My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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Cats own you (link)
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Ok lol
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I don't know whats wrong with me but I can't feel it when i have orgasms. Or i'll barely feel it. I know i'm having them because sometimes i'll even squirt. My whole body shakes and then i just kind of relax.. but i dont feel anything. Is there anything i can do to make them feel better? (link)
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Okay and most of them 13 year olds could probably tell you a thing or two about orgasms. Ignore the person below me. I had the same problem but i knew i was about to have them so i thought about it and i didnt hardly feel them. So i relaxed and didnt think about it just focused on the feeling coming from the guy and it worked but i dont know how effective it would be for you but i thought i'd tell you and it might help. I tried!
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16/f
the top of the vaginal lips itches, it's not internal or anything it's not RIGHT on the lips either. it's somewhat above it, where the hair kind of is.. where sometimes girls shave and leave a line.. it's around that area. i don't have any white discharge or anything, it just itches at times. and when i look at it, sometimes my vaginal lips look dry. why is that? is it from the sex or from sweating because of sex? or could it from shaving? but even when i have hair down there, it still itches. (link)
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If you have sex often it can cause the skin to dry out and become irritated and if you shave down there it doesnt help neither. I just went through this problem so i know what your dealing with, if you can, go to a store and buy this stuff its called Monistat Itch relief cream. It worked wonders. I didnt have the burning itch or anything that was on the box but you can still use it because i dont have that itching problem anymore. It stopped after like 2 days of using it. Hope i helped!
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My boyfriend and i have been going out for over 6 months now. When we first started going out (this was during the school year), we'd hang out like every Friday & he'd text/AIM me pretty much every day. Over the summer we'd hang out like twice a week, and he'd also text me or AIM me all the time.
When school started again, this kind of slowed and stopped. I see him less and less now; we haven't done anything together since Christmas break (and that was only for like four hours), and before that, I don't even remember. And he doesn't talk to me online as often, either; I usually have to start the conversation to talk to him.
Anyway, my question is, what's the deal here? Did I do something wrong or is he just bored now? (link)
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It's hard to tell from what you've said but maybe its just hard for him to get attatched to somebody he doesn't get to see often. Ask him what the deal is, tell him that you feel like your putting more in the relationship than he is and if he really wants to be with you because if not he doesn't need to waste your time or hurt your feelings.
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My boyfriend & I want to have sex for the first time soon.
We're both virgins, so I'd like to know what I should be expecting. (Of course we're goign to use protection.) I've heard that the girl's gonna be in pain & the guy's not going to last very long. If this is true, elaborate please? Like how much pain, what will it feel like, abotu how long will he 'last'? (link)
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Most of the time the stories you hear about first times aren't true for everybody because every persons body is different. First things first, Pain for the girl, not always true. If you wear tampons then your "cherry" has already "popped" and it wont be as painful. The pain usually isnt bad at all. But like i said it depends on the person. I can promise you though that its not going to be horrible and unbearing and if it is then hes doing something wrong. And as far as the guy lasting, it can be anywhere between 2-7 minutes. It all depends. Don't expect him to not last long though because he could and if you think about that then it won't be enjoyable for you. So just relax and go with the flow you don't want to be stressed out. Good luck! :)
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i was having sex yesterday and before i didnt have the feeling to pee but a little bit after i was feeling like i had to pee and i was like controling my self so i didnt end up peeing on my self after we where done having sex i didnt feel like i had to pee until an hour later so i just wanna know why i had that feeling even thought i didnt have to pee until a while later (link)
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During sex the penis pushes against your bladder making it feel like you have to pee but you really dont instead your getting close to having an orgasm, its perfectly normal.
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I just started to date my manager at work about three weeks ago. He is an amazing guy and we really like eachother.
My only problem with the whole situation is the fact he wants to be around me all the time like if I could he would want me to live with him already. I want to see him a lot too, but I'm afriad that because its the beginning of our relationship that it might mess it up later if we take it too fast now.
How do I push him away a little without hurting him? (link)
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You could go about this two ways.
One: Tell him that you do like him alot but you feel that if you guys spend ALOT of time together this early in your relationship that it will ruin things down the road. He should understand.
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Two: Just cut in half the time you spend together every day. Maybe try to work the hours after he works at your job some days and work with him some days. On your days off do your own thing for awhile and then hang out when your ready.
If you cut everything else out in your life it could become a controlling relationship because he wont know what its like to not be around you constantly. Don't just start avoiding him, let him know whats going on. Communication is a key thing in a relationship.
Hope i helped
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a few days before my last period i had a few bumps on my vagina(the part that you shave. not the actual lips)
the bumps looked like razor burn and one of them was an in-grown hair that i treated and it went away. the other bumps are still there. it looks like razor burn but it doesnt itch or burn unless i mess with them first.
please tell me any incite you may have on the subject. is there any cream or anything i can get? (link)
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At one point in time i had the EXACT same thing, it is indeed razor burn. The only reason its not disappearing is because you keep shaving over it so it keeps irritating it. Keep putting lotion on the bumps and dont shave as often as you do or not at all till they go away. I kept lotion on them and didnt shave as much and they went away.
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My sister walked in to the bathroom while i was showering and caught me masterbating. She left after a few seconds and i dont know if i should say something to her (link)
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Well first off masturbating is totally normal. Dont feel bad or embarrassed. Is your sister older or younger? If shes older im sure she understands. IS she acting all wierd around you now? If shes younger maybe ask what she seen and explain to her that its normal and everybody does it at one point or another and not to be freaked out.
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Okay, just a random question to see if anyone has figured out the Popular guy deal. You know why they dont talk to chicks that arent in their clique even when the chicks out of their cliques are pretty, not necisarily popular but not weird just normal. They dont even give other girls a chance. (link)
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Its all about social status, their worried about what people in their clique are going to think. Plus its that typical Popular supposed to date popular, captain of football team dates head cheerleader, ya know? its stupid but their heads are all blown up. IF your worrying about a popular guy, don't waste your time, their jerks anyway.
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okay so you look like a cool person to ask this to. I'm 14f and me and my friend cate have been BEST friends for 8 years. I moved 4 years ago, but it feels like i still live near her cause we're still bff. now she got this 18 year old bf that is luring her in the wrong direction. First, she starting smoking and smoking pot. WE EVEN MADE A PROMISE TOGETHER THAT WE WOULDN'T EVER TOUCH THAT KINd OF STUFF. AND I DON'T. now i found out she is have sex w/ him. I feel abondoned like i'm i don't fit in w/ her anymore cause i don't do that kind of stuff. I have caught her in lies where she told me that she was grounded when really she was hanging out w/ with her bf. Should i tell her parents whats going on?! should i stop being her friend? (link)
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Don't ditch her thats the last thing she needs. Eventually shes going to need somebody to lean on and thats of course going to be you. A real best friend is somebody thats there for you through everything, right? So dont leave her that will just cause LOTS of problems. Im assuming thats shes 14 as well. Hes 18. not only is that statutory rape it is DEFINITELY against the law. I hate to say it but hes just using her because shes young and easy to get to. Not saying anything about your age group but i know how i was at that age. Talk to her and tell her how it makes you feel, Just be like im your best friend and i dont think what your doing is a good idea, i want whats best for you but i really dont want you to end up hurt. Shes going to flip and think your just jealous and all that stuff. Don't argue with her just lay it out and be like im here for you but i dont want to feel like im put aside and and not as important. Don't tell her parents though she'll think you betrayed her. Hope i helped if you need anything else just ask.
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16/f
Hi, I'm applying to be a lifeguard this summer for the first time. What kind of suits do female lifeguards generally wear? One or two pieces? I know some places get specific about that, but some places don't, and I'm not sure if where I'm applying does (I'm applying to be a NYC lifeguard - so if anyone knows whether or not they require a one or two piece, if you could tell me?) (link)
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Every pool i've ever been to, they've worn two pieces. At my pool the girl wears two pieces and usually short shorts over her bottoms but thats her choice. I dont think it really matters, its whatevers comfortable for you. Unless they have a specific dress code then wear whatever your comfortable in.
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can a 5 inche penis satisfy a lady? plz answer this question only by talking about size without any other aspect like foreplay etc...
regards. (link)
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It could. Depends on how a girls vagina is shaped and how long till you reach the wall. Its not about size its how you use it. So if you know what your doing then it should be no problem.
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Long story short, I lost my Learners Permit MONTHS ago and I just told my mom a few days ago that it's missing. She told me to look for information on how to get a new one, and how much it would cost me.
I live in Kansas, but any information from other states will work too. Thanks!
Oh, and I still have the paper version of your permit that they give you the day you take the test. It expired back in October (I took the test at the beginning/middle of August) but I still have it in my wallet. I also lost my high school ID (I'm not unorganized, but it was with my permit...)
Please let me know if you have ANYTHING to share on the subject!!! (link)
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I do believe you just got to DMV. Provide proof that you are you(birthdate, name, etc.) and it usually cost about $11.00
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I've decided i want to fake tan, so I got Nivea Body Firming Gradual tan moisturizer(Fair to medium). I put the tan on this morning at about 8am and I had a shower at 5pm and when I shaved my legs, the tan came off. So I want to know stuff like How long after(or before) applying the tan can i shave/exfoliate/go in water, etc etc...?
Someone told me to also Moisturize to maintain the tan, can I use Aloe vera dry skin relief moisturizer, or does it have to be a different one?
Also, when I shave, I get these red dots all on my legs so what do I do to prevent that from happeningg?
Thanks if you can helpp! (link)
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I've always found it works best if you put it on after you've showered and your skin is completely dry but if you choose not to do it that way then you should wait atleast 12 hours. As far as moisturizing i dont think it would matter what lotion you use. The red dots are razor burn. Make sure your skin is wet and if you use regular bar soap make sure their really soapy or use shaving cream, using new razors helps as well. hope i helped!
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14/F
Okay, in first grade, I made a really good friend. In fourth grade (four years ago), I moved to another state. Me and my friend (let's call her Kat) were stripped away from each other.
When I moved, I met a new girl (let's call her Amy). Amy and I became very very very very very close over four years.
Now I'm about to move back to Kat's state, and I regret it a lot, because I'm making Amy cry.
Amy is actually mentally dependent on me, she literally tells me everything, and if she doesn't I can tell she's not telling me something.
Though I know she'll get over it eventually. I've been trying to introduce her to new people to befriend, but she's still attached to me.
Long story short-ish, I am going to move into Kat's house so I can go to a really good school. Which makes Amy even more depressed.
What should I do to make Amy cry less and make my parting easier for her?
(I'm an unfeeling monster, I realize. I know I won't cry. I've scolded myself for that. I know I have mental issues, but I keep them to myself)
Sorry times 50 billion for typing so much!!!!!!
Please help! (link)
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I just went through sort of the same thing. Explain to her that its best for you and if shes your friend then she'd want what is best for you right? Making good friends and having them move away is all apart of growing up, its not easy and no one expects it to be. Make a scrapbook of pictures of you two and put inside jokes and things that way she'll always have those memories. Also write her a letter explaining that even though you guys are in different states you'll always be there for her and you couldn't of asked for a better friend and even though it don't seem like it now she'll be okay eventually and she'll make new friends. Having friends move away or moving away from them is never easy, theres not really too much you can do to make it easier for her. It jus gets easier as time goes on. Try those things, but other then that im not really sure what to say and im sorry if i didn't help. Good luck!
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Well i like this dude his name is A Bell and my friend [shes considerd my cousin] likes him 2 she even asked him out and he said no i send her a message on myspace to telling her to back off he is living with his brother and his brothers wife is her sister and she is living with them and he isnt really my boyfreind but he calls me alot and we talk for hours on the phone he lives in arkansas and i live in oklahoma she is gong to have a quinceanera in november and i am going to go but if i see them together or worse see them kissing then i am going to flip out what should i do to find out if he is going out with her or not???? i dont have the guts to ask him directly what if there together when i go ??? HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!! (link)
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You don't have to be straight up about it. Just be like soo who ya likin these days, whos the lucky girl that your dating? or something of the sort, its joking but at the same time your wondering. It doesnt necessarily mean you have feelings for him.
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how much will it cost to just buy a new one and then activate that one? like i already have the plan and eveyrthing, how much is it to just buy a new one and activate that one (link)
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the phone itself is between $300-$400 and then activation is about $35
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how do you make out? details pleaseee. (link)
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Well nobody can really give you details its different for everyone. It pretty much comes natural. You start out with kissing slowly and then the guy/girl will open their mouth slightly and thats when the tongue action comes into play. Its really not that hard it comes to you naturally, i promise. Most people say to use your tongue and "draw" your name in their mouth if your not sure what to do with your tongue
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do i have to sign up for tanning?
explain to me how it works, and how much is it? (link)
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No you don't have to sign up. The price range depends on where you go, you can get packages or you can just pay for a one time visit. You pretty much just go to the store tell them you want to tan and they'll ask you for how long, if your not sure then they will help you decide by the tone of your skin. Their very helpful
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