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Does he like me or not? playing hard to get?
okay so just to warn you this is long.
19/f/nj
Well ive been talking to this kid i went to high school with,we actually started talking about 2 months ago through facebook,text,call. We didnt talk much in school but since we've been talking these last 2 months ive gotten to know him and he seems really great.WE hung out once before college winter break and that was about a month ago.We havent hung out since ive been trying to hang out with him but hes been sick and ive been sick as well but i just feel like its just an excuse to not hang out with me.We talked on the phone about 4 days ago and he seemed still interested in me (I mean we've been texting for the past 2 months almost everyday) he was away at college but he's now going to school close by so that played a role of us not hanging out in the beggining. He usually always texts me first but ive had to do it lately, like we might not talk for one day because i didnt text him and then if i text him the day after that then the day after i text him he will text me. I feel like were in a tennis court going back and forth. He seems to always hang out with his friends and never asks me to hang out since he's been back home. He also got out of long term relationship about 2 months ago. My sister says that he is probably using me as a rebound but we havent even hung out and he talks to me almost everyday so i dont get.I texted him yesterday asking what he was doing he replies with hey! hanging out with my friends how about you? and i said oh i was wondering if you wanted to hang out but alright have fun. But then like on new years i was away on vacation and he wished i was there and said well we have plenty of time to hang out and he always says stuff like that.Im just so confused right now i need advice what do you guys think? is he using me,does he really like me?
thanks!
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I always say be straight up about if ask him he wants to hang out. he might not want to jump right back into a relationship yet. and thats good your not a rebound in that case. give him some time to his friends and them ask to hang out , not in out on a date, hang out. just be his friend maybe thats what he wants
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There's only one way to tell if he really likes you. Stop being the first one to text/call him. Wait and let him text/call you. If you are always the pursuer, you will never know if he REALLY wants to be with you. If you are the one always asking to hang out, you will never know if HE wants to hang out with you. My personal feeling....though it may be hard to do, is to back off and see if he comes to you. If he does, you will know he is sincere. If he doesn't....then I would say that's a good indication he isn't really interested. I wish you good luck with all this. You are in a difficult situation.
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