|
moving on...
i've just broken up with my boyfriend of nearly four years. it's been four days since we've last spoken, and i know i shouldn't feel this way, but i feel terrible.
i've tried going out with friends, making myself productive, and yet i still can't get him off my mind.
any tips?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
It's time for you to spend more time with your friends. Hang out with them some more. Talk to them on the phone. Listen to soothing music. Soon, you'll most likely find another guy. Even better than the last.
]
If you feel so lonely, why did you dump him? Just because it had been four years and wanted to find somebody new? If you did that, I think that you should ask him out again.
]
you definitly are going to need more time to get over it. a four year relationship doesn't go away after only four days. it make takes months. just keep doing what you're doing and eventualy it'll pass.
]
uhm, maybey he hasnt been of your mind, because he's supposed to be there. Dont get over him.
]
ansley says:: if i were you, i would just keep saying stuff to him and gradually talk to him more and more everyday until you get comfortable around him again, and then eventually tell him how you feel, just say you still have feelings from your last relationship and ask him if he does to ... i dont know if that will help you, but i sure hope it does!! good luck!
♥ usss
]
its alrite.. im sure you had a VERY good reason for breaking up.. and im sure u wouldnt off if you didnt think bout it long nd' hard and understood what yo really were doing and it wasnt for the best for both of you.. it will take some time.. it took me a long time jus to get over a 4 monther.. so jus keep goin on with your life.. and if you feel you need to talk to get things straightned and cleard then you should..
--lovelove
]
Well....you're going to feel bad. Just because you diden't want to date him anymore doesn't mean you can't care about him! Give it time. Keep doin what you're doin. If you feel like you'll NEVER get over it..mabye you should not have broken up w/ him.
]
Why should you not feel terrible? You just lost 4 years of life with someone!
You are going to feel terrible for a while. It is perfectly normal that you do.
Every single thing is going to remind you of him.
If you are going out with friends and all that you are doing what you can for now. You probably won't really get over him until someone comes along to replace him. That might just be awhile.
Time. That's the only thing that will help. I'm sorry, there just isn't any quick fix for you.
Continue to go out with friends. Have some fun when you can, and try not to let it get you down to much. When it does, get up and go do something...even when you don't feel like it.
It WILL get better. :)
]
More Questions: |