so very much. you basically just need to ask him about it and tell him that you feel the same way he does. hope it helps!
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Ok here's my situation.
I have a best friend.
He's totally beautiful inside and out. Well, we've been friends for a while..a long while.
I've recently had (cliche!) my eyes opened to see that I've started caring for him more then just a best friend.
He's everything I want in someone.
We've both had our hearts broken,been stepped all over..and we both are pretty lonely.
The only thing that's stopping me is, I don't know how to present this question to him.
I want to go out with him!
But I don't want things to get weird.
He wouldn't hurt me intentionally, I know this.
I've thought of a letter... But that's just to formal for a best friend.
I'm not to good wtih words. I don't know what to do. Please help,. Thank you.
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rachel :- ohkay ... you just need to tell him how you feel. if he doesnt feel the same way, or if he does but it doesnt work out the your friendship should be strong enough to overcome it. i hope this helps!
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okay so i was dating this guy mark & then i cheated on him with jason . bad idea.. okay so then mark found out and broke up with me .. but hes the one that i really love ... and then jason thought i liked him which i didnt i just wanted to get back at mark because he cheated on me last year with this girl named britt. but we just started talking again and i broke up with jason and mark wants to date me again but i now like jason ugh its just so confusing but now jason is dating some other girl that i dont even know i think just to make me jealous and i heard todayyyy that mark is cheating on me but i like jason ugh what should i do? (link)
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rachel :- wow this is a tough one. ohkay ... first you need to ask yourself if you have feelings for both guys. then ask yourself if you like one more than the other. if you do then tell him how you feel. if you like them both the same then i would go with the one who's single. hope it helped!
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So I have had my cell phone since November (2005), I have a plan with my mom with Verizon for like, 2 years I think. I want to switch to Sprint, do I have to wait to do that till after my two years with Verizon is up? Cause I don't want too, lol.
Any help would much much appreciated, thank you. (link)
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ansley says :: yeah unfortunatley you will have to wait until the two year agreement is up unless you want to pay a lot of money to end it hope this helps!!
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i've just broken up with my boyfriend of nearly four years. it's been four days since we've last spoken, and i know i shouldn't feel this way, but i feel terrible.
i've tried going out with friends, making myself productive, and yet i still can't get him off my mind.
any tips? (link)
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ansley says:: if i were you, i would just keep saying stuff to him and gradually talk to him more and more everyday until you get comfortable around him again, and then eventually tell him how you feel, just say you still have feelings from your last relationship and ask him if he does to ... i dont know if that will help you, but i sure hope it does!! good luck!
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okay i've been eating the same foods i normally do, not healthy..idk juss regularly, but i've been weight lifting, & i thought i'd probably lose weight. i gained 2 lbs!!! could this be turned into muscle & that's why i gained more??
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ansley says :: it was deffinitley muslce and nothing else! hope this helps
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ok.. so there's this guy.. and i think i love him.. but we have been through soo much.. and now he hates me for something i didnt do.. he thinks im preventing him from being friends with one of his ex's who happens to be like my best friend.. but thats soo not the case!! its been 4 months since we broke up and ive been trying so hard to get over him.. and i almost did... but i dont know what came over me... i just snapped and fell in love with him again.. and i just cant get him off my mind.. and i really dont know what to do.. cause there is this other guy that i kinda sorta like but i dont know how he feels about me.. but the thing is i can never stop thinking about the guy i love when i talk to the guy i like.. im really trying to get over him but i cant.. and i reallyjust wanna be friends with him again.. i mean of course i wanna be more than that.. but i just dont want him to hate me
i dont know what to do..if you could help me i'd really appreciate it
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ansley says :: just talk to this guy, tell him how you feel about the whole situation, tell him that you arent trying to prevent him from being friends with his ex and that you would never do that, if he wont listen to you call him or leave him a message or write him a note, if he still wont listen to you then he probably isnt the guy for you and maybe you can give the guy you "like" a shot! hope this helps you and good luck!!
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I've been going on and off with my boyfriend for over a year.. his birthday is coming up and he'll be turning 18. I don't want it to just be like all of his other birthdays, because he's turning 18, I would want it to be good! you know..? I've gotten him nice jeans and band shirts before .. soo haha.
- He's in a band, he plays guitar.
- Wears nice jeans, but band shirts.
- Listens to screamo music (HA! I know.. and I'm preppy lol)
- Likes XBOX .. doesnt have the new one though.
- Like movies .. but not going to the movie theater (haha IDK!)
I'm going to spend 100 dollars or alittle more.
I'm not sure what I can do that will be good and not lame and stuff! Guys are so difficult to shop for sometimes haha. THANKS! (link)
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ansley says :: you could get him
- the new xbox
- games for the old one
- gift certificates
- something for the guitar
- tickets to his favorite band's concert
i dont know ... those are just a few ideas
hope we helped ♥ us
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mhm ..so i deff. have these friends && i love them alot! haha i love you two ;; bffae (link)
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thanks kels we love you too!! bff
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ansley says - i think if you still have feelings for him and he has feelings for you then you should go back out with him ... your friends have no business in your personal life, if they wanted to be good friends they would be behind you 100% even if they didnt like him they would still be there for you, i think you should go back out with him, hope this helps!! good luck!!
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If you call someone blocked on your cell phone can it be traced back. Like can you call your cell phone company and ask them who called you blocked and they tell you the number? (link)
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rachel :- if they blocked the number then i dont know any way that you can figure out who it is. if someone has been prank calling you lately then you may not want to answer it. what i always do when it's blocked is get a friend to answer or act like a guy to try to scare them off. lol! good luck!
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ok, so anyway, i was going out with this guy that i absolutley loved and supposedly he loved me, anyway he broke up wiht me cus we never really saw each other, and he felt like there was no spark. And he said that he was more hurt than I was cus he really loved me, it just felt like there was nothing there at the time. And then in a couple days he had already gotten another girl friend that he supposedly love. And he hated me, like I would try to tlak tohim and he would ignore me. Which made me mad cus he said he still wanted to be friends. But then he broke up with this other girl today, and he already had a girlfriend in a matter of hours. And he said the same thing to this girl, but he said, that they faught most of the time, and he felt liek they should be together at a later time. So what should me and this girl do, should we warn his girlfriend about how he acts, or just leave her alone and let her figure it out? i will give all 5's to whoever answers this.
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rachel :- i think that you should probably try to warn this girl but if she doesnt believe you then you should just leave her be. if the same thing happens to her and you didnt warn her then she might think that yall were planning on her getting hurt since you know how he is. if you warn her and she still doesnt do anything about it then it's her fault. she should have listened to you. hope it helps!
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