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Well heres the thing at school i am not popular and im not dorky either im right in te middle. but see i dress preppy to get the popular kids to like me but yet i wanna be diffrent. like a part of me wants me to dress a little bit punkish.and i could pull that off. iwant to be punk but the more i think of it i still wanna be popular but i never will be. theres this guy i like andi kno w he likes punk girls but i dont want people at school calling me a poser and my friend is a cheer leader and i dont want her to not like me cus im a punk. what shud i do? (link)
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dear lables,
you should want to dress the way you want and you should dress the way you want. no one is stopping you. besides, if your friend doesn't like you because you are a little punkish, then she isn't a real friend. eventually, if you keep your cool, and you just be you, soon enough, you'll have friends that like you for who you are
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I have always been worried about how i look in a bathing suit. This December i am going on a cruise and i really would like to look great in a 2 piece. Does anyone know any good work outs or diets i could go on just to shed some pounds in time for it so i dont look weird. (Most of the problem is my stomach and my legs) PLEASE HELP! (link)
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dear two-piece,
you're being too self consiouse, but if you must know, don't go on a no-carb diet! you need carbs, do sixty crunches every day, twenty in the morning right after breakfast, twenty in the afternoon (if you arent home then just wait til you get home) and twenty at night right before you go to bed. do you have a treadmill? go on that for a few hours every other day or even every day. if you don't have a treadmill, try and go runnning everymorning (or everyother) get into sports and try and do as best as you can. I know this seems like a lot,but it really isn't. if you want you can do 30 crunches everyday 10 in the morning and sooo on. crunches are not sit ups! sit ups are VERY bad for your back, ask someone you know about how to do crunches because it is very hard to explain.
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I just recently moved out of my house and into my uncles house and he is a hardcore Christian man and believes that anything not christian is "of the devil", I myself am a follower of the old pagan type religions and he kind of found out and alwayz makes little jabs at me for not believing in god and tells me im going to hell and i dont know how to deal with it..if i tell him that i dont believe in god, he might kick me out of his house....what should i do...pretend not to believe what i do or tell him to stop? (link)
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dear not god believer,
even I am dissapointed taht you dont believe in god, i am not trying to make you feel bad, but i am sort of a hard core christian too, and your father is right, you might go to you no where, but at least that is what my religion says. just give it time and if that doesn't help, ask him to stop and use the word PLEASE! if you jsut loose it, your dad won't throw you out of his house if he loves you, and practically ALL dads do love their, daughters/sons. but if he does kick you out (i highly doubt it) you can always go back with your uncle
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I'm 14 / f .. I currently reside in PA. Well, the past 5 weeks have been the best weeks of my life because I haven't had to go to piano lessons. I know its a stupid theory but here goes. I hate PIANO! SO MUCH, i wasn't forced to start, but when i was 11 my best friend did it, and i wanted to be exactly like her, so i joined it. my grades have been suffering, and i think its because of piano, on sundays-wednesdays i worry about my piano lesson because my teacher is so mean. i wanna quit so bad, but how should i tell my mom, i think she knows i want to, but. i don't want her getting disapointed because i already quit band this yr because i didn't like it, she spent 1,000 dollars on a piano and shes been payin 12 dollars a week to let me go for like 3 years, what should i tell her? any help will get 5! (link)
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dear piano,
this happend to me before. i went to gymnastics and the people were sooo mean. anytime i did a little dance and act crazy, the people in my group would say i had issues, but when this other girl did it, they laughed so hard they could hardly breath, i was better than half the girls there, but the teacher never noticed, she was too busy laughing. so, i told my mom right after gymnastics that i didn't want to do it and i was sick of it because i got no credit, my mom didn't care because that meant that she didn't have to pay so much money, so do that with your mom. tell her the truth, tell her WHY you want to quit. tell her why you think your grades are suffering and she will understand, if she doesn't tell me, i will think of something
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What does the term i.e. mean? Does it mean something like "For example"? I'm not sure. If you could help me out that'd be great. (link)
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dear i.e.,
yes, ie is another way of saying, for example
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ive had a really rough year. just when it seems like things will get better, they get worse. ive thought about suicide and have tried taking pills and cutting myself (only once though). im never happy anymore and when im by myself i cry a lot. i think i need help. how do i change myself? i wanna be happy like i used to, but nothing can make this feeling inside of me go away. (link)
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Dear depressed,
don't ever even bring the thought of killing yourself to mind! your parents made you for a reason! think of how depressed THEY would be if you comitted suicide. try taking naps-i know it sound stupid, but sometimes, if you don't get enough sleep at night, you can become discouraged and things like that, taking a nap will give you a chance to rebuild your energy.
Also, try keeping a journal. it will help you get things off your chest. if that doesn't work, w/e you do DO NOT TAKE DRUGS, CUT YOUR SELF, COMITT SUICIDE OR ANYTHING ELSE TO HURT YOURSELF if i didn't help email me and i will do watever i can to help
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I just got my belly button pierced today and when i went to clean it out i was going to use safegaurd soap... but it was a deoderant soap to or something, and has a little scent, do you think that its going ot hurty my belly button n all because it has a scent?
Thanks so much. (link)
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dear piercing,
no, i don't think having a scent to it will hurt your belly button, but i also think you should talk to someone like the person who pierced your bellybutton. i suggest you should also use a different soap, i am not very sure what kind but like i said, ask the person who pierced it. They will probably know how to clean it and what to clean it with...
hope i helped
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15/f god sometimes i hate myself. im really outgoing when im around my best friends and the people i've known my whole life. but when i meet new people i act all weird. tonight we had a football game and my new friend invited me to hang out with her friends. so when i first met them i was all cool and outgoing, but then we sat on the bleachers and i didnt say a word and they talked. the whole night i just sat there. cause i had nothing to say except random stuf. and everytime i talked they were like shocked to hear me actually say something. i seriously wanted to run away and die. now im afraid theyre gonna think im boring. i dont know what to do......... (link)
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dear embarrassed,
you shouldn't care that much whether those people like you or not. life is way too short to worry about things like that. but if you are that afraid that they don't like you, go ahead and ask your friend how she thought you acted and see if her friends said anything about you. try and talk to them and say, sorry i acted a little crummy at the game. i am usually really outgoing and fun and etc. if that doesn't work, tell me and i will give you sum more tips...
good luck
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i like making comics. what are some good tips for writing and drawing them? thanx! =) (link)
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dear comics,
try looking in the newspaper. the newspaper has a variety of jokes that you can use. plus, you can try and study the different types of styles people write in. if that doesn't work, why not try going online and finding tips there.
just an idea!
hope i helped!
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how do u french braid?? im having a sleep over and i wanna do someones hair like that for our game on tuesday :o) (link)
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dear french braid,
french braids are HARD! but i am sure that you can find a book about it or you can go online and find seomthing about it there. if not, why don't you ask one of your friends if they can teach you. if that doesn't work, what about someone from your family, and if that doesn't work, i am all out of ideas, sorry!
hope i helped...
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hiii...umm, can anyone help me? i need to train my jack russell terrier (hel be one year on the 22nd) to stay away from my dad. every time he gets close to my dad, hell kick him, or hit him, or punch him, etc. I've watched this for too long and I can absolutely take it no longer. i mean like, my little dog means the world to me! i just love him alot and i want him to be happy. last time my dad hit him he stayed in the other half of our house in the corner all day, and he was crying. it will be hard to train him to stay away and this is gonna be hard. jack russells are very active, and mine loves everyone, unfortanitly. :-\..does neone have any advice? thank you (link)
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dear doggy problems,
if this keeps up, your doggy will eventually learn to stay away from your dad. but of course, no one likes to see a innocent dog get hurt. talk to your dad, find him in a happy mood, when it is quiet too. try and get into the subject, for example, to switch to the subject say, isn't our doggie so adorable! then get into a conversation and try and end up asking the question, dad why do you kick the dog everytime he/she goes near you. you will eventually hear why he does that and then you can ask him to stop. wherever the situation turns, you can always put a little bell on his collar so that way you will know where he is at all times, and if he happens to get near your dad, GET HIM AWAY! you know you can't stand seeing your doggie get hurt, so keep it from happening!
hope i helped!
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hey does anyone know where you get those bracelets that you wear and you make a wish and when the bracelet falls off the wish comes true? just wondering...I saw that on tv a long time ago and I thought it sounded cool. thanks. :) (link)
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Dear wish bracelets,
i think i heard of those before, actually, i know how to make them. you can get books about it-i think.
please dont rate this
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I guess i should put this under sports, but do any of you know if stores are still selling the Nike ID Baller Bracelets? (link)
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Dear, nike ID baller bracelets,
please don't rate this
i think i know what you are talking about. i heard that you can get them online, like you can get 100 for $20. but i don't know exactly what website. besides i only *heard* i don't know. i didn't give you much adivice did i? ? ?
sorry
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I recently started a club at my school for left handed people and I'm having trouble coming up with things to do. Any suggestions? (link)
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dear club for left handend people...
personally, i think you should make a special school newspaper thats called, Lefties in the News, or something. It can be all about some things just going on around school or maybe just some things going on arount the world, (like the presedential stuff.) Maybe you can even get your principal into it, you can ask her if you can use the school copier to make copies of your paper, she can also tell you things comeing up in the school year that is new to people.
just an idea, hope i helped...
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Umm yea my dad past away on september 25 if 2003 and lately people have been saying how much they hate their dads because they wont give them everything they want and i can't help but flip out on them and i feel bad for it but they dont understand...my dad was never there for me and we only talked like 3 times my whole life and i am 16 years old and, i was in foster care and 2 weeks before my dad passed away he told the judge he would take me and then he got in an accident and died what do i do
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life is hard. everyone knows that. but life is short too. try to have a bit of fun just chillin with your friends everyonce and a while! also KEEP A JOUNRAL. it is hard when you loose your father, VERY HARD. a journal will help you express your feelings. if you are mad, write that down, write why you are mad, you could even draw a picture. i sereously hope i helped. tell me if i didn't!
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i have a problem its not that big though. I like a boy for maybe 2 years and now i still a little do but not that much. And i think he likes me back. And i am a shy person and the only thing it that i dont even know him. What do i do? (link)
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i am so so soooo sorry. i have never gone out on a date really or anything, so i can't really give you any "good" advice. all i can say is that you should get to know him. maybe you and some of your friends could sit around him at lunch or something. tell me how that works.
hope i help
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I'm 13 years old and I can't ride a two-wheeler. I'm the only person in teh school that can't ride one.
When some of my friends say they're going on a bike ride, I say I can't go.
I don't have a bike and I don't know who to go to to learn or how to learn because I've already tried learning with my parents and it didn't work. (link)
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every one learns at different paces. for example i am in seventh grade and someone in my class couldn't read the word "I" I can see you aren't as stupid as him though.
do your friends know that you don't know how to ride a two wheeler? if they don't you should tell them. If they treat you disrespectfully after you tell them, they were DEFINATELY not true friends. If they understand you and maybe even offer to help you, say yes! But if they understand you and they don't offer to help you, go ahead and ask them.
here is something else...
if you choose not to tell your friends, why not try and ask your parents for help again. besides, everyone knows learning to ride a two wheeler is HARD! also, you might be giving up too fast. try to be as patient as possible. hope i helped, and if i didn't , email me again and i will try and help you as much as i can!
sorry i wrote so much!
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I'm 13. I have 5 pairs of shorts, 2 pairs of pants, 5 shirts and 2 sets of pJ's.
I keep asking and asking my mom to take me out shopping, but she always keeps saying no. I get in trouble at school a lot because my shorts are to short and my pants are too tight, but I can't help it if my mom never takes me shopping!
How do I get her to take me out shopping? (link)
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did you tell your mom the problems you are having? maybe you have been asking at the wrong times. try finding her when it is a nice and quiet and she is in a good mood.
try that. if it doesn't help PLEASE dont hesitate to ask for more info. my door is always open!
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i dont know what to put this under .. but my back is KILLING me .. its like my upper back and idk it feels like someone is stabbing me in the back its all along my shoulders .. (link)
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oh my goodness!
you should see somebody and talk to somebody
get your mom or dad to take you to a chyropractor, it will help you for sure!
tell me if i helped, and if i didn't, i think i have some more tips...
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my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?
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some people are just that way. you need to relax and let it go...
if you want ally to come over sometime just ask your mom if she can call and ask so you don't have to deal with the pressure. or... why don't you tell your mom about your problem, ask your mom about how you don't feel comfortable around her friend. the best time to ask your mom would probably be a queit time, when she is alone and calm. talk to your mom slowly and gently. maybe you can plan a day to meet up with your moms friend and you can take back what you said that was mean of her. you can see if there is anything you can do to make up for what you said.
hope i helped
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