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My ex boyfriend goes out with this girl i'm cool with. i guess she started sayin shit to me and i got mad then he told me i started it and said i said all this stuff i didn't say and i heard that his girlfreind said "we never went out cz i dunt go out with fuking ugly people." I told him she said that and he didnt belive me. he kept sayin that im trying to break them up when i aint. i dnt care that they go out. It dunt bother me Anymore. What should i do. doe she hate me that much or wat. im so confused.

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I guess it a matter of He says... and then she says... and then wham! THE TRUTH! Well, if you're up to it, you can either record the whole ordeal or just let them be and totally forget about such nasty people... They deserve each other anways? Him for not believing you and this girl that your cool with, for telling you that your ugly! Talk about being such a BEEEAAACH! Don't be confused! You're better off without both of them!


okay well i like this guy he use to like me like a year ago and now we like started talking again and crap. well i had my bf ask him if he'd ever date me and he was like well i havent dated someone youger then me in awhile and well he doesnt like girls who dont have sex

soo what should i do move on??



Ill rate 5's for good advice!! =) (link)
okay, I'm confused does BF means boyfriend or bestfriend? I'm guessing its bestfriend because it will sound weird if it means boyfriend. First and foremost the guy sounds a lot like a jerk to me for saying that... Second, you seem like a nice enough person to find someone with a little more finesse than this A-hole... in short, he is definitely a nonetaker,this one... Move on sistah!


im 23 & my g/f is 20.her bestfriend hates me,what am i gonna do? (link)
What made you say that she really hates you? Maybe it's just misconception or the reality of first impressions? The gentlemanly thing to do in this situation is to concentrate on your girlfriend. If her bestfriend sees that you truly have good intentions and love her... then, she will be the true friend that she is and let you the 2 of you be... GOODLUCK!


My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 1/2 months. Before we started going out, we were really great friends. He was my best friend. And I have a STD, HIV actually. I got it from birth because my mother had to get a blood transplant and back in 1986 they didnt check blood for HIV and such, we've been talking about being intimate with eachother. I am 15 and I need to tell him before we have sex. I need help on the following things:


1.) How to tell him: What should I say? Should I have my sister whos like my best friend be there with us?
2.) When should I tell him?
3.) How do I handle the thoughts of being rejected and trusting him?

He is my best friend and I trust him and I talked to him and have told him that I have something I'd like to discuss with him and I made him guess on what it was and he said "is it a genetically passed STD?" and I did not say anything.

I'm scared that he will tell someone. He's very trusting but I dont know, He would be the only person I told besides one person and the only boyfriend I've told. Please help.

Comfort my thoughts on this so im not such a worried reck

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Having HIV entails great responsibility. Before you spill the beans you need to lay down your cards first. Tell him that this should be between you and him only. Open his eyes to the fact that you are only doing this because you feel deeply for him and that you trust him as your friend. If he is open minded then he will understand, but if he doesn't, be prepared for the worst. Having HIV these days is not such a great deal? If you he was properly informed on how you can acquire such, then this won't be such a problem. Gudluck!


what do i do if i really like my ex still, but we never talk anymore? we used to before we went out, and then it turned akward so we broke up. and its still akward now! i miss him, how he used to act around me, now he just acts all quiet and different. what do i do!?

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They say you can never return back to being friends once you've crossed the line. Maybe it was awkward for you both because you didn't get around to get the feel of things first. You should have acknowledged whatever it is that you felt for each other and took it slowly. Maybe the best thing that you can do right now is to talk to him. Probably, he's being different and quiet indicates that he is also waiting for you to come and talk to him?


OK so im only 14/f and im pretty skinny. I have stretch marks on my inner thighs. Nobody my age that i know has these.. is this even normal? and summer is coming up soon and its like oh there goes wearing a bikini, because its embarrasing. Is there anything cheap that i can get at a local store that will get these away. Its like when you have a baby its that bad but on my thighs. Its really embarrasing so i always wear shorts. Is there ANYTHING that will help??? Please i'll rate 5's!!! (link)
doesn't mean if your skinny now you'll never have 'em...they say you have these because when you get fat, you can easily get back to being thin again, thus stretching your skin to its limit. It helps to keep your skin supple by putting on skin moisturizers or lotions. Of course we have stretchmarks cream available nowadays but its more costly.


ok well i have a boyfriend and everyone says that when this one guy finds out that i have a boyfriend he is going to be so so so sad because he has liked me for like ever.. this guy is one of my really good frinds and i dont want him to get upset so i think it would be better if i told him myself rather than him just hearing it from other people.. can someone give me some advice on how to tell him without being mean....
thxx
xoxx (link)
As the song says, there is no easy way to break someone's heart. Its just that if you are so concerned about his feelings, maybe you liked him a bit? Either way, if he's a real friend he will understand, and if he really loves you he'll be happy for you. Don't give him empty promises like when all's not working out with your BF, maybe u and him can hook up or something... because that would make the pain even worse ;)


ok i really like this boy and we've known each other through 3-8(were in eighth now) and he rly funny and nice and sometimes knows wat im thinking and i rly though about asking him out he knows that we flirt with each other its kinda obvesious and i was wondering if he feels the same way i feel about him? please help i rate high
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Trust me flirting with you may mean a lot of things especially if you've known each other this long. There is no telling if he feels the same way if you do not ask him that. Give him subtle hints of you want to know, just make sure that you are not coming on too strong about it.


Theres this guy that i like alooot like you have no idea. its not love. well im talking to him online right now and i want to ask him if he would ever be more then friends with me because i feel like im holding on for nothing seriously. He knows i like him alot but he has never mentioned anything about liking me.

xThankkx (link)
Some guys hate it when girls give them a headstart... you see admit or not, they like to do the chasing and its part of this game that they play oh so well. Get to know him a bit more maybe theres something that's been stoping him to tell you otherwise. Give him subtle hints, be discreet. If he likes you, he will tell you that himself.




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