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idk if i like him or not!!


Question Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 1:35 am

of course this is about a boy. hes totally adorable and right now i like him so so much. but heres the thing. when im hanging out with him or talking to him online or on the fone, i totally dont like him. but wen we hold hands or watevr, or wen im just thinking about him, i totally like him!! hello whats the deal? why cant i like him all the time?

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Additional info, added Wednesday January 10 2007, 8:53 pm:
before i was like oh yeah maybe i dont really like him maybe its just having a boyfriend or sumthing i dont know but this weekend i dont know somthing hapened i fell in love with him and now i cant stand not being around him but if i hear he dosent like me or sumthing i snap out of it and i dont like him for like five minutes and thats all it lasts.

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sognarxo answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 3:44 pm:
He's not the one. You are just happy because you are with someone. that happend to me tons of times. just be friends with him. It will be much better than going out and then breaking up because u relized you just dont like him. (that happened to me) so just wait for one you love to talk to on the phone, and be with. you will have a better chance of staying with them =]

if you need anymore help, or for me to be more specific just let me know.

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Brandi_S answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 10:46 am:
Well, sounds as though you like the way he looks, but not the words that come out of his mouth.

You say you totally like him. No. You don't.

The deal is, you should let this poor guy get on with his life with someone who appreciates him for who he is, and not what he is.

Why can't you like him?

You can, if you stop being superficial.

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lois answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 8:39 am:
it seems to me that you like the boy because you think that how your boyfriend should look like, because anytime you see him you like him more. but if you like him like you say u do,talk to him about it or when you two are talking on the phone, talk about something that you are interested in. hope i help.

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rick505 answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 4:19 am:
It seems to me you have a good picture in your head of how a boyfriend is supposed to be. so it seems you have two choices.
1. tell this guy how you would like him to act
2. move on

one thing though, make sure this picture in your head is reasonable Prince Charmings are very rare indeed.

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Ahnee answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 2:00 am:
Well sounds to me like you like more the idea of a boyfriend or something like one more than you actually like the boy you're dealing with.

Wait for a guy you are actually totally into to try and be with, trust me everything will flow naturally then.

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