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virgins want to have sex
My boyfriend & I want to have sex for the first time soon.
We're both virgins, so I'd like to know what I should be expecting. (Of course we're goign to use protection.) I've heard that the girl's gonna be in pain & the guy's not going to last very long. If this is true, elaborate please? Like how much pain, what will it feel like, abotu how long will he 'last'?
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Okay seriously..Think about what you just asked here..If you have to ask then obviously you just aren't mature enough and that is as clear as it gets. Sorry to sound harsh but that is the truth however I'm almost 100% that my advice as well as the ones given aren't going to stop you...but you might want to really rethink what you are getting yourself into.
1. You sound young and whether that is 13,14,15..16 or even 17 for this matter. You are still YOUNG
2. If you don't want to take any risk, Don't want to end up with a baby cause who knows condoms aren't always 100% safe. Then I highly advise you NOT to have sex.
3. Sure sex is a fun thing and pleasurable..but again rethink everything before you go and have sex the question ANYONE should ask themselves before having sex with their partner is "Are you ready for a possible parenthood?" and if you DO get pregnant how exactly are you going to provide for this child? Having sex just because you are bored is not always worth the consequences.
And just to point out...These days the rate for teenagers having sex just because they are bored or "think" they are in love is VERY high
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Im not sure how old you are but you sound to young to have sex. i had sex and i got pregnate at 16 and wd used a condom so now i have a cute bundle of joy but thats not for everyone is that what you really want. but if your still going to do it then ask yourself are you in love with this person and are you going to regret it later he you break up. you might think you will never break tri was like that to and i regret it so think long and hard about this one
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If you seriously have you ask these questions, you obviously aren't ready so the best advice I can give you is to not go through with it.
xoxo,
dottie4
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Most of the time the stories you hear about first times aren't true for everybody because every persons body is different. First things first, Pain for the girl, not always true. If you wear tampons then your "cherry" has already "popped" and it wont be as painful. The pain usually isnt bad at all. But like i said it depends on the person. I can promise you though that its not going to be horrible and unbearing and if it is then hes doing something wrong. And as far as the guy lasting, it can be anywhere between 2-7 minutes. It all depends. Don't expect him to not last long though because he could and if you think about that then it won't be enjoyable for you. So just relax and go with the flow you don't want to be stressed out. Good luck! :)
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