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im ready.
I have a boyfriend who has already had sex. I think i'm ready to have it and I love him very much.
I want to have sex with him.
But i'm afraid of what will come after,
or when people find out.
And it'll be my first time and I wont know what to do.
And I guess I'm just scared and need to know
what i should do before sex to make sure im protected enough and is it okay to have it if im ready?
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Well its good that right now you know what you want, but on the other hand, your smart that you know that there can be real consequences. I think that if your taking these all in, and are kind of scared, then you might not be completely ready. You should talk to him. Have a discussion. But first ask him to think completley about you feelings when responding in this talk, tell him not to take in account that he might want to have sex with you. YOu should have the talk, because then your want may increase or decrease, by actually talking to him as if it were a reality.
And if you think your ready....I think you should have at least two condoms ready. Because once that moment escaltes to almost sex, saing no because you dont have any and neither does he, will be hard to stop. So stay protected, and know what you want. THis is a turning point in your life, choose carefully
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having sex for the first time can be scary, because it one of the things you are going to remember for the rest of your life (trust me i know), so you got to make sure that you're ready, and that you love the boy, because you don't want to do it with any boy. use a condom, but because condoms works 95% of the time, make sure you are on pills( just to be on the safe side). good luck.
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darlin yeh if you love him it so ok the best thing in the world babes after a certain age people think you have only if you wont to
protect urself make him wear a comdom and go to the gp
mý main advise is never reget it if it doen't work out you still loved him and it will come naturaly to you
hope it works out
remember NO REGETS
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You have to be very sure that you are ready! And no one can be more sure than YOU! BUT, you have to be at a very decent age. Who cares what people think? Make sure everything is out in the open with this guy you love so much, does he know its ur first time?
Wear a condom, definately and its better if you're on the pill too, just to be extra cautious. If he thinks wearing a condom is ridiculous, don't listen to him! As long as he wants sex, you both have to be protected!
Thankyou!
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someone knows when they're ready, no one else can tell you that one, as long as you're a decent age anyway.
Use condoms, even if the guy complains about it, he has to use one everytime.
dont use the same condom twice.
dont use two condoms at once.
It's none of other peoples business anyway, unless you're boyfriend or you go bragging about it to wrong people i don't think you'll have anything to worry about that.
just relax, if you're tense it'll make it more painful then it needs to be.
foreplay is important to make sure you're wet enough, it'll also help the pain factor. if you're not then use some lubricant (ie; KY Jelly). never use hand lotion or stuff like that it could cause the condom to break.
Just relax and remember it's what you want to do, stay safe.
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