ok.. so there's this guy.. and i think i love him.. but we have been through soo much.. and now he hates me for something i didnt do.. he thinks im preventing him from being friends with one of his ex's who happens to be like my best friend.. but thats soo not the case!! its been 4 months since we broke up and ive been trying so hard to get over him.. and i almost did... but i dont know what came over me... i just snapped and fell in love with him again.. and i just cant get him off my mind.. and i really dont know what to do.. cause there is this other guy that i kinda sorta like but i dont know how he feels about me.. but the thing is i can never stop thinking about the guy i love when i talk to the guy i like.. im really trying to get over him but i cant.. and i reallyjust wanna be friends with him again.. i mean of course i wanna be more than that.. but i just dont want him to hate me
i dont know what to do..if you could help me i'd really appreciate it
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lovingthesunnx0 answered Tuesday March 21 2006, 9:16 pm: ansley says :: just talk to this guy, tell him how you feel about the whole situation, tell him that you arent trying to prevent him from being friends with his ex and that you would never do that, if he wont listen to you call him or leave him a message or write him a note, if he still wont listen to you then he probably isnt the guy for you and maybe you can give the guy you "like" a shot! hope this helps you and good luck!!
sweetie4eva710 answered Tuesday March 21 2006, 9:13 pm: dont get with the guy that you like just to help you get over the guy you love or you think it will help you cause that not fair to him. just try talking to the guy you love, if he doesnt answer leave a messege, in some cases thats better cause you can say everything w/o interuptions or write a long letter and leave it in his car windshield wipers or something, he'll have no choice but to notice it and that way he can make the choice of whne he wants to read it and then leave it up to him if he wants to talk to you or when he wants to talk to you, at least you'll know that you tried and if you two arent together then its his fault. [ sweetie4eva710's advice column | Ask sweetie4eva710 A Question ]
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