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am i boring him?
My boyfriend and i have been going out for over 6 months now. When we first started going out (this was during the school year), we'd hang out like every Friday & he'd text/AIM me pretty much every day. Over the summer we'd hang out like twice a week, and he'd also text me or AIM me all the time.
When school started again, this kind of slowed and stopped. I see him less and less now; we haven't done anything together since Christmas break (and that was only for like four hours), and before that, I don't even remember. And he doesn't talk to me online as often, either; I usually have to start the conversation to talk to him.
Anyway, my question is, what's the deal here? Did I do something wrong or is he just bored now?
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Well it may not be that he's bored of you, the spark in ya'lls relationship has died out a little bit. If you want it to last, I suggest getting together with him and spending the whole day with him. Get him to remember how special you are and that he can't afford to lose you. Take him out for a day of fun out on the town, go see a movie, go out to dinner, then do something romantic and creative afterwards. Make him realize that ya'll have lasted 6 months in a strong relationship and it doesn't have to end just because ya'll don't see each other as much. Take the upperhand, be in control. It's okay to be a little assertive. Let him know that you won't wait around for him if he isn't interested. Hope this helped and GOOD LUCK!
-Ray
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Maybe he's just been busy, it's hard to tell without knowing him...The best thing to do is talk to him about it, ask why you guys haven't been hanging out as much lately. (If you're not gonna see him, text or call)
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It's hard to tell from what you've said but maybe its just hard for him to get attatched to somebody he doesn't get to see often. Ask him what the deal is, tell him that you feel like your putting more in the relationship than he is and if he really wants to be with you because if not he doesn't need to waste your time or hurt your feelings.
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hes probrobly gotten bored og you, unfortinently. he may have fallen for another girl to...but its hard to tell from what you said.
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