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Hey Everybody my name is Kendall Dean Szczepanski. I am very tall for my age, about 5"7 and I have blonde hair and blue eyes. I am currently single and I live in Virginia. I go to Hickory Middle School. I love my best friends Danielle Ruble & Kendall LaPoint! Ask me any question and I will answer it. I won't turn anybody down!
Gender: Female
Location: Virginia
Occupation: School
Age: 13
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Member Since: March 23, 2006
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Hi. I live in an apartment with my mom and sister. I am very unorganized. I was wondering if there is a great way to get organized in such a small place. Any ideas? Thanks. (link)
Get some big containers and take the whole weekend to organizing your house. Go room by room organize everything =)




13/f I've been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now. I looked at his buddy profile and he had "Just the Girl" lyrics and "I Love You(insertmyname)!!" under it.
It was soo sweet. Since I finally got my aim to work im setting up my profile and I want to do the same kind of thing but I want (of course) a different song. I cant think of any off the top of my head, so could someone please tell me some songs that would tell my bf how much I love him to put up on my buddy profile??

I rate 5s
Thanks!! (link)
The song You're Beautiful would be perfect. It's not weird to call him beautiful either, it's just the point. It is by James Blunt.

OR
Beautiful Soul by Jesse McCartney would work too.
Lyrics are below the first song.

Here are the lyrics:

My life is brilliant.
My love is pure.
I saw an angel.
Of that I'm sure.
She smiled at me on the subway.
She was with another man.
But I won't lose no sleep on that,
'Cause I've got a plan.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true,
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
Cause I'll never be with you.

Yeah, she caught my eye,
As I walked on by.
She could see from my face that I was,
Flying high,
And I don't think that I'll see her again,
But we shared a moment that will last till the end.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.

Lalala lalala lalala lalala laaaaaa

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
There must be an angel with a smile on her face,
When she thought up that I should be with you.
But it's time to face the truth,
I will never be with you


I don't want another pretty face
I don't want just anyone to hold
I don't want my love to go to waste
I want you and your beautiful soul

You're the one I wanna chase
You're the one I wanna hold
I won't let another minute go to waste
I want you and your beautiful soul

I know that you are something special
To you, I'd be always faithful
I want to be
What you always needed
Then I'll hope you see the heart in me

[Chorus]
I don't want another pretty face
I don't want just anyone to hold
I don't want my love to go to waste
I want you and your beautiful soul
You're the one I wanna chase
You're the one I wanna hold
I won't let another minute go to waste
I want you and your beautiful soul
Your beautiful soul, yeah

You might need time to think it over
But I'm just fine moving forward
I'll ease your mind if you give me the chance
I'll never make you cry c'mon let's try

[Chorus]
I don't want another pretty face
I don't want just anyone to hold
I don't want my love to go to waste
I want you and your beautiful soul
You're the one I wanna chase
You're the one I wanna hold
I won't let another minute go to waste
I want you and your beautiful soul

Am I crazy for wanting you
Maybe do you think you could want me too
I don't wanna waste your time
Do you see things the way I do
I just wanna know that you feel it too
There is nothing left to hide

[Chorus]
I don't want another pretty face
I don't want just anyone to hold
I don't want my love to go to waste
I want you and your beautiful soul
You're the one I wanna chase
You're the one I wanna hold
I won't let another minute go to waste
I want you and your soul

I don't want another pretty face
I don't want just anyone to hold
I don't want my love to go to waste
I want you and your beautiful soul

Beautiful soul, yeah
Oh, yeah
Your beautiful soul, yeah






AHHH im scared tommarow this big bully is going to beat me up, and maybe take my lunch money, i dont know what to do! HELP (link)
The best thing you can do is just stay away from him. Try to bring your lunch tomorrow too.

haha i love you =)


i love him so much, what do i do? (link)
Love who so much? If you really love him, tell him.


MY boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year, but for the last couple months we've been going out in secret while he rebuilds the friendships he lost. Innocent right? Not really.

Now, all he does is joke around about liking these other girls and then will be like "jk, i love you". He hurts me all the time. His myspace doesnt have one mention of me, his 'girlfriend' and 'best friend' but at least 5 things for this other girl. He wrote this poem to my other friend and now he's entering into a contest. He's always in a bad mood around me but act likes the perfect guy around everyone else. I understand he's trying to get his friends back, but I really want to be treated like I mean something to him. Online, he hardly talks to me! Sometimes 10 minutes will elapse before he'll say "ok" or "cool". I don't know what to do! The only time he acts like a real boyfriend is when we're hanging out just the two of us. He always sends me parts of conversations with other girls that I don't want to see and I tell him not to send it but he does anyways.
Am i just overreacting, or reading too much into it? I'm pretty sure he loves me, but all his 'jokes' about liking other girls is starting to make me question our relationship. I feel forgotten and talking to him about it makes everything worse. He just says I complain too much or im 'abusive'. I love him so much and I'm so confused! All the stuff he used to do to me he does for other people while i just stand on the sidelines being jealous.
Help!!

Reading this over i sound ridiculous but I'm really hurt and this whole this is both emotionally and physically draining. (link)
Your boyfriend is being a jerk. That sounds mean, I'm sorry! When he talks to you tell him all about the guys that you like and who was flirting with you that day. Don't IM him unless he IMs you, and when he acts nice and good when you two are alone, don't be that way back. It will show him that he doesn't deserve you!


ok so im 14 and all my friends use tampons, i wanna start but I dont kno how to use one! and its just too weird to ask my mom. can someone help tell me how to use one or help me find a site where it has info like that on it? please!

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1. Go to these sites...
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html

http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/azhealthtopics/ht/How_Insert_Tamp.htm

Or, usually they have instructions on the box how to insert them
GOOD LUCK !!


are there any cheap concealers or liquid foundations that dont bloch and stay on for at least a few hours? i have been using trublend but it blotches on my face and comes off before school ends.
please help! ill rate 5s (link)
Clinique, Avon & MAC are AWESOME!!
and not expensive : )
also mary kay liquid foundation is good =)


How do I ask this guy that I really like who I talk to a lot in school to hang out? I think he suspects that I like him a little but I just want to hang out with him. (link)
You can ask him to hang out, and if he trys to make a move on you then just say, "I think we should just be friends"


f/17 ok so theres this guy and i like him so much i had not seen him a whole year because we moved schools and in january i saw him again! He asked me to go to his house so i went nothing happened we only kissed. But only this time the kissing was better than when we went out before and i know there was a conection.i asked him so are we back together hes like yes. The problem comes now... Afterwards there was a little contact on msn but he never phones me he never has i think its because ive always phoned him.Well i then got the flu and was really ill so we never spoke for ages and now i hear hes really ill someone said urber? ill i don't know if that means super ill but i sent him messages when i found out and hes not answered me hes not text me, hes not emailed me back, hes not even picked up his phone well he came on msn the other day and i was like hello u have had me worried are u ok and i said can you text me to let me know you are ok and ive heard nothing hes been of school a week but i don't go his school anymore so i don't know its from a friend i heard hes not well.Now my question is what shall i do??? also i think i like him more than he likes me although he says he loves me and that he will do anything for me and he has stood naked in frount of me once but we never had sex! i don't think he wants it and im still a virgin at 17 is it wrong?someone help me please i will rate you high for any answers that help.thank you in advance. (link)
He's probably sick. If he is he just probably doesn't feel like talking, and just wants to be alone. Give him time, he'll come around.


Okay so, my boyfriend calls me everynight and half the time I dread his calls. DONT GET ME WRONG; I really really like him, but I Hate the phone. Like he's kinda shy so theres always that ackward silence and idk I've never liked talking on the phone. I always feel guilty cause I always make some excuse to hang up to end the ackwardness and since I hate talking on the phone. He doesn't have AIM so we can't talk on that .. soo what do I do? (link)
I had the EXACT same problem with my ex-boyfriend, Jack. He was always so quiet on the phone and he called me every hour and it was very annoying. In the end, I broke up with him, but that does not mean that you have to break up with yours. Simply tell him that you don't like talking on the phone, and can you go to the mall or movies with him instead.


13/f

i was recently raped and im scared. the guy who raped me..was my bedt friends boyfriend (shes 14 hes 15 turning 16) and im scared. i have nightmares about it and im afraid to go to sleep..i keep getting calls that have perverted breathing for like 15 seconds then he hangs up i havent told anyone..and im SCARED!! he threatend to kill me and my family..what should i do?? (link)
Oh my gosh. You should tell you parents or at least your mother. This is very serious and give the phone to your mother or father when he calls!


I am female, 15 years old, 5'2 ish and 136 pounds. How much weight would it be necessary to loose to be average? Don't tell me to get a doctor's opinion, I already have, but I want to know what you guys think. I'll rate; Thanks in advance! (link)
I am 5"7 and I weigh 130 pounds. It really matters on your built. I think that it is a good weight range.

Go to
www.am-i-fat.com
and it tells you if you are fat or not

on the left side, click on AM I FAT?
it asks you to type in your weight and height and then it tells you how you are doing and if you need to eat more, see a doctor, or eat less


Hi. I am 14. My mom is VERY hard to work with. I have talked about shaving before, and she says "Why honey? Who do you need to impress?" I dont want to impress anyone I just want to shave. Well, if you can help me try and talk her into it or something. THANKS~ (link)
Tell her that your not trying to impress anyone, but the hair is getting annoying and you want it to be gone. Tell her that you understand that you would have to do it a lot and keep it up once you start, and that you are okay with that


this is long but i need help: my parents wanted to get a divorce a month ago. they didnt go through with it. but this time my mom got the divorce papers and my dad signed and took it to court. something was wrong with the papers. my parents want to do split custidy and i SHOULD go with my mom cause shes more responsible and has a real job. my dad is gone lots and has a lawn and snow plow service. i've told 2 of my friends. but not my best friend who've i'v know for 4 years. but my mom wants to move to milford, and my dad will stay in south lyon( their about 20 mins apart). IF i end up going with my mom when should i tell my best friend. but last time i told her i was moving she freaked out and i ended up not moveing. When and should i tell her i MIGHT move? and should i move with my mom? please help,xoxo
thanks (link)
I'm very sorry that your parents are getting a divorce. It's one of the worst things that can happen to a family.

If your best friend really is your best friend, then she will feel your sympathy for the divorce and realize that your mom is the best choice to go and live with because she is more responsible.

You and your friend can still stay in touch. Although, you will most likely go to different schools, email, IM, letters, or the phone make a difference in a relationship.


lately my skin has gotten darker and really dull. I have lil red blemishes on my cheeks , how do i get my skin to be better or atleast how it was a year ago? Suggest foods please....specific foods and (link)
Drink lots of water!!!
Use ProActiv too!


Hello,
I am a 14 year old guy...

...I realized I liked my best friend for the 3rd time around Valentine's Day. So, I told her that I liked her, and she said, "No offense, but you need to get over me,". Well, since then, we've barely said a word to each other. My friends have been trying to get her to say something to me, so she did after I gave her a birthday card. I asked her to talk about what had been going on between us, and she said, and I quote,
"Not to be a beyotch, but I just don't feel like talking to you. I don't think we have the connection we used to have,"
After that, I was so upset. I didn't know what do to... I'm still upset, as she now has a boyfriend who is a complete jerk to me. What should I do??? (link)
Aww that really bites. Your girl friend is making the wrong choice with going with that other jerk becuase you sound sweet =) Talk to her and her boyfriend at the same time, but don't try to pick any fights with them or else it would turn into an even worse disaster. If you have liked her before, maybe it IS time to move on.


my dog just died today. she got hit by a car. my dad was really close to her. everyone is so upset. i cried, i also felt really bad because when i would get mad at brittany (dog) i would yell at her and tell her i hope she died. but it seems that everyone is more upset then me. is there any way that i can get them to calm down?i know this is tragic but we cant all go crazy. everyone has a time when they died.

love kayla (link)
My dog recently died on February 2nd, so I can relate. It was the same thing that I did to my dog, yell at her when she begged for food under the table, or was just annoying. I felt really bad and my mom was very close to her. You can cry with your family and tell them that everyone has a time when they die. I also suggest getting a new dog. My family is getting a new dog in the summer. And, remember, this would not be replacing your old dog. It's just a way of helping the family feel like they have Brittany again and being happy =)


I shave like once a week...sometimes twice a week and sometimes once in 2 weeks. Anyway my legs don't really itch but right now they itch ALOOT! Since I shaved I used st ives whipped silk and jergens extra healing. Wen I don't itch it it urges me to and then wen I do I get EXTRAA red bumps and more urges to itch. I know it's dry skin but is there something I can buy to cool it down?...like lanacane or something? (link)
You can by a humidifier. My brother has the same problem as you and it really helps!


I'm not having sex, but the month is almost over and I haven't had my period yet. I run track and that's about it. Is there any reason why it hasn't come on? Please help me asap. thank u (link)
It might be irregular or sometimes it just doesn't do it one month. Don't worry!


im concerned about my weight .. i think about it alost all the time and i am on a diet (its HEALTHY, dont worry) & trying to exersize more but i don't feel comfortable or secure with myself and i feel like im ugly and if only i could loose this much weight than i would be ok and i really wanna loose 10-15 pounds by summer. but.. i feel like im always thinking about it, and always aware of it. how can i stop thinking of it so much? now 3 of my best friends know that im concerned about it and all this stuff and like awnna talk to me and i just am confused. i dont know what to do. the weights not coming off fast enough for me and im trying so hard, and.. idk i just dont know. i mean i DO NOT have an eating disorder.. but eh i dont know ANY advice would be helpful, ill rate5s thanks (link)
What kind of diet are you on?

My mom is doing an eating plan called Weight Watchers. You can sign up and everything and they keep track of your weight and depending on your age you will get a certain amount of points each day. And every meal/food is worth a certain amount of weight. My mom lost like 20 pounds in like 6 weeks. If you really commit and stick to it, you can loose how ever much you want.
If you want to sign up, here is the website.
www.weightwatchers.com

OR

You don't have to sign up and you can just get tips from the website like what kind of food to eat and how much of it to eat. It has great recipies too. Good Luck!!!




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