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My Best Friend's Mom HATES ME
my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?
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look, best friend's mom can be hard... i don't blame you,but even if she crossed the line so did you, i am not taking sides but what would you feel if ally said the same thing about your mom?
you would feel bad ....so my point is don't ignore just face it and apologies if she didn't forgive you then just be nice to her ... i mean if i was her i would be mad!
here is an advice if you think that by gossiping with your best friend just know that even if no one is around that doesn't give you the right to gossip,but in the end god is always watching so we are never alone!
hope it helps you :)
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this is a hard one...i think that you should try and talk to your friends mom..try to starighten some things out...and if that doesnt work then well jus iono sit bac n see if her moms attitude towards u changes at all
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Tell her mom that you want to be friends with her because you two have a special friendship, and you can't not be her friend. A mother shouldn't tear a friendship apart.
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the thing i would do is never talk about your best friends mom. how do you think that makes your best friend feel? umm..the 2nd thing i would do is go talk to her mom. i mean come on. who wants to be talked about. if i was her mom i wouldnt let you be friends with my kid either. sorry, but thats just immature to talk about other folks. especially when they are their PARENTS. go talk to her MoM! *Bethers*
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okay.. well.. a lot of mai friends parents dont like me either.. and idn.. maybe.. you oculd rite her mum a letter.. like... apoligizing.. or call her.. and try to convince her.. one of mai friends and mai mum were having a problem.. and she called mai mum and rote a letter.. and mai mum started liking her again.. so.. yeah.. :D
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Well, just apologize to her mom. I'm sure she will understand. Or if she still "hates" you after you apologize, just don't bother her and she won't bother you.
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some people are just that way. you need to relax and let it go...
if you want ally to come over sometime just ask your mom if she can call and ask so you don't have to deal with the pressure. or... why don't you tell your mom about your problem, ask your mom about how you don't feel comfortable around her friend. the best time to ask your mom would probably be a queit time, when she is alone and calm. talk to your mom slowly and gently. maybe you can plan a day to meet up with your moms friend and you can take back what you said that was mean of her. you can see if there is anything you can do to make up for what you said.
hope i helped
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I think that the most important thing to remember is that your best friend's Mom is not just a mom, she is also a person. So, although she did "cross the line" by listening in to your conversation, as a human being it is never fun to hear someone saying bad things about you. And while her inital decision that you couldn't be friends was, indeed, harsh, at least she reconsidered and was able to recognize her overreaction.
If you are okay with being in your friend's life without going to her house, then I think you should consider yourself lucky that her Mom changed her mind at all. If you want to be welcome in your best friend's house again, then perhaps you could write a letter to her Mom apologizing for disrespecting her.
You don't have to be fake and say things that you don't mean, but you could state that you know you need to show her respect as Ally's mother and that you regret any upset you may have caused to her and to Ally. If you are sincere and you are a good friend to her daughter, chances are you can win her over and she will eventually accept your apology and welcome you back into her home. But don't forget... it is HER home and she does have the right to expect to be shown respect and treated with courtesy while you are in it (no matter what you really think of her). Best of luck to you.
Kind wishes,
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that is horror! have your mom talk to her that is like stalking chica
hope it works out
B (lala)
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try getting back on her moms good side cause if her mom dont trust u as her friend she wont let her out to do stuff wit u becuase shes gonna consider u a bad kid and that makes u feel like shit believe me my friends mom hates me too and i cant even look at her mom wen i see her somehwere cuase i feell like shit so try talking to her mom and sound matue about it tel her that oh i was stupid fo sayin that im really sorry if i offended u or ur daugther but i was immautre and it wnt happen again and that this made me think and stuff moms bluff she'll fall for that lol
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oh this happens, im sorry, mothers love to over do it sometimes, a few of my best freinds moms dont like me eithor, and i dont know why! ive never even talked bad about them! but if your friend ali still wants to be friends with you then you shouldnt try and worry about it, her mom probably wont hold a grude eithor, just give her sometimes and ali time to talk it out with your mom, everything will be fine
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1 thing is her mom is a biotch! :-D u should ask her why she hates u so much and try to change why she does without changing yourself; u shouldnt talk about her cuz that isnt nice at all
hangout with ally but try to be nice to her mother when ever u have too see her
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forget her! she has made itr up in her mind that she doesntlike u. and thats that. so u should just make plans to go other places and have her come over to ur house. just totally avoid her mom and hope for the best!!
XoxO Alissa-Marie
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Her mom was nice saying that but I think you should ignore her mom now.. Let ally go to your house, and hang out at other places...u dont have to go to her house..Just ignore her mom..
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