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New guy finally!
So i met a new guy on new year's and we've been talking and things seem to be going good. He texts me everyday and we've hungout maybe 5 times since .We were hooking up the other night (just making out) and he tried to go further with me and i said no and he was fine with it and i told him "im not just a hookup,im actually looking for a relationship" and he said "i really do like you,im not an asshole and im not trying to just hookup" So i gave him the benefit of the doubt but i didnt do more than makeout with him..thank god.Ever since then,we've been fine and he would text me and stuff but i'm just still scared that he's only trying to hookup with me . He's been kissing me in front of people and holding my hand and whatnot but i'm just still worried since that's what happend with my last guy.I guess attraction is the first thing in getting to know someone because i just met him about 2 weeks ago so i have to give it time. I'm also wondering if im being to easy..like when he texts me,i always write back and i haven't blown him off to hangout yet..but i haven't done anything more than makeout with him . I basically just need some advice on whats going on so far.I've never had a boyfriend and this is the closest thing ive had to a relationship since my last guy. Thanks so much : )
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Well you've already it the first step tooken care of telling him your not ready for that so when you guys hang out just to do fun stuff like go out to eat do out door stuff dont stay at home and send him the wrong message just have fun when the moment is right you'll know . just let him know not to put any pressure on you
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I don't think you should worry he wouldn't of said
he's not a asshole and that he wasn't trying to hookup if it wasn't true so yes i think he's telling the truth and isn't lieing to you i don't think your being easy if you two didn't get along or weren't doing the things you are doing then you'd have a reason to worry just because your last boy was like that doesn't exactly mean that the one your with now will be the same every boy is different everything seems to be going good for you so just continue with what your doing it seems to be working(:
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