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Okay so I have this one friend (L). And this one rude guy in our grade (D) is telling so many lies about her. D is L's ex. She dumped him and I think he is mad so now he wants to tell lies about her. He has been taking it to far. I'm not gonna list what he has been saying but let's just say.. he needs to stop! Some of the lies people are actualy believing. And i know as her friend that she would never do this. I am afraid things will get worse. Please help!!
omg D seems like a really horrible guy! tell him to stop and if he doesnt then tell him you'll tell the principle.. and even if he doesnt stop then, then tell the principle. D could get into a lot of trouble for this and he deserves it! he might hate you after you tell on him but he's not worth being friends with anyway =)
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http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90102&navroot=clearance&productId=0352_5324
What skirt would go good with that cami? And what's a cute sweater I could wear over it? Please help.
Would this skirt go with it?
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90104&navroot=clearance&productId=0319_3046
i think that any jean skirt would look good with it.. because jean skirts go with pretty much every shirt lol =) and idk if you should wear a sweater over it because i cant think of any sweaters to go with it..
the skirt you sent me didnt work =/ so my suggestion is a jean skirt
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iM A 14 yEAR 0lD GiRL WH0 DATES A 17 yEAR 0lD B0Y [ DUh lOl ]
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well it seems like they might be jealous of your boyfrind becaue you spend more time with him than you do with them.. so plan a day where you hang out with your friends and a seperate day for your boyfriend :) and i think you should keep them apart for a while so they wont be around them because they dont seem to like him.. =/
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me & my bestfriend are really close and we hang out pretty much every minute of the day. But Sam (my best friend) is starting to talk to Sean (a boy at school) an awful lot. Now that Sam is talking to Sean I sort of like him too. Whenever Sam isn't around I try to talk to him & become closer wit him. Sam,Sean & I are all good friends now but I do notice he talks to Sam more.I really think he likes her more & wants me to lay off. I want Sean to like me more even though Sam is my best friend and I want her to be happy. I'm so desperate that I do anything to get his attention or keep Sean from talking to Sam. But I know I can't stop them from talking all the time. Please,what should I do to get over this jealousy?
ahh jealousy is really hard to get rid of.. i dont think that if sean and sam like each other that you should try and be close to him because that'll cause more problems. soo if your friend really gets too into sean and she doesnt like.. want to hang out with you or be around you anymore that you should get more friends closer so you have friends to fall back on and try to make sure she knows that your her best friend and that you want to spend some time with her too. in the mean time try to find some other single guys you might like and get closer to them =)
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i have a best friend who i hang out with 24/7 we are like sister and she has this boy friend for like almost a year and i kinda slept with him and she doesnt know and i cant think of how to tell her? what should i do?
first off you reallllly shouldnt have slept with him.. no matter what shes gonna be mad at you about it so there is no real way to tell her without her being mad. here's your decision:
1) dont tell her at all though that is a bad thing to do because she'll probably find out anyway
or
2) you can tell her but make sure you tell her in the nicest and most innocent way possible & make sure you tell her before her b/f does because it'd be better for her to hear it from you..
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ok so i told the guy that likes my best friend why she cant go out with him. now shes hates me adn wont even talk or look at me! im telling her sorry adn telling her that i didnt mean anything by it but she still hates me? what should i do?
signed,
lonley
ahh, badd situation.. if you want her to really forgive you, maybe you can wrap a picture of you and her or give her something to remind her of your good times and if that doesnt work then you'll probably have to just let time pass and hope she'll forgive you =/
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theres this boy..and i've like him ALL year.he like idk..hes kind of playing hard to get and stuff and hes sometimes the sweetest person ever to me and sometimes the meanest.my friends say i should get over him but i REALLY CANT.i dont know if im wasting my time or not.i dont know what i can do to make things better..we're already friends.please help if you can.
love,
confused
well since your probably either in middle school or high school then your gonna run into a lot of boys like that but if he doesnt really talk to you much over the rest of the year then just forget about him and move on because you wont wanna waste all your time on that one guy
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Okay. Well there's this boy. Let's call him BD. I've liked him for like 1 1/2. I'm not sure if he knows it though. One night at a party we kissed, but we don't bring it up in most conversations. He asked me to this dance (the biggest dance the whole year) and i said yes. But he like doesn't act like I exsist.Sometimesit seems as though he purposely avois me. I don't know what to think : If he likes me, or hates me! Help!
well idk.. i think he just asked you to the dance so he'd have a date and wouldnt look ike a loser in front of his friends, either that or hes just shy when he's around you with his friends there so really you just have to let time go by and see if he gives you any more signals
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well, like i have friends but i dont think i really have friends please help
well try to get closer to the friends you think you have and hopefully you guys can become best friends :)!
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My best friend has this thing with telling me stuff about my other best friend, who I don't talk about at all (behind her back) but like this my best friend ALWAYS talks about her. I want her to stop, but I don't want to loose her as a friend, and she's also way to emotional, and was crying and stuff. I want to help her, but I don't know how.
Help, please?
wow thats a really hard question,
ok i think that you should try to get the friend that talks about the other one that you dont like it and maybe try and set something up for the three of you to do together so they can become friends too..
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Does eyeliner run when you swim in the ocean or the pool? If so, is there waterproof mascara??
im not sure if regular mascara runs in the ocean/pool but i know there is such thing as waterproof mascara.. the best brand in my opinion is Avon Wash Off Waterproof Mascara, some people dont like it but a lot do.. good luckk and if you want some more ideas for waterproof mascara's then go here.. http://beauty.ivillage.com/shop/prodreviews/0,,9xlv,00.html :)
- allie :)
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If I get my belly button pierced soon, how long do I have to wait to be able to go in the ocean and a swimming pool for long periods of time? Summer is commming soon but I want my belly button peirced, BUT not if I can't go swimming! Also, how long does it take for your belly button to completley heal after you get it peirced? DO you suggest getting your belly button pierced or nah? Thanks for the advice!
k well i found a great site that will tell you the risks, taking care of it, how long it takes to heal, and all of that. go to http://www.orientaldancer.net/guest-stories/belly_button_ring.shtml#3.%20What%20risks%20are%20involved%20when%20getting%20a%20belly%20button%20piercing? :)
hope that helpedd
- allie :)
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I love and believe in God and have my whole life. I come from a religious family but recently it's been really hard to believe. In the past month, I've lost my Aunt and my best friend's Dad to cancer.
My Aunt was just about the best person I've ever met. Honestly, sometimes I can't stand my extended family but she was different. She was always sweet, energetic (when she wasn't in the hospital) and optimistic.
My dad is always working so I almost never get to see him except on Sundays. My best friend and her family live next door so I was always around them and her father. He was such a great man and acted like a great father figure to me considering I don't have any older brothers and my dad is always working or busy with clients.
It's not fair that they get sick and die when there are murderers and such running around everywhere. It's not fair that God does this to me, my family, and my friend's family. My Aunt and her dad were great people and it's not fair that God takes them from us like that. I want to still believe that it all happens for a reason and that God loves me, and he know what he's doing, but I can't. I don't know what to do.
here's my best advice for this situation,
i think the same thing as you but if it makes you feel any better about this, remember that they're lucky to have met god and they're in a much better place now.. and its not that god didnt want you to be happy but he probably loved your aunt and best friend's dad and wanted them to come home to him
idk but i hope that helped
and i really hope you feel better
- allie
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My friend had larengitus and a fever for about 1 and a half weeks. She's finally recovering, after she was sick for so long. I think I may of caught what my friend has, but I am drinking lots of water (you wouldn't believe how much I'm drinking) and I stayed home today and rested.
Do you think that I will recover faster than my friend? I actually don't feel all too bad, and I don't feel like I'm getting larengitus or anything. Is it possible that my friend just didn't take care of herself properly? (She never drinks any water, just a few sodas, she eats alot of junk food and she didn't rest when she was sick because she had to play soccer.)
I'm not even sure if I definitely have what she had or not. In fact, my mom says I got sick from worrying so much that I was going to. But the big problem is: I have a birthday party tomorrow that I cannot miss or my friend will practically die. It's only about 2 hours. Will I probably be okay if I keep hydrating?
I'll rate.
okay well i just got over having larengitus and just generally being sick but it only lasted 4 days for me and if you dont feel sick yet then just take a little medicine if you start feeling something and go to the party tomorrow, you'll be fine through it and if you feel sick then take more medicine
hope that helped and good luck
- allie :)
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okay well i like this guy he use to like me like a year ago and now we like started talking again and crap. well i had my bf ask him if he'd ever date me and he was like well i havent dated someone youger then me in awhile and well he doesnt like girls who dont have sex
soo what should i do move on??
Ill rate 5's for good advice!! =)
i dont think you should go out with him if thats all he's looking for.. =/
- allie :)
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I was just wondering, is "Katlyn" pronounced the same way as "Caitlyn" && "Kaitlyn" && all the other ways to spell it?
well i know someone who spells her name "katlyn" and she pronounces it like caitlin and all other ways to spell it lol
- allie :)
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ok can i put neosporin on a tampon for easier inserting??? b/c i have never used tampons and i have to go to the beach tomorrow!!! so please help me!! i have been to like all the sites
dont do that because you could probably get some kind of infection. just get slim ones for teens, and they should go in easy. my advice, dont use cardboard applicators.
- allie :)
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Can you lose weight by not eating just for one day? I'm not going anorexic or anything, just wondering.
Another question, what are the foods to eat that will slim you down the quickest? Like salads with no dressing or croutons...
Thanks, I rate everyone 5!!
okay,
i tried that not eating for one day thing and it really doesnt work that well. it messes with your metabolism and you actually gain weight. the best thing to do is not eat 3 big meals very day. try to have like.. 6 small meals a day every 2 or 3 hours. also, another one of the best things to do if you want to lose weight fast is to excersize a lot. that really helps lose weight last.
well good luck!
- allie :)
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My bff (L) told me that my other bff (S) was talking about me. L tells me a lot when S is talking about me, and L told me I can't tell anyone, especially S that she told me or that I know. I know if I did tell S, L would get really mad at me and I don't need that right now. I don't want to loose her trust. So, my question is, what should I do? I'm tired of S acting all goody goody like shes the greatest friend in the world to me when she's not. Should I act differently toward her, or, mainly, how can I hint at what I know? Like say, "I HAAATE when people talk about me," hinting to her, but something better than that. Fives for answers. Thanks.
well, try to avoid her when shes acting all "goody-goody" and focus on her better qualities. I dont know of any friendships that didnt involve some gossip so unless she says something really mean about you, dont confront her about it. i really wish you good luck and i hope all that drama stops.
- allie :)
at least i tried to help.
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