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hello :o)my name is Lise and i'm 20 years old. i'm currently a junior in college. i enjoy traveling, partying, shopping, going to the beach, all that fun stuff. i've been in a serious relationship for over four years.
if you have any questions about fashion, relationships, college or friends; i find those to be my best categories for giving advice. remember, these are anonymous so don't be afraid to ask anything; i'll be more than happy to answer.
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I'm about thirty pounds overweight (yeah, I'm working on that), and I don't look the best.
But, I like to think I have a good personality, I know I have a pretty good sense of humor, and I must be smart-ish, at least, because I've been in Pre-IB for two years.
So, do you guys have any tips on scoring a nice, funny, cute guy?
don't worry so much about attracting a guy. if you're smart, have a great sense of humour and a great personality, then the right guy will be attracted to you. any guy who isn't doesn't deserve your time.
So, today is my 19th birthday, and since I live in Canada that means I can drink! The funny thing is that I really don't know where to start buying since I'm not much of a drinker. Can anyone tell me what the makings of a good basic liquor cabinet are?
I've already got vodka and Kahlua... but I don't know where to go from there!
something that goes really well with vodka and kahlua are creme de banane and milk. it's called a monkey's lunch (or monkey's launch, i've seen it spelled both ways). also, if you're going to be entertaining friends, you should figure out what they like to drink. always have rum on hand so if someone just wants a rum and coke, you have it.
i have pretty big hips, and a bit of a belly.which bathing suit type would be best for me, to hide my hips and belly?links with examples would be very helpful.
thanks!!
i two peice bathing suit with little shorts as a bottom and a tankini top. the little shorts will minimize your hips and the tankini will hide your tummy. a funky pattern and bright colors will also make eyes focus on the print rather than your body.
I keep losing my appetite :( I think it's because of stress but half of the time I can't eat my mothers dinner. I just dont like the food.. steaks and chicken, etc.. Is it just my taste in food or is there something wrong with me? Every time I try to eat, i get nauseous..
i go through phases every few months where i compeltely lose my appetite and all the foods i can usualy eat make me nauseous. i don't really have an explanation for it but i just wanted to let you know that you weren't the only one. it happens to my best friend all the time too. i don't think it's anything to worry about.
How do swimsuit models get their stomachs so flat, like is that like having tight abs or is it just that they dont have any fat in that area. is it because they workout by running or crunches?
thanks
just because someone has a flat stomach doesn't mean they're anorexic or they are on a diet. i do not have an eating disorder nor am i on a diet yet i have a very flat stomach (although some people do have to go on a slight diet to help loss a little fat to get the flat stomach). the main key to a flat stomach is to work out your abdominals (stomach muscles) by doing crunches. Pilates really works as well since each pilates excercise you do, you're focusing on the abs.
Alright i`ve been taniing at the tanning bed..&& my little sister well isn`t old enough to go so she asked if i`d lay out at my grandma`s with her && i said yes.. Well my mom said i shouldn`t do that because my aunt did that && got burnt real bad && had scapes all on her chest.. So i want to know if this is a good or bad idea.. I mean my sister looks up to me && i said i`d do it.. But i don`t want to do anything dangerous.. But my mom might be makin it up i couldn`t tell if she was serious so please tell me ladies!!
i don't see a big problem with laying out in the sun... if you do it in moderation. laying out in the sun won't expose you to more sun that if you were just outside playing or doing other things. although if she starts laying out in the sun now and continues doing it, she'll have been exposed to sun for a long time and that ups the risks for skin cancer. i wouldn't recommend her(or you) laying out in the sun for more than 20 minutes per day. that way you'll get a little bit of sun but you won't be exposed to UV rays for a long amount of time. just wear alot of sunscreen :o)
So, I gave my boyfriend a handjob and after I did it he had to "adjust himself." He didn't cum, but I am worried about precum. He fingered me after that and ahh I am all paranoid that I could be pregnant. What are the chances that I am?
Thanks.
extremely slim. if not impossible.
okay, so i have curly and frizzy and not very shiny hair ..does anyone know a good product for straightening? something that can get it unfrizzed and straighten and make it shiny if possible? i need something that really works, please help! i will rate highh!
Bed Head Control Freak Frizz Control and Straightener works like a charm if you combine it with a good straightening iron. it makes your hair really sleek and shiny. it sells for about 10$ at local drug stores.
I'm 13, and basically, I have pretty bad breats. It's genetic. Small and pointy, and barely 32A. (I suspect it's probably going to stay that way too, because I started developing 5 years ago and my whole family looks like me) Do you think I'd look ridiculous if I wore a bikini to the pool next week? If so, what would look ok?
definitly go for a bikini with a triangle top. those help maximise the look of your boobs. they often come with a little padding inside which you can choose to leave in or take out.
me and my friend was texting each other and then she was telling me her sad story about what happended between her and her crush.and i got really emotional and i told her"that makes me cry" and she started saying"y ur crying it didnt happended to u?" is that bad that i cried?
no way! you were just sympathizing for your friend. she should have felt comforted that you understood.
I will try to make this as simple as possible. Im a 42 yo male, however I do not feel like it nor do I look like it or act like it. Most all my friends are 20-25, I can hang with them and act just as crazy( with out being ingnorant) but I can also be the adult when I have to be. My question: Is it wrong for me to enjoy the company of the younger crowd, meaning, I am attracted to a 20yo female, Im not like some sexual preditor chasing/hunting down the teen hotties, Im just more attracted to them.Part of me feels totaly wrong for having these feelings.Give it to me strait and tell me how terrible I am. Sincerly mndfrk
there's nothing wrong with spending time with a younger crowd. i'm 20 years old and i often party with people who are 30-40 years old. you should be happy you're not getting too old, too fast because where's the fun in that?
ME and my boyfriend were messing around and i was sitting on top of his ap we were both in our underwear if he leaked a little on his underwear could i get pregnant?Help!!
chances are that NO you can't get pregnant that way. sperms have a hard time getting through one est of underwear, not to mention two. so something like this doesn't happen in the future, try fooling around where one of your still has their pants on; then you'll know you're being safe.
i always get headaches and i can never enjoy myself! how can i stop a headache?
i used to constantly get what i thought were headaches. turns out they were migraines. i could never enjoy myself when i was out with friends because of the pain. i would definitly go talk to a doctor. they can prescribe you medecine that really helps. whenever i feel a headache comming on, i just take a pill and within an hour i feel so much better. it's really worth it.
My friend went on the Depo shot sometime around the middle of March and lost her virginity (unprotected) maybe a couple weeks after that. Thing is, she hasn't started her period yet. It's now nearly 7 weeks later and she's scared. The only time she's bled on the shot is after having sex. She has only had PROTECTED sex once of twice but has had unprotected sex many times. She says she's not going to worry about it but I can tell she is and I don't know what to tell her. Is it normal for her not to spot or start her period or is this something she should see her doctor about or take a test for? Please help, I rate high! Thank you.
i was on the depo-provera shot for three years and i only had my period like, three times. that is a normal side effect of the needle.
for the past 2 days i have constantly felt like i have had to go pee once i go pee i still have this feeling and when i pee its not alot just like a drip this is a very uncomfortable feeling what do you think might be the problem?
i had this a few weeks ago. it turned out to be a urinary tract infection. go see a doctor immediately because it's gonna start to hurt in a few days. the infection could also go up into your kidneys and cause serious infections. it's no biggie. anyone can get them at any time. the doc will prescribe you some antibiotics and it should be gone in a week.
hi, well i have a late period this month, it's the 7th, it was supposed to start on the 5th, and it's always on time. i had sex a little over a month ago, but around 5 -6 days after i got my period.
can i still be pregnant?
first off, never have sex without protection, even if he doesn't ejaculate inside you. before guys ejaculate they pre-ejaculate and a little semen comes out. there is a slight chance you could be pregnant. wait a few more days. if you think you might be pregnant, you'll be stressed and stress delays your period. then if it still doesn't come, you need to go see a doctor or take a pregnancy test.
my hair is a medium brown color. i have been trying to dye it medium blonde with very blonde highlights, but it either turns out a brassy dark red or stays the same. how on earth do i get my hair the blonde i want without using bleach which will dry out my hair wayyy toooo mucchchhh? should i get it professionally done?
definitly get it professionaly done. they'll be able to get the exact color you want. trust me, i've been dying my hair for 8 years. doing it at home is easy and sometimes it works out well; but if not, professionaly is the way to go.
how long does someones period usually last? i got mine like 2 days ago and i was just wondering how long it lasts for people. and how long it is between them. thank you
your period should last 5-7 days. at first it will most likely be irregular. it should always be around the same time every month. birth control pills really straighten them out too. i can pinpoint mine almost to the hour.
What are some good programs I can download tv shows for free?
limewire is a really good program. you just download it and then you can search for pretty much every tv show and download all the episode. it works really well.
i've just broken up with my boyfriend of nearly four years. it's been four days since we've last spoken, and i know i shouldn't feel this way, but i feel terrible.
i've tried going out with friends, making myself productive, and yet i still can't get him off my mind.
any tips?
you definitly are going to need more time to get over it. a four year relationship doesn't go away after only four days. it make takes months. just keep doing what you're doing and eventualy it'll pass.