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Please answer!does THIS count as love?
okay,here is the scenario
i met this gal on the net,so what happens is that it is a chatroom,right,and we chat and soon find that we share the same interest and all that.we did not have cyber sex and it was just pure talk,later she sent me her photo and her msn.we soon had a great chat,but she has never seen me before.she then confessed her feelings to me on one night so here's my question:
1)does it count as love when a gal says she loves you when she has never seen you before,but loves your personality,chatting with you and everything else.
don't ask why i did not sent her my pic yet,i'm working on it,but i just wanna ask if it counts as love or not till this point where she doesn't know how i look like but likes my personality and other stuff.
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ok,personally,i've never been into the whole meet someone from a chatroom and build a relationahip thing but I'm certainly not saying its all bad.I know people in my life who have started talking to someone online and it has worked out for them..and also people who its not worked out so well for. truthfully, I think this ones you're own feeling toward the subject. I mean, who am i to say shes not in love with you..i've never met her and don't know anything about her so she could be the kind of person who can connect with someone without meeting them but then again, maybe shes not. I have a question for you..do you trust her? I mean, chatrooms are made especially to get people to think they know each other better than they really do. If you think you have a valid reason to beleive she knows you through your words then great for you, but i'm here to tell you it dosn't always work that way. personally, i don't think i could fall in love with someone i've never met..thats just my perspective. But i can't possibly begin to speak for this girl. Who am i to ruin love if its accually there. You've never met this girl,and you may never meet her...who knows if its accually safe to. This is a pure from the heart dicision. to me, i have to know a person well enough but who knows, love works in misterious ways and no 2 people are the same when it come down to it. Someone once said you should beleive the person the first time until they give you a reaon not to and thats exactly what i'm telling you. You're lucky to find someone who cares for you so much but be careful, a heart is an easy thing to break. If you decide to trust, be aware of the consicuences. Hope i could help!
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I think it most certainly counts as love. I met my boyfriend online, and after a few months of talking I blurted out that I loved him. I'd never seen a picture of him or anything.
However, depending on whether she's one of the girls that says she "loves" a guy just because she thinks hes hot/likes his personality/likes him alot, but not love and then goes out with him for a few weeks, gets tired, and they break up. I don't know her, but you do, and if she's that kind of girl, then I wouldn't count on a major relationship - people can change, though. But she might also actually mean it. You should talk to her about it, or just listen [girls really love it when they talk about their relationship] and I'm sure it'll all work out in the end. Good luck.
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its possible that she could love yu. she might've fallen in love with yur personality its normal . it could be real love . if its not it possibly could grow into that. be careful dont screw it up
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Well, they do say love is blind. If she's not shallow, which it doesn't seem like she is, then it is possible that she could love you, and just doesn't care about looks.
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Yes, it could very well be love. what some people dont understand is its not all about looks. Personality plays a big role in your feelings towards someone.
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no she is lustin atfer youand the fact she said dat is very strange
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Hey :D
From the sounds of it, this very well could be love. It is possible to love someone based on their personality. It is actually better to be in love only based on how someone acts, rather then loving someone before you talk to them, which wuld only be based on looks. But if I were you I woudl wait a little while to detirmine your feelings abotu her and make sure you two are on the same page!. I hope I helped you, GOOD LUCK! :D
~Hailey~<3
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I have two answers. Well one, love is anything you want it to be. THe only person who can judge love in a relationship, or lack thereof is you and the other person. But on the other hand. Love is well-rounded. And you guys barely know each other, she has never seen you, and this is an online relationsip. SO the answer is its up to you. BUt my personal answer is not really. She may think she is in love. But I dont think she honestly knows yet.
Hope I helped. FOllow your heart and first instinct
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It's not love. This girl is so caught up in excitment that she is saying that she loves you. She loves your personality and everything else, but it's not real love.
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well i kind of doubt that it's real love after this girl has only talked to you for this short a time, but yes it could be. i talked to a guy for over a year on the phone and was insanely in love with him and hadn't even seen a picture of him. my boyfriend and i used to only talk on the phone and he fell in love with me before he saw a picture of me (we actually meet now), so yes, it is possible.
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yes. it counts as love.
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