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i have been with my boyfriend for quite awhile, we love each other very much, im a virgin and we are planning on having sex this weekend, how long does all of it last?? from start to finish? normally?im afraid im going to do something wrong.. what position is easiest? thanks for your help
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The first time you have sex, make sure that there's a lot of lubrication...your own, the condom's, or some K-Y jelly (don't use Vaseline because that will destroy the condom). Relax...push outward slightly so that you're not tensing inward. Almost certainly, the first time he enters you, it will be uncomfortable.
When he then begins to make the motions, it probably won't take very long for him to climax. That is because guys are usually over-excited the first time they have sex with a woman (I don't mean the first time they have sex, necessarily...but the first time with every woman). Every thrust will probably make you uncomfortable, and you might be pretty sore the next day as well. I would guess that 10 min. is about the average amount of time intercourse will take. The missionary position, with you on the bottom lying still, is the easiest. Later, when sex is not uncomfortable, you won't feel like lying still, but you should do that the first time. As for doing something wrong, there is absolutely nothing that a girl can get wrong when having intercourse--as long as you remember to use birth control and a condom (both are best). Good luck! gigi
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um. usually you're first time is really short. like 10 minutes maybe..it depends on you. Also, when he first goes in make sure you tell him to be very gentle. and don't tense up when he's about to go in, be relaxed, tensing up will make it hurt more, but overall it's a really good experiance and is worth taking. It will come to feel good over time. Make sure you use protection. I.E. condom or birth control, and make sure you put the condom on properly. (leaving a little room on the top) otherwise goodluck!! hope i helped!
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it depends how much it hurts you and how long you really want it to last. if it hurts bad youll probably want it to only last a few minutes but if its not too bad thats up to you and him. theres not really anything you can do wrong, just relax as much as you can (don't over think that though, it'll have the opposite effect and make you tense) and that you're wet enough. stick to missionary, hold your knees close to you and apart. that's what is probably easiest.
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