My bf and i have been together for about 7 months
and he's asked me to give him a blow job
he's my first bf and haven't done it before so im not sure how it's done any certain way a guy likes it done? His penis is not real big is that better for a blow job? im 15
Oh hm... well all guys are different in what they like. Just don't feel you have to fit the whole penis in your mouth, because you don't, and most people can't without tickling the back of the throat, which can make you gag. You can ask your guy to help you please him best by asking him to show you how he likes to be stroked with his own hand, and by letting him know to tell you when he likes something you're doing. Make sure not to bite or scrape with your teeth too much, or to rub the penis with a dry (non-lubricated) hand, as neither is very pleasurable for most men. Hope this helped.
- LIVEY
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the first time i got fingered i started bleeding i mean i wasent poreing out blood but still what happened? did he pop my cherry?
Yeah you probably did. When the hymen is separated during vaginal penetration there may be some slight bleeding and a little pain. Both the bleeding and the pain are quite normal and both usually stop after a short time. Additionally, if a woman was penetrated with fingers then there is the possibility that her partner's fingernails may have scraped the vaginal wall. If this is the case it is possible to develop an infection if the condition is not treated. Hope this helped.
- LIVEY
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I have never actually made out with someone and i can tell mi boyfriend and i r gonna do it soon. Plz if u have any ints or tricks i would realli appriciate it!
The first time I made out wasn't too long ago and I was nervous that I'd do it wrong but he said I was good. So really all I can say is just go with the flow and let him take the lead and it will turn out good, I promise. Sorry I don't have too much to say but hope this helped.
Oh yeah and when your making out with him try touching his hair and stuff. They like that. And slip him a little toungue, only if you want though.
- LIVEY
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ok im not fat or anything i weight 103 but i think i have some extra tummy fat that i dont want what should i eat and do to lose it?
Try not to eat as much junk food, eat more fruits and vegetables. And try to eat things with fiber. Don't drink anything with caffeine and drink lots of water. Try doing crunches at night too. Hope this helped.
- LIVEY
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What are your spiritual beliefs? How did you come to believe in them (or not)?
I'm a christian, catholic to be exact. And to tell you the truth most kids and people when it comes to their beliefs it is influenced by their parents. Anyone can tell you that, but I think thats where a lot of it comes from.
- LIVEY
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does anyone know of zit cleansers,creams,or pads whatever for oily face please help i donno what to try
Cleaners - I use Loreal Pure Zone Step One (Unclogging Pore Cleanser) in the morning and Medicated St. Ives Scrub at night and out of all the washes I've used I'd say they're the best.
At night I put calamine lotion on my problem spot(s) and it works pretty well. Hope I helped.
- LIVEY
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my cousin is really nice, but i think i might like him more than just family, is that wrong or am i just liking him cause he's my friend?
-clueless and creeped out
I don't think its too creepy. You're just getting really close to him and its starting to develop in feelings. You shouldn't try to take it any farther than as just friends though, but you probably already know that lol. If it makes you feel any better I used to have some feelings for my cousin, but that eventually stopped. Hope this helped :-)
- LIVEY
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Sorry... this is a sex question and there are somewhat graphic content. Not really bad but if you're young, you might not want to read this. Please only OLDER columnists answer this. I don't want advice from an inexperienced 13-14 year old. Someone who knows what I'm going through would help. And so... here's my question....
Hey, I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16. Yesterday I was at his house and we were doing sexual things and then I told him to go get a condom. (he uses them normally for self pleasure so it doesn't get anywhere...) So he went upstairs and got it but when he came back down I was crying. I don't know why I was crying. I really feel like I'm ready to have sex with him. We've been together for 2 years and we love eachother very much. It's weird though, I know that I'm physically and emotionally ready to do it it's just that, whenever we are about to, I get scared. Is this normal? Can anyone help me out?
PS- I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we both want to lose our virginity to eachother.
Okay sorry for what I said really, but i just go off when someone judges by my age because its happened so much with people online who dont even know me. You can say I'm rude but I take it personally when people dont know me and have no clue what I've been through. I really am sorry and if you're mature enough you'll understand. And I have been through a lot for my age and undertsand a lot. Again sorry.
- LIVEY
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if you give ur bf a hand job and then he has the cum like on his hands and then he like goes yano "down there" can u get pregnant? oh ya can u get pregnant if ur hieman isnt broken? and how do u know for sure if its broken or not ... please answer, i rate*
Yes because until sperm dries out and dies, it can get a woman pregnant. Even if a male allows a small amount of semen to come near the vaginal opening or if he transfers semen to the vagina by hand, then pregnancy can occur. While sperm does not survive for very long on clothing or hands it can live up to five days inside the female's body. Hope I helped.
- LIVEY
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umm...why would u wanna swallow the cum when u giv head?? i think taht is just really sick. i don't think i can do it to my bf. and im not sure wat he wants me to do. i hav also heard that u can get hiv or usmthin from swallowing cum or can get a STD. is this true? and wats sooo great bout swallowing cum from a guy? i would rather just giv head and use a condom. that way i dotn hav to taste it or nething. wat would b best? o im 13/f (and not a slut. im a virgin and ive never gave head and ive been wit my bf for 3 years!!)
Its not all that great and yes you can get STDs. Don't feel forced to give him head if you don't want to. If you decide to though, definitely make him use a condom. Hope I helped :-)
- LIVEY
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If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant?
If you're a virgin than you can't get pregnant.. inless of course you get fingered after a guy has wacked off becuase when he sticks his fingers up you, there can be left over cum on his hands still, and if the cum is still alive it can get you pregnant. But its not likely. But yeah like I said thats the only way you can get pregnant if you're a virgin. Hope I helped :-)
- LIVEY
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I am confused can you get pregant by precum
Yes you can :-/
- LIVEY
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Does anyone know what Tienes amigos? means
Also what Como estas hoy?
Help!!! i need it asap!
Como estas hoy means "How are you today?" Sorry don't know what the other one is. Hope I helped though.
- LIVEY
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im 14 and my penis is quite small and im a bit worried does it matter to girls?
It depends on the girl. Some girls don't mind and some do. (Personally I don't mind.) But did you know that only 3 inches inside a girls vagina has nerve... and the rest doesn't. So its not like it will matter in bed or have a feel in difference. I wouldn't worry too much about it though, k :-) Hope I helped.
- LIVEY
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I was just wonderin, what are some obvious hints or nost popular hints that a guy likes you?
Usually they'll be all touchy feely with you and just the usual flirting, and they'll look at you a lot. But it kinda depends on the guy.
- LIVEY
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Hey, I cant find the name to this song, whats the name and the artist. The lyric i know is: All i can say is that my life is pretty plain, i like to watch the puddles gather rain.
Thanks!
No Rain by Blind Melon. Good song. Hope I helped.
- LIVEY
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Please don't take this as condescending in any way, but I just wanted you to know that I find your advice very caring and wise for a person of your age. Your straight forward, yet compassionate, approach to helping people is going to take you far in this life. Keep up the good work!
Thankyou so much :-)
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Theres this girl at my church who also goes to my school. No one sits with her at lunch, and im absolutly sure she doesnt have any friends. She might have some problems, im not sure. (Mentally)
Thing is i know my friends would make fun of her because she looks different. Its eatting away at me everyday to think i could be making her life better. i rate. *Megz*
Hm, I'd sit by her and maybe talk to her. And if your friends would be all wierd about you sitting beside her than forget them. I'm sure it would mean a lot to her and could make a big difference. She could also have social anxiety becuase I know a girl like that, that has absolutely no friends and she sits beside herself at lunch and never talks... its really sad.
- LIVEY
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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?
No if he wears 2 condoms its more likely to break than from wearing 1. So please don't do that.
Some TIPS:
Use a latex condom during anal, vaginal, and oral sex.
Use only water-based lubricants such as K-Y jelly, Prepair, or Wet. Apply lubricants as needed.
When putting a condom on, pinch the reservoir tip so that there is no air bubble when you unroll the condom.
Keep condoms stored at room temperature. Do not expose them to temperature extremes. The latex can weaken.
Do not use condoms that have expired. Condoms have a certain shelf life as latex breaks down over time.
And I know most people are saying its okay to double up on it but they probably just don't understand that it increases the chances of breaking. I read it on some health/sex sites. So please believe me. Hope I helped.
- LIVEY
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Hey, i'm 13 years old. When i wake up...my breasts hurt......is this normal for me? i read somewhere that maybe it's cuz i'm gettin ready to start my period, which i am.....but still...i need advice or whatever...from a girl plez tho......ASAP
Yeah, its also because you're breasts are probably growing. I had this too. Its completely normal. No worries :-)
- LIVEY
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