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stupid friends
Theres this girl at my church who also goes to my school. No one sits with her at lunch, and im absolutly sure she doesnt have any friends. She might have some problems, im not sure. (Mentally)
Thing is i know my friends would make fun of her because she looks different. Its eatting away at me everyday to think i could be making her life better. i rate. *Megz*
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You should sit with her at lunch one day. Helping someone make thier life better isn't going to make your friends make fun. Explain to them that this girl needs some help and go sit with her, and maybe become her friend.
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take a stand, sit with her, or invite her to sit with you. At church or at school, lunch, class, anything !! And if your friends make fun of her yell at them !! Who cares what they think?? How would THEY like it if they didnt have alot of friends. They're going to have to understand, or their just mean people :-/
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Aww that's sad. I don't think you should care what your friends think..You could invite her over to sit with the people that you sit with at lunch. Or you and your friends could go sit with her. If they have a problem, then tell them to shut up and back off =)
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don't let your life fall apart because of one person. the best thing to do would be to go sit with her at lunch to see what she is like. tell your friends what you are doing and if they are true friends, they will understand. just try to be patient. if it becomes a bigger issue, let me know. i am sure i will have something up my sleeve.
hope i help :)
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Here's what I say: Try to talk to the girl, sit with her at lunch one day. If your friends make too much of a fuss about it, then screw them. They're SO not worthy of your friendship. You seem like a great person for trying to make this girl's life better, while they aren't for making it worse.
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Hm, I'd sit by her and maybe talk to her. And if your friends would be all wierd about you sitting beside her than forget them. I'm sure it would mean a lot to her and could make a big difference. She could also have social anxiety becuase I know a girl like that, that has absolutely no friends and she sits beside herself at lunch and never talks... its really sad.
- LIVEY
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you should always help in a helping hand no matter what! she needs you she just isnt saying or showing it inside she needs you badly talk to her and if your friends dont accept it then they need to.
hope it works out
B (lala)
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the joy of popularity haha, maybe you could mention to your friends at lunch one day what they feel about her, they might also feel bad for her and think maybe it was a good idea to invite her to sit with you one day, you could always talk to her in church too, just saying hi to someone can make them smile
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heY hUN! well thats super sweet of u 2 be concerned about this girl! i couldnt imagine having no friends and sitting alone at lunch everyday! that would be so humuilating! ur right.... u could make her life better! now... i'm not saying u have 2 become bff wit her and call her every night and have sleepovers with her... just cuz u feel bad 4 her but u should definately acknowldge her. if she goes 2 ur church that should make it easier for u 2 talk 2 her one on one. ask her about her fav. bands, stores and sports.... say hey 2 her in the halls and maybe even invite her 2 sit with u at lunch! (believe me she will WORSHIP u for that) if ur worried what ur friends will think... dont! if she maybe has some mental problems then they definately should not be making fun of her. convince them that this girl is pretty cool and she obviously has a hard life so try 2 be nice 2 her! Ur a SwEEtHeArt! hope i helped! xOxO, aLeX
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i've had similar experiences .. if this girl goes to your church then you should absolutely sit with her! you could make her day! you just have to not care what your friends think for a while and ask yourself "What Would Jesus Do?" I know that may be hard because i've been there and you're always worried about what your friends may think/say. but if you know you're doing the right thing (by sitting with her) then who cares? who knows, she could turn out to be an awesome friend and your friends will think so too and you all could be friends together =)
hope i helped girl =)
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Hey!I think that you should try to talk and hang out w/ her. Thats cool that your thinkin about it! I had to do that once. Well i didn't have to but i did. There was this girl and she dressed differently and her hair wasn't always the nicest and all that...but I sat w/ her at lunch and hung out w/ her on breaks. She was pretty cool and I think i made her feel a whole lot better! So I def. think you should do it. GOOD LUCK THO! And if you do do it remember your making someones life a whole lot better by giving her a friend..
:x:o: Tasha
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What the hell? Why do you care? Really. Is it going to hurt anyone if you just say hello to this girl? Who cares what your friends think, they're jerks if they make fun of someone else anyways.
If you want to, say hi to this girl, sit with her - do whatever it is you think is best. Don't treat her like she needs your pity though, treat her like you would want someone to treat you - normal. Don't befriend this girl just to make yourself feel better, do it because you actually want to be a friend to her.
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