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New school, old boy.
i was having a problem earlier about dealing with my then current school; basically it was just about going to all of my classes. on thursday, i found out, because of my lack of attending that school, i can't go their anymore. Which is perfectly fair. It's not another public school, it's 'thereputic', to say the least. But i don't think that's the point.
a few years ago when i was in sixth grade, a boy moved away that i really, really liked; all the way across the country. And i've only recently put that behind me. Now, two years later, i find myself in a similar situation. There's a boy i've liked for a few months now, and i don't think i'll see him so much anymore.
And i don't know much to do. I can't go up to him, and flat out tell him that i think he's sweet. I'm not really that in-your-face. And don't think i'm a basket case who everyone hates at that school, either.
That wasn't it, i've got to talking to this boy (he's one of my best friends twin brother) and he's told me i looked good, and on thursday when i went to school, from across the room in class, he's licked his finger and put it on his shoulder as if to indicate 'hot'. He's pretty in-your-face. He'll pick me up from behind when he see's me, and when he comes to the door a lot when his mom is picking up his sister, he talks with me.
i've got to liking him, a lot. but i don't know how to end this. I'm pretty confident that i need closure. I will ending up seeing him some because of his sister, but i won't be in school anymore, so i don't know what to say.
any advice or whatnot is welcome.
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this sounds kind of like my life story. you see there is a lot of things that you have to consider. i mean you wont be seeing him as often i know that it is just that if you really like this guy then you should try it out. but if you think that you need to stop liking him and trust your insticts then go ahead. i dont mean to sound blank or anything but if it comes to it find another guy that you like and try and forget about it but sometimes that doesnt work. if it doesnt make yourself stop thinking about him and soon you will get over it. i hope that i could help.=)
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if he seems that into you i think that you should take a chance and tell him . a non-in your face way of doing so is sending him a cute note with a poem or maybe (if you're feeling lucky)an i'll miss you *gives huge sad puppy dog eyes* and a peck on the cheek (this is really effective if you just leave right after the peck). if it doesn't work out with him keep in mind that there are plenty of other fish in the sea, and you're bound to find that special someone someday :) OH AND remember, CHOCOLATE DOES WONDERS FOR A BROKEN HEART (jsut don't get addicted ;)
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just dont talk to him as much. and dont look at him either to be tempted to think about him. and just think about well im not that kind of girl to be in-your-face. but he is. so idk? just try not to think about him as much or dont talk to him at all.
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mention casually that you'll be changing schools, like "yeah im not gonna be here anymore though, im going to ******". if he asks for your number or something you'll know he's actually into you too.
Although, if you don't want to talk to him at all anymore you could probably just tell his sister or someone else that you said bye to him. like "oh yeah, tell your brother i said bye. im switching schools". just be mellow about it
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