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There's this guy that I've liked on and off.. for 2 yrs. I don't even know why I like him in the first place. He acts cool all the time but I know that deep inside he's all shit. He pretends to be very confident but actually he's not. I really don't know why I like him despite knowing all these. He gives me mixed signals, or maybe it's overthinking on my part.
These are the signs that shows he likes me
- he held my hand during rollerblading (erm, maybe it's because I don't know how to blade?)
- he playfully threw a dice into my pants when my back was turned
-he told me to go up to his room to change even though his toilet was just a few steps away.
- he smile whenever I go near him
-he avoids eye contact at times
These are the signs that shows he doesnt like me
-he doesn't call/msg/IM me at all
-he doesn't ask me how's life
-he doesn't tell me his personal things
-he doesn't really give a shit about my life
That's about it. So does he like me or not? I feel that he doesn't. So can someone help me to forget about him and move on?
Thanks
P.S : I don't mind long answers. In fact, I welcome long answers. =] (link)
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It sounds like he's interested in you, but he might not actually like you enough to have a stable relationship. You might be so attracted to him because he acts so mysterious all the time. I think the best way you could find out is to just plain out ask him if he likes you.
gl.
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I just settled in a new city and my son thinks it's time I began to date again. I'd like to know where the good men are, the ones who are kind and considerate, who have good jobs and have, or have had, families of their own in the past. I don't want married men; I don't want abusive men. I don't want to go to bars because I'm afraid all I'll meet are guys who hang out in bars, and I already have one alcoholic ex-husband! I have a good job, make good money, and am a darned interesting and intelligent person. Where should I go to meet "my kind" of guy? (link)
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I would say to go somewhere that you have an interest in. If you love books, then go to a bookstore and kind of hang around,get a drink, browse books, and talk to some interesting guys you see there. Same goes with cooking, movies, knitting, anything!
Then of course you could meet complete assholes there too. You just need to be open to meeting new people, and don't try too hard to find someone. It'll happen.
Goodluck!
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how do you make out with someone? (link)
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i have seen this question on advicenators like 50 million times. im POSITIVE if you go through at least 2 or 3 pags you'll find this same exact question. read it.
and as for making out nobody can give you a step by step.
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ok, so i dont know where to put my tampon. my mom keeps telling me the middle hole, but i have no clue what she is talking about. i think its to whole that basically ends that whole vagina thing? and is that where the penis goes for when you have sex? and is that where you masterbate? (link)
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ok heres what you do: get a handmirror and actually look. its not going to bite.
you only have one hole big enough to put a tampon in comfortably, the only other one i know about is a urethra which is wher eyou pee out of, and would obviously be way too small to put anything up there.
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well okay on thursday night my mom picked my sister and i up from my gradmas house at 1am, even though so was supposed to pick us up around 8:30. she was so drunk, and i was scared to get in the car. my sisters 7 and was asleep so i carried her outside with me. i get in the car and my mom goes crazy for NO REASON! she's being so mean, and i asked her why are you doing this to yourself? and she called me names. we got out of the car when we were home and i was on the phone with my gram and she hit me in the face and tried to get my cell phone, but i ran down street until she got inside, then i went in and ran up in my dads room (the attick.) he has a lock in the inside that i locked it. and sooo, she comes upstairs and trys to open in and calls me EVERYTHING in the world. a cunt, she hopes i was never born, ALL FOR NOTHING! as i was on the phone with my gram she heres everything. my dad comes home from work bout 1:45 and my moms passed out in her room and my sister is forced to sleep with her. she hurt me sooo badly, and i got no sorry. i wanna move out more then anything in the world. since then we haven't even talked. even before this TERRIBLE DRUNK DISASTER she was always so rude and treated me so much different then my sister. i don't like her, and i need help. sorry this is longg. (link)
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wow thats horrible and im sorry you even had to go through that! you definitely should move out. talk to your dad about it maybe? if he doesnt do anything then you should ask your grama because she was on the phone with you, so she should know how violent and upsetting your mom can get. it also sounds like you should tell somebody about this, like your guidance counselors at school, so you can get help. you dont want to put your sister, nontheless yourself, in any danger with your mom. hopefully she can get help, and you and your sister can find someone else to stay with for a while.
goodluck! :)
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My bf is kind of startng to annoy me. he wont even look at me when i talk to him, im pretty sure he listens but it seems weird that he wont even look at me. and he wont just like stop and talk to me in the hallways, i always hav to start conversation. And today he like ignored me when i ran up to him. hes really not a shy person its just around me. And at first i thought he didnt like me anymore but he said he does. should i just dump him? i still like him but he acts weird sometimes and i HATE how he wont look at me! (link)
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talk
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i dont know how many questions there are on here about boys and problems but maybe discussing the problem would sort it out....
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I'm addmiting it i am really messed up, my family has some seriouse issues and i don't know what to!I won't ake the time to tell you all the bad things that go on in my house just trust me there really bad.I think i might be going crazy but i don't know how to stop.I'ev cut myself alot and cry all the time, I make myself sick and through up all the time but i am not fisicly sick i think i am mently sick.I have terrible night mears and wake up screaming and sobing.I habe thought of killing myself, i think if things don't get better i could end up hurting myself vary badly or mabey even killing myself.What should i do?To make this easyer to answer i will give you some more deatails, I really want to lose weight i am 13 and 5ft and 120 pounds, my weight might be helping me lose my mind, i don't like being with other people they make me sick but i want so badly to feel comfertable with some one.I really want to make some friends at my shcool and most fo all i wan things at my house and with my family to get better. (link)
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Well first of all, instead of focusing on all the negative things about yourself, look at the positive. When you wake up in the morning and are ready for school just pick one thing that you like about yourself and keep thinking it all day, and then you'll see how beautiful you are inside and out. Also pick out somehting youre good at, and try to excel in that area, whether it be a class in school or just cooking, babysitting, etc. and ifyou become very good at it, it'll make your self esteem go up.
Walk around and be confident. if you arent honestly confident you have to PRETEND. thats what i do. nobody messes with you, and people start to notice how confident, pretty, and easygoing you are. after a while you wont even have to pretend becuase it'll come naturally. nobodys born confident though, so dont worry if it feels weird at first. but trust me people will notice.
if you keep thinking suidical thoughts than i would reccomend calling a suicide hotline (sorry i dont have a number) or talking to a trusted adult.
as for your family, being positive is the only thing you can do. try to listen and talk to people if theyre having a hard time, and focuse on everything good in your life. (as far as i know) you dont have any chronic illnesses, you have friends, and are living in the united states where you have so much more freedm than everyone else int he world. people forget all the little things we have, but the more we pay attention the more we're thankful.
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i wanna be a barbie for halloween but i dont know what to do.. i have dark hair and dark eyes..... any ideas? (link)
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a wig, a waterbra, and pink high heels.
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Hey guys.
First i'm going to start this, i am 15/f.
My boyfriend is 17.
Well, we started going out a month ago. Everything was really good, we had our ups and downs, but i really care about him.
Lately he has been really busy, and kind of pushing me to the side. It seems like he doesn't care about me anymore. He barely talks to me at all. One time i asked him to do something, but he went out with his friends instead. I would be mad about that if his friends weren't my best friends.
But yeah, everyone says to talk to him about it but i can't even do that! He will get mad at me, and i know he will; it has happened before.
Anyone know what i should do? i'm woried i will loose him and i really don't want to. (link)
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umm why dont you talk to him about this? it seems like he's either pissed off or wanting to break up with you.
edit: well if youre not mature or ballsy enough to talk to your boyfriend should you even have one? take the responsibility and do something about it. if he gets pissed over stupid shit like that why the hell do you want to keep going out with him?
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ok so i really really like a boy who is 18, and he likes me. but he said "we probably wont date" because of our age difference. but i cant get him off my mind.
so i am now dated a boyt i like, just not as much.
and i dont want to hurt him, but i want the older boy so bad.
what do i do?
what do you think will happen?
will the older one date me eventually??
thanksss. (link)
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Well i dont know how old you are, but if he already said he probably doesnt want to date you, then i would take that as a nice way of him saying no.
and this other boy that youre going out with, do you think its fair to him to go out with you when you're thinking about some other guy all the time? if you think its worth it to still go out with him, do it, but try and focus on HIM and what are some of HIS good qualites, and stop thinking about the older guy you like even more. maybe try to think of some bad things about him. either way, it doesnt sound like you should take things any further.
dont worry though...who knows if either of these guys are the one you're going to end up with?
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My husband and I seem to only ever have sex. I know that it's supposed to express love, but neither of us waited to marriage...we both slept around a lot. I do love him, and he promises he loves me, and not just my body. But it seems like, unless we're making love, we're not getting along. Is it possible to love someone with liking them? Seriously... I love him, but I don't like him because he's rude to me and not really abusive, but almost. So... what now? (link)
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I dont see how you could love somebody without actually liking them...but it sounds like you should break up with him, or go to couples counsuling or something. All you do is have sex, and then bitch at eachother?? It doesnt sound like a good relationship, that he's only using you for sex or something. He can promise he loves you a thousand times but the true way to know is if he actually shows it. and sex doesnt count as showing it. just look at hookers.
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What is a good way to put in a type writer and a record player in a condensed area? What is the best way to save space with them in a small room? But, without keeping them in closet- instead, out in the open. (link)
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Hmm i have a couple ideas:
- Slide them under your bed when you arent using them
- Put them on a bookshelf
- Get a small stand for one of them, and put it on there, but also make it look cool, with maybe a piece of fabric over the stand and then putting the record player on top of it with your records below it.
i hope i helped!! :)
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I am a female and have been with my boyfriend/fiancee' for about 2 years. I recently moved away to college and had to leave him behind because I have to live in a dorm my first year. I visit home all the time and spend most of my time with him and not my family. I love him, and he loves me, I know this I really do, but lately all he has been talking with me about is that he wants to have sex with other people, that love and sex are not connected in his mind and that he is sexually attracted to another person, but not in love with them. This makes sense, and I understand him, but I told him that if he wants to have sex with another person, we are not together because I am not going to be waiting at home while he has sex with another. He doesn't understand that it's cheating on a person when you sleep with another while dating. He doesn't think that he should choose one or the other, he wants both. He thinks that I don't love him and that I don't understand him/ want him the way he is. The thing is I don't want him to resent me if he decides that he wants to stay with me and not have sex with other people and that I want him to see my point of view on this. I want him to understand me because he doesn't get what it would be like, he keeps telling me that I could have sex with other people as long as I didn't get attached to them, which he says I would do. I keep telling him that I don't want anyone else, but he doesn't think that he would get hurt because of it, if I did in fact sleep with another person.
I really have no idea what to do. I want him to be happy, which would mean giving him up, but I want to be happy myself, which would mean we would stay together and he would "forget" that side of him. Any advice on this, any thoughts that you have would be nice. I really appreciate you all taking time to read and answer this. Thank you. (link)
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I would dump him. Why would you want to have sex with the man you love, when only God knows how many other women he's been sleeping around with? The chances of him getting an STD/STI are extremely high too. I think he's just trying to have an excuse to have sex with other people, but not loosing you. You have to explain to him that sex is supposed to be between two people that love eachother, its a way to emotionally and physically connect, and if he isnt mature enough to keep it in his pants then he isnt worthy of you. I agree with the first person, that you need to tell him he can either stay & sleep with only you, or break up so he can his freedom. If he does stay however, I would keep an eye out because he sounds like he's a little too curious about other women. Good luck.
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i am a virgin but u an seriously thinking about having sex soon. on halloween i think might be the time. but my period will be somewhere right in there. so i was wondering if you have sex right before or right after you have your period, is it more likely you will get pregnet or anything? because i dont wanna get pregnet at all! but i think i am ready for sex. and if i am on my period on halloween can i still have sex and all? i know that might be nasty though. (link)
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okay number one: if you have sex without a condom, before or after your period, and he ejaculates into you...YOU WILL GET PREGNANT!!!! i mean, damn, just use a condom. theyre not expensive, adn it takes like a minute to put it on.
and two: yeah you can have sex while youre on your period, however it would be gross and it might not make you feel very good if you have cramps.
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female..15 years old.
OK..so i got this bf about 2 days ago.I like him but i think i would be ashamed to be out in public with him.but lets backtrack...on new year's eve my friend,her bf(david) and his friend(justin) wanted to spend the night with me so my dad let them..and me and justin hit it off well and i liked him but then i got sent off for six months and just got back 2 weeks ago.ok back on track..ok well now that i have this bf...my friends want to have the same kind of party again so me and justin are supposed to be hooking up and i like him alot but i just got this new bf and that would be mean..so should i stick with my bf or go for justin. (link)
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well next time dont go out with some dude you're actually ashamed of being out in public with, because that kind of thinking is done by shitty girlfriends.
dont drag the relationship out if you know it isnt going anywhere, and break up with the poor guy so you can go out with "justin"
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i am 13 and the kid i like is 17 his name is will. we made out about 3 months ago. it was just a one night stand. =/ but ever scine then i can never stop thinking about him. like ill just be in class and ill day dream about him. at first i thought ill get over it. but it had been 3 months and i still havent. i only see him once every 2 weeks. whenever i see him i run up to him and hug him so tight. and some times he sleeps at my friends house with me. but latly he has been mean to me. i didnt do anything. i just want to stop thinking about him. anyone have any advice?
-confused. (link)
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it sounds like he just wanted someone to makeout with, and you're getting all clingy so he's getting futher out of your reach (not that he was close anyway). i doubt he's interested in you for the interesting, smart, and friendly person you are. when you're 17, try looking at a 13 year old and see if you would actually want to date one or not, because chances are hes just being an asshole and using you becase you're so young and wouldnt know any better.
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15/f. Okay, so I've never kissed a guy before or anything, and the only boyfriends I've ever had were in middle school and they were only for like 2 days. No guy has asked me out in about 2 years and I just don't get it at all. I'm not trying to sound concieted or anything, but I'm pretty. People tell me it constantly, even people I don't know. And I'm nice to people, smart, and I don't act like someone else to try to impress people. So the thing I don't get is; why don't any guys like me? Every time I tell a guy I like him and I think he's interested in me, he never feels the same way. Also, when I'm talking to a guy and one of my friends come over and start talking to him, it's like i'm invisible. I'm kinda shy, but I know alot of girls more shy than me who get tons of guys. I really don't know what i'm doing wrong and it's bringing down my self confidence. I've seen a ton of girls who are really mean and are totally fake get a ton of guys and I'm wondering why I can't get any guys. It's like I'm surround by couples all the time and they're all telling me to wait and someday I'll find someone but it just seems ridiculous that I'm the only one out of my friends to have no guys interested in me. Any advice? :-/ Thanks. (link)
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my advice would be that guys either are intimidated by you, or they know you arent easy so theyre not even going to bother. it sucks. im the same way. thats the only conclusion i've come to.
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I am eighteen an never had my first kiss (never even close). . . . . .nor have i even had a boyfriend. . . i know. . . . . is there something wrong?
18, Female (link)
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Well im 15 and i havent had my first kiss..even though im 3 years younger, i dont know if that makes you feel better or not lol. It sounds like you're just waiting for the right guy, and theres nothing wrong with that.
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15/f. has anybody (ages 13-18) have used Proactive? I'd like to here your opinions on it, good or bad. my mom is considering getting it for me if it is good. i've heard that it clears up you acne really well, but it is really drying. so i'm thinking of using proactive along with another oil free lotion.
has anybody (again ages 13-18) used the Clinique acne products? i was looking for like a good acne regiman using the clinique products if the proactive stuff doesn't look too good. i know that clinique has 3-step programs...but i was looking for a 3-step program specially made for acne. i took the quiz thing on clinique and i'm a skin type III is that helps at all.
thanks so much you guys! this will really help me out. (link)
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Yeah i use proactive right now (15/f) and it is alright...it did get rid of like 95% of my acne, but i still have little teeny blackheads on my nose if you get right up close. it is drying, so i only use it once a day....it has however worked better than other acne products so i continue to use it, but i would like to find one thats better.
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I'm a fourteen year old female.
Ever since I was eight, I've noticed these little patterns I have. Before I throw a backhand spring at cheerleading practice I have to count to eight three times.
Sometimes I wish for somethings, such as longer hair, and before I completed my wish I have to touch every end of my hair. (same if I wished for new clothes, I'd have to touch all my clothes atleast once.)
I feel as if I don't touch all of them, my wish won't come true.
Everything has to be in ABC order and all my sentenced have to have a period at the end, even if they're questions.
Is there something wrong with me?
What should I do? (link)
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Well im not a shrink, but it sounds like you're really organized, or you have obsessive compulsive disorder (Which is when you need things a certain way, or else you just keep thinking about it until you do it).
I think everyone is OC in certain ways though, for instance, i have to check the door to see if its locked every single night, even if my mom says its locked. one night i tried to go to sleep but i just layed in bed for half an hour thinking about if there was a burglary. finally i just went downstairs and checked, and yes of course it was locked, but as soon as i got back in my bed i fell asleep.
i cant honestly say if anything is wrong with you or not, but you can go to a doctors if you're truly worried about it.
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