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Q: Can you be forgiven for being gay? Is it really a sin? What if you just want to try it and see what happens are you going to be penalized for that? Can someone help me asap.. these questions are for a friend who really needs it

yeah its really a sin. God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Bob.

Q: why are you going to answer a question when you only 15 you have no idea where to put a dick. you need to grow up before you can start to judge people

hhahaha .. if this is the person who thinks theyre pregnant you really should't be talking. Uhm, yes i do know where to put it, and i dont think thats any of you're buisness about my sex life, thanks. And you're the one writing to me and that just makes me feel very special, grow up first and then Ill think about it, Im 15, i dont need to grow up until im Old.. I just wanna have fun, and you seem like a stuck up, tight ass whore. So yeah, later, and thanks =]

Q: I don`t know why but every time I see a guy that I`m interested in I flirt but nothing seems to happen. I also think I dont want to like let them know I like them because it seems silly because almost every boy that i like I barely talk to or theres always some reason. I really want to be able to have them like me in return and show them that I like them but how without saying it?

What do you thinks my problem?
what should i do?

Ohkay, you're like a lot of other girls. You like people based on lust.. thats like looks if you didnt know.. If you barely talk to these guys you like, then obviously you dont know them well enough to like them.. give them time, talk to them and try to be a friend rather than a girlfriend right away.. i dont know, im not trying to be rude so dont take any of that the wrong way.

Q: 13/f almost 14
I think i'm getting my period. >:|
Lately, I've had white stuff in my underwear and REALLY bad cramps [i got sent home from school for them today; along with the fact they made me puke.] Also; My boobs got bigger in the last month. What do you think? Do you think I'll get it soon? What should I do if I get it in school?
Thank you.

lucky bastard.. my boobs didnt grow when i got it. anyways, uhh yeah the white stuff is called discharge, youll get it all the time now.. but yeah you're probably getting it , cuz u shulda got it around 11 but i dont know?

Q: Hi

I am 14 years old and me and my boyfriend have sex and we use protection but on night my boyfriend put his penis a little bit in my vagina, and took it out again,, it wasn't even in there for a minute. He took it out and i wiped my self off. I missed my period this month, and i am worried that i might be pregnant, I am going through a lot of stress this month and I am sick with the flu.. but i am still scared that i might be pregrant, what do you think..

hah, the only reason im answering this is because this just happened to me last week. Im 15, and i was soOo scared, because we were using a condom but it ripped and i freaked out because my period was late.. i got it a couple days later though thankfully.. The only thing i can say though is dont stress too much like i did, and just take a test..

Q: im a 21/f and have been married for a year but with him for 7years. how do i ask if another women can come in the bedroom?

WHAT!?!?!?!!?!?!?!? hahhahaha

Q: I am a 15- year old female that wants a navel piercing. Can someone send me a website on some information on what I am going to need to do, to keep it clean, and what to do and not to do in order for it not to get infected. Please Help ASAP

when you get it pierced they give you a bunch of papers with that stuff on it.

Q: I am a guy 5'6 and in 7th grade 3rd marking period. Is that tall for my age? And does anyone know if I will stop growing or not? I heard guys stop in highschool( middle)

well im a freshmen, and im 5'6.. hah so yeah you're tall i guess. shure, youll stop growing in time, of course.. around 16 or 18

Q: Hey my name is Rachel and Iam 16 years old and this boy asked me out yesterday,but he told me that his parents want him to break up with me without even meeting me and I finally found a guy that my parents approve of,but when I find a guy that my parents like his parents don't like me and I don't know why.How can I get his parents to like me without breaking our relationship?

uhm, sorry to tell yah, but thats the oldest excuse in the book.. if his parents dont even know you, then obviously he made that up for an excuse to break up with you.. sorry again.

Q: how long does it take for the welts (or whatever you want to call them) to go away wen u snap an elastic on your wrist? only answer if you really know plz:)

thx

can i ask why u snapped and elastic on your wrist?

Q: kay, this is kinda a weird question, but how do you pronounce the band Atreyu? I absolutely ADORE them but don't want to talk aobut them and sound like a moron.

thnx to anyone who actually helps. =]

hah, how can we pronounce it on here?

Q: i've just broken up with my boyfriend of nearly four years. it's been four days since we've last spoken, and i know i shouldn't feel this way, but i feel terrible.

i've tried going out with friends, making myself productive, and yet i still can't get him off my mind.

any tips?

uhm, maybey he hasnt been of your mind, because he's supposed to be there. Dont get over him.

Q: 13/f

i love guys... i have liked so many.. i'm like your typical guy crazy teenager. when i talk to them it makes me happy, and i love kissing them. but i had a dream where i was rubbing a girl's breats, and i liked it. i have never been attracted to girls and i am not now, i just like their boobs. what does this mean? am i bisexual or something?

i rate 5s on good answers.

hah, i had a dream i had sex with my best friend, and im not bi. i also had one that my mom died, and shes not dead.

dreams dont mean shit.

Q: i have been getting discharge for about 6 months, and i asked waht it was when i first started getting it. i was told that it means that i am going to get my period soon. but it has been a half a year and i still dont have my period. why is this and when will i get it? and please don't say, "oh you are so lucky not to have your period don't worry about it it will come when it comes it isnt something you want." because that is not my question. my question is why i haven't gotten it even though i have been getting discharge for a long time, and when will i get my period.

dude, ive had my period for years and i still get discharge, is there something wrong with me?

Q: what does being emo mean?

dont listen to these dumbasses, because just like everyone else they dont know what emo really is. Emo dont even stand for emotional it stands for EMOtive MUSIC. its a form of music, and SOME of them happen to cut them selves, be depressed, and wear there hair over there one eye.

Q: i REALLY like this guy. but we kinda just got in a fight.. he wasnt in a good mood in the first place.. and i was trying to tell him how hes feeling.. and i dont know. im just not, good at calming people down. i seem to make them madder obviously.. anyway, now hes mad and he blocked me.. and i dont wanna call him because if i do i think ill just make it worse. and i like him A LOT. what do i do?

just act like you dont care, it seriously works.. then he'll come to you

Q: Ok well this is a really strange question since most people ask the opposite, but does anyone know how I could gain like 10 pounds since I am really really skinny and people blame me for being anorexic? (and please just don't say eat more, since I already eat a lot and it doesn't really do anything). I pretty much want to gain weight all over, except for my abbs which i want to keep flat. Any ideas? Thanks a bunch in advance!

hah.. well i know this is stupid but it actually works: take steroids, and dont lift.. then all the fat stuff goes to your stomach.

Q: I got an eletric gutar last weekend and my mom said she would pay for lessons later but in the mean time i can try to find somthing on the internet that will help me learn. Any ideas?

yeah tab sites.. its really simple. just search on google for free lessons on the guitar.. thats how i learned.

Q: well i just started dateing this guy today ( tuesday ) and i met him last tuesday i think...anyway we dont really know much about each other but all i know is that i really like him and i guess he likes me because he asked me out..well since i dont really know much about him should we not go out?? and like 10 minutes after we left each other i felt like since i got what i wanted ( him really badly ) then i dont want him as much anymore...its like a game with me i guess.i dont know but it happens all the time.my friends think its because i want what i cant have and i guess thas kinda true..i mean i still like him but not as much anymore.what should i do?? ill rate high for any good answers

wow this reminds me so much of myself.. i was in love with this guy for 5 years, and i still am cuz he dont like me.. but when i had him i wasnt really interested, which is weird.. its just the part that you cant have them that makes you want them.. but anyways, stay with him, and get to know him through your relationship.

Q: my friends have been bugging me about how i have been taking 6 - 8 advils a day. they think i have really bad headaches because i tell them that. but sometimes i take them just for the heck of it.. my friends think that one day i will o.d. but i told them i wont. i also said i stopped taking them, but i havent.. i just dont want them to worry.. do you think im addicted? i dont, but i was wondering what you all think.

you have an addiction to advil? wow..

bio

Hey. My names Jess Madden, and no Im not related to John Madden. Im the chick with the brown hair in the picture. Anyways, Im 15 years old, have brown hair, blue eyes, im 5'6, and 130lbs. I LOVE my boyfriend, music, photography, tom petty, chicken, poka dots, the colors blue and silver, baseball, things that make me laugh, and my friends and family. I laugh at practically anything because i have a great sense of humor. Senses Fail and Tom Petty are my top 2 favorite bands. anyways yeah i dont know, Im random, love having fun, and PARTYING.. Im the only chick I know thats not two faced, but if you're an ass to me, ill be one right back. And i tell it how it is, im not rude.. im just honest.