I have a wonderfull 19 month old son and a fantastic boyfrien i an a stay at home full time mommy
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Location: Nc
Age: 18
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okay so im really stressed out at the moment. i live with my mum and my two little siblings are living with their dads and are really happy. mum and i live out of town so the only thing i can do at home is go on the laptop and do jobs. ive had a boyfriend for well over a year. so, the only people in my life at the moment are my mum and boyfriend. i also have my cat. my mum has a full time job so i dont get to see her very much. and she went to china a few days ago. i get so lonely. i feel like i have no one at all and im stressed out of my mind. i dont have many friends at the moment, they just dont seem to like me very much anymore. anyway, i started cutting myself on my hip, so people dont see of course. i feel like it help me because its distracting me from thinking about everything. because i have so much time by myself im always thinking and getting stresses out heaps. i told my boyfriend the other night and he got really mad at me. i saw him yesteray so ive got other things to think about other than how fucked my life is at the moment so im not wanting to cut myself. i just need to be distraced from thinking so much. it drives me mad. i would talk to the school counciler but i use to work for her at a berry farm so i wouldnt feel comfortable talking to her. so i just want something to distract me, keep me occupied so i dont cut myself again. i'll be moving into town next month so that will help. i hate being by myself. im not scared i just get lonely. please help me. (link)
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Well first off if you keep this up you will regret it later in life you will look back and be like i cant believe i did that. you have to find something to occupie youself play sports or something. but you need to talk to your mom about it and tell her you need her around more. move on and dont do that anymore.
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Hello i was thinking about switching from Yaz birth control pills to possibly the Depo shot. I dont want to have to worry about missing pills. I have read a little bit about the depo and the side effects seem worse than the pill. Weight gain, mood swings, periods sometimes lasting 3 weeks. Does anybody have experience with this. What method are you using that you like?
Thanks for the advice :)
I rate! (link)
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I have and IUD its called the mirena , it is just like a little t share piece of plastic and its really small . the only upkeep with it is you in for the one month after you have it put it and then you can keep it in for up to five years . i dont really get my periods and when i do its just a little bit of spotting. i like it and it works for me but everyone is different and you may have some side effects so you should for sure talk to you doc about it all. but i have already had a baby and i an pretty fertile and i havent got pregnant yet i've had it for almost two years. but a girl i knew she was on the depo shot and she got off of it about a year later and she tried to get pregnant and she couldn't for a while so it takes a good bit for you body to get cal to its recitlar cycle again. well good luck
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17/f
So this guy asked me to the valentines day dance and it's next sat! I'm not gonna lie I really really want to impress him because I'm starting to really like him. We both like eachother but I'm pretty sure I like him more than he does me. He also likes one of my friends and his best girl that's a friend. They talked bout it a while back and don't want a relationship with eachother until way future if ever because they love their friendship. She's told me he likes me and he already knows I like him. He could have asked her to the dance but asked me instead! Also he very artistic and drew me a picture which I love and in his french class made me a card along with making her one but they're just friends and I know this for sure. It wasnon French but he told me what it says and it says be my valentine on the end. Mushy I know but I love that. How can I impress him?! I really like him and want that to be mutual!! Ahh please help! (link)
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Well you never know because every guy is different and they have different ways of being impressed. you should just be yourself and have a good time. look hot be outgoing and dont let there be that akward silence keep the conversation going and have fun
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i smoke a lot, like once a day at least. weed brownies barely work on me or take a while. y is this?
does it have to do with my digestive system?
the same batch work for my friends so is it possiable for me to just wait it out and itll work? (link)
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Well to be honest you probably smoke to much and your used to it. sorry i dont know about that stuff i dont do it
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thank you for answering my question,the reason why they are gettig married is because my cousin is pregnant would that make things worse and is it harder for me to go to San diego now? (link)
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It depends on what kind of financial place they are in if they can afford to take help take care of you and thier baby. and he they have room i guess you'll have to talk to them about it you can always get at least a part time job to take care of yourself and it would probably make you feel better anyways you would not feel like your taking advantage of them
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I'm 17 and I'm on Yasmin and I have been for about 6 months, so far its good!
i just searched my birth control on google curiously and i saw that my birth control is supposably deadly and a lot of people have been hurt from it (liver disease and blood clots) ... above all the other birth controls.
I wanna switch my birth control now, i mean i know its unlikely that ill get health problems with it but you know its something that scares me. but i love this birth control it worked on my skin really well, i didnt gain or loose weight (im like exactly 100 pounds so im pretty small), but my periods still suck.. i have my period now and its not that light and i have pretty bad cramps, i had to leave school early today because they were bugging me pretty bad!
i wanna switch but i heard that its not that easy to switch.
but i have a very small boob size, im actually embarrassed about them. so i want a birth control that will make my boobs bigger.
i need some help with this haha thanks in advance! (link)
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well in sorry i have no advice on the boob concept. but i have heard on this special on tv about that birth control and its definatly not good for you so i would switch if i were you. i have an i-u-d , the merina i got it after i had my son and it works for of really well. they just put this little t shared plastic up in you. you get it checked once after you get it in then you can leave it in for up to five years. i dont really get periods with it anymore if i do its just spotting so its very easy. the only thing is hue heard people have gotten pregnate on it so you a condom any ways but im not sure i've had it for over a year and we dont use protection or anything but just be carefull ask you doctor hope it helps a little let me know if it help
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what would be the best? playstation 3 or xbox 360? (link)
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Well it all depends ps3 you can get online as well as the xbox . but the ps3 has mostly action games so he your really into action and you like to watch blue rays the ps3 is good. thats what we have and it pretty cool
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heyy i recently got a bf and my best friend is now acting all weird. i think its cos i have a bf now and she doesnt seem to like it or is jelous.
everytime i ask her to hang out she always blows me off by saying
"i dnt know i cant plan that far aheacd" or if i say "when can we hang out" she is always saying "i dno"
i try and i try and she just keeps being really cold towards me. i think she has given up. i dnt know what iv done.
she hasnt met my bf and thats becos he lives an hour away and i only see him a few nights a week so i have plenty of time to hang out with her.
im confused, wat should i do? i miss her. but she doesnt seem to care i just look stupid the more i try. help!! :( (link)
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She may feel bad because she has never met him she thinks you guys are falling apart. even though you want to hang out she probably just doesnt feel as close to you because she doesnt know every little thing about whats going on. you should go on a double date help find her someone to go with thats fun so pier not bored and them shell get to meet you boyfriend as well. and in somewhere you can all talk like out to eat. if she's a good friend dont let her go but in sure if she's a good friend shell get over it. good friends are hard to come by so good luck let of know how it goes
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17/F
How much sleep should I be getting? (link)
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You should at least be getting a full 8 hours of sleep each might. if you cant sleep dont take sleeping pills do some research there are other ways
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Hi im a fourteen year old girl and i need help. I have really flat hair and i reallllllllllly want something to put in my hair that just makes it fuller. Iv'e tried almost every shampoo out there and mousse and everything just makes my hair flat and oily. ive been thinking about like an exxtension to make my hair thicker and longer.....but i dont want to do a whole lot of damage to it because i already color it. ive heard of weaves but i dont want to have to cut my hair to get it out or whatever, and ive tried jessica simpson ones and they were kind of cheap but idk if i used it right so if anyone can help i would really appreciate it1!!! thx everyone!! (link)
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Go to sallys hair and beauty supplies store and the have hair extensions made from real hair and they are easy clip ons you can curl them straighten them they are really nice but they are pricey they are around $100 maybe for your bday or something
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Hello im 19 and my boyfriend who is 21 wants to join the army/military. Not full blown army but like working with computers and such. He asked me what i thought yesterday and it was kind of a shock. He said him and one of his friends were talking about joining and he convinced him to go. He basically is just waiting my "approval" but i want him to do what makes him happy. He said after he goes for basic training he will only have to leave one weekend out of the month for like 2 years. Im not really sure how anything works. He just brought this upon me yesterday. The only downfall is that he will be gone for 10 months touring afghanistan or something. We've been together for about 2 years now and 10 months is a long time and i dont think we can go without seeing each other that long. He is basically only going into the army for the money. We are very serious and he said when he comes back he'll have money so we can plan a wedding and maybe some other big stuff. If he goes i dont know how im going to cope with him being gone we see each other every day! Any ideas or suggestions? I do rate!
-Thanks (link)
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You should let him do what makes him happy because it will make you happy in the long run. just let this be a test to see what happens, then imagine how great that feeling will be running up to him after not seeing him for so long. dont worry it will all turn out great. i hope that helps
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I got my second hole (on my ear) pierced last summer. Since then I've changed my earrings about 3 times, but every time i take an earring out of my right ear it bleeds a little.. then i looked in the mirror and there's this tiny pimple-looking bump next to the piercing and it's red. what could this be? there's no pain on the piercing, and only bleeds when i take the earring out. i did have really tight earrings on before, so maybe it's a blister. any ideas?
ANY advice is appreciated :) (link)
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The bump could be i blister or a pimple you may just have really sensitive ears and you cant wear fake jewlery and if you got you hole on the top of your ear that part is even more sensitive . you can try to pour peroxide on it hope it helps
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So i met a new guy on new year's and we've been talking and things seem to be going good. He texts me everyday and we've hungout maybe 5 times since .We were hooking up the other night (just making out) and he tried to go further with me and i said no and he was fine with it and i told him "im not just a hookup,im actually looking for a relationship" and he said "i really do like you,im not an asshole and im not trying to just hookup" So i gave him the benefit of the doubt but i didnt do more than makeout with him..thank god.Ever since then,we've been fine and he would text me and stuff but i'm just still scared that he's only trying to hookup with me . He's been kissing me in front of people and holding my hand and whatnot but i'm just still worried since that's what happend with my last guy.I guess attraction is the first thing in getting to know someone because i just met him about 2 weeks ago so i have to give it time. I'm also wondering if im being to easy..like when he texts me,i always write back and i haven't blown him off to hangout yet..but i haven't done anything more than makeout with him . I basically just need some advice on whats going on so far.I've never had a boyfriend and this is the closest thing ive had to a relationship since my last guy. Thanks so much : ) (link)
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Well you've already it the first step tooken care of telling him your not ready for that so when you guys hang out just to do fun stuff like go out to eat do out door stuff dont stay at home and send him the wrong message just have fun when the moment is right you'll know . just let him know not to put any pressure on you
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Im not overweight but i'd like to lose a few pounds and tone up before summer and graduation. i live in a small town so a gym is out of the question. Im gonna cut in half what i eat everyday and cut out sodas and stuff but i have no idea what to do about getting toned? I live by water so its SUPER cold right now. any advice? (link)
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Well breakfast is th most important meal of the day so eat a good one. then you could get up early and take a run and eat 5 or 6 small meals a day instead of 3 big ones. and do like 50 crunches a day and take it slow. that should help some . good luck
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I'm 18 and a virgin -- no man's penis or fingers had ever entered my vagina. However, once my boyfriend and I were making out and I only had boyshorts on and he only had boxers on, but we didn't dry hump, he only came in contact with me for for less than twenty seconds. I stopped him and after checking himself, he assured me that he was fully dry and hadn't let any cum or "pre-cum" go, but we stopped anyway. I'm still worried that this could somehow make me pregnant. It was only 10 days ago, so it's too early for me to even have a clue. Is there any possibility? (link)
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first you shouldn't have sex untill your 100 % ready but dont phsyc yourself out its highly unlikely for that to happen.
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15/f
okay so i live in Hampstead MD, 21074. and i really want to get a tattoo. my mom is completely chill with it and is going to sign any papers for me to get it done. only thing is, i need a place that will tattoo on 15 year olds. my friend said people with PA licenses will, but idk any parlors around here with PA licenses. soo any places in MD or PA that would tattoo on a 15 year old who has parental consent is greatly appreciated! THANKS :D (link)
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You should try your local flee market. its going to kinda hard most of those shops are low key
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hey,
im planning on going clubbing with some friends. and i have no idea what to wear. i dont like being too showey, but i still want to look good.
any ideas?
thank you. (link)
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Well you could wear skinny jeans with either high heel boots or some really cute high heels with a flirty shirt . dark jeans with black shirt and black shoes is good way to go
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My boyfriend & I want to have sex for the first time soon.
We're both virgins, so I'd like to know what I should be expecting. (Of course we're goign to use protection.) I've heard that the girl's gonna be in pain & the guy's not going to last very long. If this is true, elaborate please? Like how much pain, what will it feel like, abotu how long will he 'last'? (link)
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Im not sure how old you are but you sound to young to have sex. i had sex and i got pregnate at 16 and wd used a condom so now i have a cute bundle of joy but thats not for everyone is that what you really want. but if your still going to do it then ask yourself are you in love with this person and are you going to regret it later he you break up. you might think you will never break tri was like that to and i regret it so think long and hard about this one
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okay so just to warn you this is long.
19/f/nj
Well ive been talking to this kid i went to high school with,we actually started talking about 2 months ago through facebook,text,call. We didnt talk much in school but since we've been talking these last 2 months ive gotten to know him and he seems really great.WE hung out once before college winter break and that was about a month ago.We havent hung out since ive been trying to hang out with him but hes been sick and ive been sick as well but i just feel like its just an excuse to not hang out with me.We talked on the phone about 4 days ago and he seemed still interested in me (I mean we've been texting for the past 2 months almost everyday) he was away at college but he's now going to school close by so that played a role of us not hanging out in the beggining. He usually always texts me first but ive had to do it lately, like we might not talk for one day because i didnt text him and then if i text him the day after that then the day after i text him he will text me. I feel like were in a tennis court going back and forth. He seems to always hang out with his friends and never asks me to hang out since he's been back home. He also got out of long term relationship about 2 months ago. My sister says that he is probably using me as a rebound but we havent even hung out and he talks to me almost everyday so i dont get.I texted him yesterday asking what he was doing he replies with hey! hanging out with my friends how about you? and i said oh i was wondering if you wanted to hang out but alright have fun. But then like on new years i was away on vacation and he wished i was there and said well we have plenty of time to hang out and he always says stuff like that.Im just so confused right now i need advice what do you guys think? is he using me,does he really like me?
thanks! (link)
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I always say be straight up about if ask him he wants to hang out. he might not want to jump right back into a relationship yet. and thats good your not a rebound in that case. give him some time to his friends and them ask to hang out , not in out on a date, hang out. just be his friend maybe thats what he wants
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I dont have much space so I'll try to make this brief... I've been knowing this guy for 5 years. The first year I knew him he tried his hardest to try and get me to be his girlfriend. I always rejected until he gave up and started going out with someone that was actually paying attention to him. They ended up going out for a year and in that year I had also gotten a boyfriend. The guy was upset when he found out since I always told him I didnt want a bf. During that year that we were both in relationships we still kept in touch. when he broke up with her, my bf and i had also broken up. so we started talking again; about 3 months later he tells me his ex had called him and hes confused doesnt know how he feel for her... whatever. I told him he can go figure it out but I wasn't gonna be there... so he would break up with her to come to me and stop talking to me to be with her he was always indecisive so I just stopped talking to him, about a month later he calls apologizing for everything hes put me through,etc. Things were perfect for a couple of months. then i call him to put things on a break because I was busy with school and work, unfortunately i let him speak first and he says he's going to take my advice and just have fun, he was going through something sort of like a depression and i told him to just have fun. I didnt mind we still kept each other posted on what we did through out the day etc. then about a month later he goes away to see his friend for his bday, little did i know that one of our mutual friends that i met through him was going to be there. she had made out with him in the past but they both assured me it was nothing, after i see she had posted the pics on facebook i ask her and after a couple of hours of speaking she admits they made out. i keep seeing she puts pics of them up and idk if its to get me mad or what. a couple of months later we happen to be in the same place at the same time and we go for a walk, he tells me the real reason why him and i stopped talking was because he was getting attached almost falling in love and it had scared him,after that my friends told me i shouldnt see that girl as a threat because maybe hes just using her. we already had 4 years knowing each other/ talking/ being a couple though it was on and off. It just got me upset that it seemed as if he gave her so much attention, even invited her to his school upstate. i shouldve know she always like him because she had applied to the school he was previously in, thank god he had already transferred out. he always calls. texts me randomly and i guess its just to keep me in his radar, but why. I had never had sex with him until a couple of weeks ago and he was actually my first. He's still keeping me at a distance and just bothers me randomly. I had deleted him on facebook but sometimes he writes things about me to his friends or to me through a post on one of our mutual friends pages. he's also been saying unnecessary things about one of my friends that is doing a video blog with one of his friends. I mean I try not pay any mind, to anything and then he would start mentioning my name... very immature acts. idk if he does these things to get my attention or what so i act like if it doesnt bother me and just ignore it. I just wish he would come to his senses and just commit. and whats the point of these immature comments? and whats the point of that stupid girl that he did something with? (link)
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Well first of all that girl seems like nothing but trouble. there could be a couple of different reasons why your friend is acting that way. maybe he is sacred to commit to one person you should talk to him face to face about it dont be shy because if you cant talk to him about this you should be together in th long run. you want some one who you can communicate with easily. its also not a good sign if he used another girl because that means he could be taking advantage of your friendship so be carefull. at the same time everyone makes mistakes you need to think hard can you see a future with him is, that what you want.
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