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date him or no??
well i just started dateing this guy today ( tuesday ) and i met him last tuesday i think...anyway we dont really know much about each other but all i know is that i really like him and i guess he likes me because he asked me out..well since i dont really know much about him should we not go out?? and like 10 minutes after we left each other i felt like since i got what i wanted ( him really badly ) then i dont want him as much anymore...its like a game with me i guess.i dont know but it happens all the time.my friends think its because i want what i cant have and i guess thas kinda true..i mean i still like him but not as much anymore.what should i do?? ill rate high for any good answers
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Whoa there, seems like you kind've rushed into things. No offence, but it was not the best idea to start things off with a relationship instead of a friendship - I mean they should be your best friend and know them and everything. So I think you should definately talk to him and tell him what you think. It's up to you to break things off, I mean if you don't feel like you like him as much as you used to, then maybe you should - just to avoid getting hurt later on, ya know?
If you want to keep things going thats fine, but make sure you both take the time out to get to know each other well first - thats always important in a friendship and relationship.
You should still be honest anyway. If you don't feel like its going to work out and don't know him, then at least as a friend you owe it to him to tell him that. If he was feeling the same way, wouldn't you want him to tell you? So definately talk to him about it, decide on something, and get to know him better either way. Hope that helped and good luck.
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This kinda reminds me of me before..okay well you just met him and there probly is more to him then you know.So just hang out alot and get to know him.After a while if you like him go out with him but right now it sounds like your not so sure so wait til you get to know him.♥
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WELL, I think you should give it more time because you just met the guy last Tuesday. What you're feeling at this point in the relationship is normal. You're probably thinking when he calls you, okay, "what are we gonna talk about." I think that you should definetly go out with him. Now that you're going out(or not) you 2 need to gain that special friendship and go from there, because you'll already know more about him. You have a long time to know the true him. Just give it time because you never know what you two may grow into later on.
-- Taniqua --
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wow this reminds me so much of myself.. i was in love with this guy for 5 years, and i still am cuz he dont like me.. but when i had him i wasnt really interested, which is weird.. its just the part that you cant have them that makes you want them.. but anyways, stay with him, and get to know him through your relationship.
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If I were you I'd give it a few days. Have your broken up with people right away in the past? Then you don't really know how it turns out with the people you like. Have you gone on and were still unhappy? If this is the case then break up with him right away.
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