okay well i like this guy he use to like me like a year ago and now we like started talking again and crap. well i had my bf ask him if he'd ever date me and he was like well i havent dated someone youger then me in awhile and well he doesnt like girls who dont have sex
The very phrase "doesn't like girls who don't have sex" should send huge alarm bells ringing!!! How many girls does this mean he has had sex with? Is he even capable of a proper relationship? Does he know what it means to be monogomous?!?
This is, I'm sure, not the sort of guy you really want to be involved with and I KNOW you can do better than someone who thinks women are just for having sex with. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday April 30 2006, 12:48 am: First of all, this guy you like is a total asshole. Mainly because he doesn't like girls who don't have sex. That's low and just because some girls aren't out having sex, doesn't mean they aren't a great catch. Some guys ALL they think about is sex and that's not the guy you should get caught up with. I think you need a relationship that is based on him liking you for you and not trying to get in your pants. Find yourself someone better. You deserve a good guy; one who respects you. ♥ [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
twistedsister17 answered Saturday April 29 2006, 8:36 am: This guy sounds like a jerk. Basically all he's saying is that he wants a physical relationship with someone "good" and "experienced."
You should move on, because he's not even worth your time. Maybe someday he'll realize what he lost, but in the meantime, you're going to find a guy who loves you for who you are, not your physical experience. You just have to be patient. And the right guy will come along.
sherrynikko answered Friday April 28 2006, 11:46 pm: okay, I'm confused does BF means boyfriend or bestfriend? I'm guessing its bestfriend because it will sound weird if it means boyfriend. First and foremost the guy sounds a lot like a jerk to me for saying that... Second, you seem like a nice enough person to find someone with a little more finesse than this A-hole... in short, he is definitely a nonetaker,this one... Move on sistah! [ sherrynikko's advice column | Ask sherrynikko A Question ]
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