I go by Ahnee, to some. and you.
I live in Orange County CA, and it's not as great as it seems. it's just as shady as everywhere else but we're polite enough to keep it behind closed doors. Great.
I'm in highschool.
I have an opinion on just about EVERYTHING, but won't give it to you unless you ask.
I talk to people.
Sometimes i can just be a brutally honest bitch, don't ask me a question you don't want a real answer to. I refuse to coat my thoughts in sugar
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I'm a teenage girl and I'm always alone- i'm not kidding. I'm homeschooled so that's why.(and i'm the only dependent minor in my family) I used to go to a prep school where I was around annoying people 24/7, and i hated that. But this makes me depressed too. Never being around anyone. my problem is this:
Whenever I get tired of being completely alone and I go out in public for a rehearsal or something (i do theater), I can't stand being around unintelligent sluts who don't understand me and just ask me why i look so sad and things like that. I get panic attacks whenever I try to talk to someone (unless it's one of my 2 best friends in the whole world) and i start sweating and I turn red and my heart starts pounding. and it gets too awkward and i have to make an escape.
I'm very well-spoken and i couldn't call myself "shy" but i still feel reclusive because i just don't really get along with other people. I've thought it was because of my intelligence being significantly above average. (been professionally tested) So I "notice things that no one notices" which makes me "unusual". (that was something stated word for word in my testing document thing)
It's like everyone else is a bunch of cows in a heard that looks exactly the same and does the same thing, and I'm a completely different species, who doesn't see the need to be in that heard. (if that makes sense)
I also battle depression- and I always have. It's not from any particular event- it's just always sort of been there. and i can't change it.
What is wrong with me? (link)
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nothing's wrong with you hun you're just not another one of the sheep, congrats actually. I know where you're coming from, i was the same kid. This is gonna sound really lame but the internet helps a lot. Even myspace, just talking to people in your area into the things you're into. But as for what you're gonna do when you get around those people is different. I think you'll be more at ease if you feel more understood. As for the depression, maybe it's just clinical, there's always depression/anxiety medication for all that but that'll probably make you more lost than you started out with. I'd suggest getting checked out for that.
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ok so i just got a straightner like a week ago and the third time i used it i was holding it shut and going down 1 section of my hair and i was going slow,so i look in the mirror and theres smoke coming from the straigtnr!!!!! i was like wtf!? do all straitners do that????? should i get a new 1 ????? (link)
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your heat is probably on high and parts of your hair may still be wet, I do that a lot but it's really not good for your hair at all. Just make sure your hair is really dry before you straighten it and maybe turn the heat down a little.
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ummm i have a thing for chubby older men (late 20's-30) with the facial hair.... Ummm is that weird?
i think some of them are soooo hot :-) lol
Is it weird?
im 19 (link)
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Ha it's not weird hun, I'm into some weird types myself that people think i'm crazy for, but in the end everyone likes what they like and should be able to express it.
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my penis is really dry like it is dry skin why is it dry it has never been dry before (link)
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It could be anything, dry skin doesn't really mean anything. It could be you're not cleaning it right, or masturbating too much, but it's not that big of a deal and you shouldn't worry about it. (by the way, got this advice from a 19/m)
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i have been with my boyfriend for quite awhile, we love each other very much, im a virgin and we are planning on having sex this weekend, how long does all of it last?? from start to finish? normally?im afraid im going to do something wrong.. what position is easiest? thanks for your help (link)
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it depends how much it hurts you and how long you really want it to last. if it hurts bad youll probably want it to only last a few minutes but if its not too bad thats up to you and him. theres not really anything you can do wrong, just relax as much as you can (don't over think that though, it'll have the opposite effect and make you tense) and that you're wet enough. stick to missionary, hold your knees close to you and apart. that's what is probably easiest.
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When did ya'll start having sex? What's the average age that people become sexually active?
Thankss (link)
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well id suggest going to a website with actual stats because what the average teen thinks on the number of other teens having sex is is very different from the actual number.
i started having sex the week after my 15th birthday.
im guessing that less than half of teenage girls go on the pill to not get pregnant. most just use condoms or nothing at all. keep in mind a lot of teenage girls are on the pill to regulate their periods.
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okay,here is the scenario
i met this gal on the net,so what happens is that it is a chatroom,right,and we chat and soon find that we share the same interest and all that.we did not have cyber sex and it was just pure talk,later she sent me her photo and her msn.we soon had a great chat,but she has never seen me before.she then confessed her feelings to me on one night so here's my question:
1)does it count as love when a gal says she loves you when she has never seen you before,but loves your personality,chatting with you and everything else.
don't ask why i did not sent her my pic yet,i'm working on it,but i just wanna ask if it counts as love or not till this point where she doesn't know how i look like but likes my personality and other stuff. (link)
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well i kind of doubt that it's real love after this girl has only talked to you for this short a time, but yes it could be. i talked to a guy for over a year on the phone and was insanely in love with him and hadn't even seen a picture of him. my boyfriend and i used to only talk on the phone and he fell in love with me before he saw a picture of me (we actually meet now), so yes, it is possible.
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please help me. I don't know what to do anymore! ok. here's the deal. My best friend has been like "doing things". Today she called me and said that last night she peirced her nose (BY HERSELF). I was SO shocked and started to think I shouldn't hang out with her anymore. She went close to s*x but didn't. And she ALWAYS says that she's fat but she isn't. One day she told me she threw up her food but only once. Should I still hang out with her?
ps. I DON'T (OR DIDN'T) DO ANYTHING SHE DOES (OR DID) (link)
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sounds to me like right now would be the worse possible time to just leave a friend like that. she's most likely making all these decisions for a reason. you need to talk to her, tell her that she's getting you worried about all the wreckless things she's doing or is thinking of doing. stay with her through thick and thin. it doesn't mean you have to join her in all these things just let her know you're there if she needs you. she could have an eating disorder already, that you should probably watch more. if the eating disorder gets really bad, you should really tell someone.
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I have a boyfriend who has already had sex. I think i'm ready to have it and I love him very much.
I want to have sex with him.
But i'm afraid of what will come after,
or when people find out.
And it'll be my first time and I wont know what to do.
And I guess I'm just scared and need to know
what i should do before sex to make sure im protected enough and is it okay to have it if im ready? (link)
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someone knows when they're ready, no one else can tell you that one, as long as you're a decent age anyway.
Use condoms, even if the guy complains about it, he has to use one everytime.
dont use the same condom twice.
dont use two condoms at once.
It's none of other peoples business anyway, unless you're boyfriend or you go bragging about it to wrong people i don't think you'll have anything to worry about that.
just relax, if you're tense it'll make it more painful then it needs to be.
foreplay is important to make sure you're wet enough, it'll also help the pain factor. if you're not then use some lubricant (ie; KY Jelly). never use hand lotion or stuff like that it could cause the condom to break.
Just relax and remember it's what you want to do, stay safe.
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u no the intro to napolian dynamite when they show the credits in the food and stuff? well wats that song playing and who's it by. i knew but i forgot so thx a lot ppl! (link)
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yeah, its the white stripes. im not sure if the title is "we're gonna be friends" but it's something like that. i know its the white stripes though.
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There's this kid in my english class, Michael. I didn't even know the kid till the week before Christmas break. The day before we got out for Christmas break, I was playing a game with some of my friends and he walked out of no where, sat on some desk by us (I was sitting on the floor, so he was above me and looked down my shirt), and said, "Whoa. That's niiiiice." And my friend looked at him and said, "Uh, Michael? You're weird." But, he just ignored her and sat there staring at me (More like my boobs). Then Wednesday I dropped something and I bent down to get it. He walked by, looked down my shirt, said that stupid, "Nice," thing again, and smiled at me. THEN, on friday I kneeled down to reach a book (His desk was behind me.) and when I turned around, he was staring at my butt. On Friday, I walked by his desk because I was trying to go ask my teacher something. He moved his arm closer to the side I was going to be walking by and he kind of brushed up against my butt and when I turned around he was smiling at me again and staring right at my boobs and then when I was walking back he said something to me, but all I could catch was the word "sexy." Near the end of the day, he came up to me and tried to touch my boobs or something and I was like, "Excuse me. Get away from me, okay?" and one of my friends came up behind me and he's like, "Back off, faggot." THEN, he finally left. But, he's gonna end up doing something again Monday. I KNOW he will.. The thing is, after Wednesday, I told him to back off and same for Friday. Now I don't know if he thought I was joking or WHAT the crap the kid's problem is, but he won't leave me alone. Ugh, what should I do? (link)
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well you need to tell him seriously that you're not interested, that what he's doing is pissing you off, and if you're concerned about hurting the boy do all of this nicely. although if you're not concerned about that tell him to F Off.
If it's still going on after that, complain to someone higher up. yes, this is sexual harrassment and a serious problem.
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my dog, [westie] is acting weird.. like she has this stuff animal, that she like loves [she doesnt do anything like gross with it, she just like watches it, & sits with it.] & she'll stay there all day. & then she ALWAYS sleeps with me at night.. & she hasnt for 2 days. I don't get whats up with her.. what do i do? has your dog ever done this? (link)
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she probably thinks this stuffed animal is her baby and that she's taking care of it. My dog does this and so does my cat actually, my cat stole this little lemer (sp) thing out of my room and she'll just carry it around the house and sit with it and meow. but the sleeping thing is probably just your dog being a dog. sometimes my dog will be interested in something outside for like a week then is over it and comes back inside. no worries.
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Okay, so I'm 16 (female) and my boyfriend is 22. We've known each other since this last summer and we started talking more once he gave me his screen name.
We've liked each other for about 2 months and hung out a few times. We just started actually dating a week ago.
We make each other really happy. We argue about who likes and misses each other more. We have these deep conversations that end up confusing the hell out of us.
When I told my best friend that I was dating him, she flipped out and said "Ewww, that's disgusting." I guess she doesn't approve over the whole age thing. In my eyes, age is nothing but a number. I just wanted some opinion's.. whether it be good or bad. What do you think of the age gap? (link)
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dont worry about it. but you are gonna get plenty of people against it though. i mean im 15 and my boyfriend's 19, but we've been together since i was 14 and he was 18. the oldest ive ever gone is 8/9 years apart, everyone thought i was crazy but that doesnt matter. just ignore what other people have to say, as long as you're happy it doesnt matter. (just dont get caught having sex, im not sure where you live but in most states...well...he'd be screwed)
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Do a lot of people on MySpace have trackers (codes that allow you to see who's visited your MySpace)? I'm a little concerned about my privacy. Is there a way I can get myself to not show up on trackers when I visit a person's page.
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well most (if not all) myspace tracking systems don't actually track who exactly visits your page, just the time they visited and your listed location. I read on one site that myspace searches for programs that are trying to figure out how to specifically track people and shuts them down, for privacy reasons. so i wouldnt worry about it too much
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so this might seem weird ive has sex many times but ive never kissed a guy and im terrifed too!! ho do you kiss and what if i suck im so nevous ive built it up to a huge thing!! (link)
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www.myjellybean.com go to dating then flirting then kissing on the links
just a question though, how did you manage to have sex so many times without even kissing a guy? i dont mean this in a sarcastic way im just curious
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of course this is about a boy. hes totally adorable and right now i like him so so much. but heres the thing. when im hanging out with him or talking to him online or on the fone, i totally dont like him. but wen we hold hands or watevr, or wen im just thinking about him, i totally like him!! hello whats the deal? why cant i like him all the time? (link)
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Well sounds to me like you like more the idea of a boyfriend or something like one more than you actually like the boy you're dealing with.
Wait for a guy you are actually totally into to try and be with, trust me everything will flow naturally then.
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I had sex with this guy.
He asked the next day "is it everything cool between us?"
What does it mean?
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i think im gonna have to disagree with these two people, but it might not be what you want to hear
i would take this as he's checking to see if you guys are still "cool" with eachother, not "are we ready to take the next step in our relationship?" or anything like that. more as "you understand that this was just a fun thing right?"
But tone factors in here, so take that into good consideration too
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when you are making out with a guy or even just kissing do guy like it when girls play with the hair (on the back of their head) or like massage their neck? what should girls hands do when making out with guys? thanks! (link)
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well every guy's different but most guys do like it when you pull on there hair gently while you're kissing. you could also run your fingers through it. You could run your fingers up and down his neck softly too.
put your hand on the side of his face, on his chest, but most guys like it when you play with their hair. it's just a matter of how roughly they like it done haha
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Well i heard that tampons cause something, i 4got but anyways...any help? (link)
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tss
toxic shock syndrome
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i was having a problem earlier about dealing with my then current school; basically it was just about going to all of my classes. on thursday, i found out, because of my lack of attending that school, i can't go their anymore. Which is perfectly fair. It's not another public school, it's 'thereputic', to say the least. But i don't think that's the point.
a few years ago when i was in sixth grade, a boy moved away that i really, really liked; all the way across the country. And i've only recently put that behind me. Now, two years later, i find myself in a similar situation. There's a boy i've liked for a few months now, and i don't think i'll see him so much anymore.
And i don't know much to do. I can't go up to him, and flat out tell him that i think he's sweet. I'm not really that in-your-face. And don't think i'm a basket case who everyone hates at that school, either.
That wasn't it, i've got to talking to this boy (he's one of my best friends twin brother) and he's told me i looked good, and on thursday when i went to school, from across the room in class, he's licked his finger and put it on his shoulder as if to indicate 'hot'. He's pretty in-your-face. He'll pick me up from behind when he see's me, and when he comes to the door a lot when his mom is picking up his sister, he talks with me.
i've got to liking him, a lot. but i don't know how to end this. I'm pretty confident that i need closure. I will ending up seeing him some because of his sister, but i won't be in school anymore, so i don't know what to say.
any advice or whatnot is welcome. (link)
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mention casually that you'll be changing schools, like "yeah im not gonna be here anymore though, im going to ******". if he asks for your number or something you'll know he's actually into you too.
Although, if you don't want to talk to him at all anymore you could probably just tell his sister or someone else that you said bye to him. like "oh yeah, tell your brother i said bye. im switching schools". just be mellow about it
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