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my mom. ):
well okay on thursday night my mom picked my sister and i up from my gradmas house at 1am, even though so was supposed to pick us up around 8:30. she was so drunk, and i was scared to get in the car. my sisters 7 and was asleep so i carried her outside with me. i get in the car and my mom goes crazy for NO REASON! she's being so mean, and i asked her why are you doing this to yourself? and she called me names. we got out of the car when we were home and i was on the phone with my gram and she hit me in the face and tried to get my cell phone, but i ran down street until she got inside, then i went in and ran up in my dads room (the attick.) he has a lock in the inside that i locked it. and sooo, she comes upstairs and trys to open in and calls me EVERYTHING in the world. a cunt, she hopes i was never born, ALL FOR NOTHING! as i was on the phone with my gram she heres everything. my dad comes home from work bout 1:45 and my moms passed out in her room and my sister is forced to sleep with her. she hurt me sooo badly, and i got no sorry. i wanna move out more then anything in the world. since then we haven't even talked. even before this TERRIBLE DRUNK DISASTER she was always so rude and treated me so much different then my sister. i don't like her, and i need help. sorry this is longg.
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Ask for help that will change things. You did nothing wrong. unfortunatly when a parent drinks the child (you) have to do what is best for yourself. Tell someone. Tell your Gram. if she does nothing about it tell a teacher. If they do nothing call the police. Do not get in the car with ANYONE who is drunk. And never let anyone get away with hitting you. She doesnt like your sister better. You sister is too young to stand up to her and she knows it. You need to do what is right for yourself. It doesnt matter of your mother is sorry or not for doing what she did.It was wrong. She needs help and you cant give it to her.
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It's terrible that you have to go through such a thing. Just remember that none of this is your fault. Your Mom is probably an alcoholic or has a mental disorder, which is an illness...and at this point she can't help what she is doing either. This does not mean you should feel sorry for her because you shouldn't. Your Grandma probably doesn't know how to stand up to your Mom. Because if I were your Grandma, I wouldn't have allowed you to go home, and I would have called the police if I had to. There's a couple of things you can do, one is call a local drug and alcohol treatment center and ask about an intervention. They can explain what it is all about over the phone. Since it's not likely that your Mom will get help visit this site and call the phone number on here...there's people that want to help you. Don't feel trapped, there is a way out, even if your Mom won't change, you can still help yourself be a survivor.
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i think you should talk to your counselor at skool that way they can git her some help and maybe you can move out until she's better. thsi is definately a problem. thats child abuse!! you shouldnt have to go through that. i had to go through that and believe me its not fun. i had to deal with it by myself though. when my mom hit me i hit her back. i threatened her and everything. now shes afraid of me and we always argue. thats not the aproach u need to take though but if all else fails go for it.
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k your probably filled with anger and stuff. i mean i kknow i would be. if i were you i wouldnt talk to her or anything like that. i would OMGGG like arghh i would totally wanna like kill her (i wouldnt tho) okay but serouisly you should talk to you dad and grandma about it. if i were you i would probably wait untill my mom says something to me about it.
best of luck
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the long ones are the best ones . you should talk to your dad about this and if not save enough money to move ou (if u r old enough)
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If this becomes a constant thing, you need to get someone to talk to. Try to get your Gram, who was on the phone when this all happened, to talk to someone. Prefferably your dad, first, because he would be able to talk to her.
If your dad and gram don't listen for some reason, talk to a school counsiler, and they will handle things, just make sure you've got a relative or friend to stay with if things go wrong.
Good luck
Kat<3
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i read a true book about this, and i cried the whole time. he lived through it his whole child hood, and he never really told anyone. what you need to do is tell your dad. if he doesnt do anything, or if he just tells you to wait it out or something, and nothing improves, tell your grandmother, ask her if you can move in with her, and ask her if she would go through the process of of making you her legal gaurdian. but if that isn't what you want, tell a teacher at school. I would personally like to keep it in the family though.
please talk to me more if this didn't help.
this is a serious problem, and im here.
--meghan.
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it looks like your mother has a drinking problem. people need to know that alcoholics don't necessarily drink every minute of the day, its the amount they drink and why theyre drinking in the first place. You need to basically have a mini intervention. talk to your father about it and decide to talk to her about this. explain what she does and how it makes you feel when she drinks. You shouldn't have to deal with this anymore expecially since it's turned physically violent. if all else fails, you need to tell someone like Social Services because this is child abuse and makes her an unfit mother right now.
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wow thats horrible and im sorry you even had to go through that! you definitely should move out. talk to your dad about it maybe? if he doesnt do anything then you should ask your grama because she was on the phone with you, so she should know how violent and upsetting your mom can get. it also sounds like you should tell somebody about this, like your guidance counselors at school, so you can get help. you dont want to put your sister, nontheless yourself, in any danger with your mom. hopefully she can get help, and you and your sister can find someone else to stay with for a while.
goodluck! :)
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